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go.drcocchiola.com/coercivecont...
LIVE Virtual or Self-Study

12.09.2025 03:11 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I was young (16 when I met him), and grew up in a loving home. I didn’t know the red flags of an abusive relationship. He received that mask as a gag the night before our wedding. It was an omen.

10.08.2025 23:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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A Conversation on Coercive Control with the Two Dr. C’s Podcast Episode Β· Perfect Prey Podcast Β· 11/01/2024 Β· 33m

Such an honor to have this treasured episode with Dr. Andrew Cicchetti. He would have been 60 on July 20th. He is dearly missed. ❀️https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/perfect-prey-podcast/id1704962170?i=1000675339361

06.08.2025 14:47 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

C’est vrai. The sorrow of our time. Tentacles in everything, spoiling it all. But we see you, don’t we? You’ll run out of hidey-holes.

06.05.2025 04:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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This is so very true.
I know because it happened to me.
Once an abuser loses control of the victim, they work overtime to get that control back.
My abuse got worse after I walked away.
But I needed to walk away. It was the only option.
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19.05.2025 03:03 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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It is ALL coercive control. Even the most astute of us can miss the signs.
youtu.be/gp2qByKOue4?...

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25.05.2025 10:41 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Could You Be 'Framed'? New Book Exposes How Domestic Abuse Victims Are Set Up in Family Court In their groundbreaking new book, Framed: Women in the Family Court Underworld, Dr. Christine M. Cocchiola and Amy Polacko expose the gender biased injustice in family courts. Through the stories of 2...

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14.06.2025 09:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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True!
Hoping and praying for this day.
Education on abuse dynamics, and coercive control are needed. Even when laws are passed, or changed, they're still not being followed, or acknowledged in #familycourt
It's few, and far between.
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09.06.2025 19:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you. It’s so true.

14.06.2025 09:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Survivors sharing with us is an honor. It's taken them all they have to share their story. It's a horror story. And it's not up to you to decide how the survivor "Should have told their story." If it didn't happen to you, then keep your mouth shut. Have patience and listen!
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09.06.2025 19:38 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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It is ALL coercive control.
#mariecouldbeme
#mariecouldbeyou

Full TEDx link found in bio and here: youtu.be/gp2qByKOue4?...

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It is ALL coercive control.
β€œMarie” could be me. β€œMarie” could be you. Check out my TEDx where I describe coercive control.
#mariecouldbeme
#mariecouldbeyou
Abuse MUST be redefined such that includes these features too:

05.05.2025 23:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
It’s All Coercive Control | Christine Cocchiola | TEDxUTulsa
YouTube video by TEDx Talks It’s All Coercive Control | Christine Cocchiola | TEDxUTulsa

youtu.be/gp2qByKOue4

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I’m honored to be a part of the Love and Money Summit with 30 other speakers. I will speaking on the Cult in the Home: Children of Coercive Control. Thank you @tracycoenen for creating this opportunity going live on March 25th to March 27th. Sign up here: divorcemoneyguide.com/summit/

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Abusers start Day One. They know what matters most to the protective parent and will use children as weapons. It’s time to recognize how a harmful person can show up as a decent human being.

01.03.2025 04:02 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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27.02.2025 12:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
When the Victim Escapes, the Coercive Control Will Intensify
YouTube video by Dr. Christine Cocchiola When the Victim Escapes, the Coercive Control Will Intensify

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youtu.be/dTA99QvLUSg?...

25.02.2025 13:56 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

We could end generations of trauma if we protected children from abusers - protection - even if the abuser is a parent.

27.02.2025 12:43 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

I posted today an article about a victim speaking out. I wish we lived in a world where all victims could unite. The hurdles often seem insurmountable. My intent was not to offend anyone NOR to support an agenda that is oppressive. My intent - to highlight that a victim spoke out loud in Congress.

11.02.2025 15:15 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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