Funandsins11

Wooof. What a body.

Yes.

There are many ways a submissive can show his trust and submission to his Master. Here’s one of the many ways my @boyfei.bsky.social showed his.

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Also, if you’re not ready to be honest about using AI, then you’re not ready to converse with others, for whatever purpose.

The world has enough insincerity in it. If we can act in ways that do not add to that, we should. Especially in the kink world where we exchange power.

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This isn’t the first and won’t be the last when people reach out to “chat” when they just want texts for jacking off.

That’s not a bad thing itself.

But folks should be honest with their intention and be forthcoming.

/5

So I wrote back saying aesthetics are individualistic and it’s about what each person finds stimulating. I said I would be glad to chat but it seems like he’s reaching for spank bank material. I asked if that’s true.

And I haven’t heard back from him and his account is now gone.

/4

Second red flag was that he kept up a string of questions on how he should wear his chastity cage. Not about chastity in general, like safety and concerns and best practices, but about how sexy it is to wear it in different scenarios.

/3

First red flag was the initial message was in very good English. I asked him if he used AI or if that’s his own writing. He said it’s his own words. I find it very hard to believe but I didn’t force him to admit.

/2

Last week on a kink site I was contacted by someone who said he’s a 22 yr old from Beijing, and wanted to see if I wanted to chat. I was happy to make the connection and offered to chat on any kink topics, knowing the oppressive regime in China on being gay and being kinky.

/1

So sexy.

A very happy sub for being ordered to expose his hole and having his cock and balls tied and used.

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Gorgeous cub.

My Dane is a sexy older chub bear and he looks great in my ropes. He also didn’t start his true journey as a sub until 7 years ago when he was over 60. Don’t let age be the barrier that stops you from finding your true self.

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A naked mature Caucasian man on his hands and knees facing away from the viewer so his ass is fully exposed. There are teeth marks on his ass cheeks. His balls are tied in string. His anus is partially exposed, with the darker skin on the edges of his anus clearly visible.

My dane with his ass bitten, his balls tied up, and presented to be fucked and bred.

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Very handsome.

A mature heavy-set Caucasian man with little body hair is naked, sitting on the floor with his legs spread. His chest is tied by ropes in Shibari style. His cock and balls are tied by strings. He’s showing a semi erection.

A chubby sub, in the hairless side, experiencing his first round of rope bondage.

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Nice even deep red. Paddle? Straps?

My sub Tessoah bound in modified TK and karada, with his balls stretched by a 3 pound weight through a ball parachute.

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Some nipple clamps work on a very sweet bear submissive.

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Such a sexy cub.

No not at all. But I’ve seen enough people who’ve fallen into that trap when trying to help. You’re good, friend. ❤️

Also, check our own ego: if we cannot be the light to someone it doesn’t mean they are beyond redemption or help. It also doesn’t mean we are not “good enough.” It just means they need a light that isn’t us. Let them go with a blessing then focus our energy on those around us.

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Well said. We all need someone to believe in us.

That said: Remember the scorpion and the frog. We have to know who can be helped vs who will drag us down with them. Hurt people hurt others, yes. It’s a description, not an excuse. So make sure we are not harmed by the people we try to help.

/1

What a sexy handsome cub.

Beautiful body and a great drip.

Take active steps to unlearn your own biases. Decolonize your thoughts. Seek insight and help from those who done the work. You cannot be in solidarity with others until you’ve held yourself accountable.

Beautiful big body in ropes.

Sexy bear. Love your body.

My Dane servicing my sweaty feet is a comforting ritual for him. Refreshing his scent memory each time he serves helps him stay engaged and happy.

Also, accidental baroque?

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In my defense, I was following the anime before it got to that part of the story but yes. 🙃