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A national charity delivering and promoting access to Restorative Justice for people affected by crime and conflict. https://why-me.org/

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Many people know that Restorative Justice is a dialogue between someone who caused harm & the person they harmed. But do you know how it works in practice?

Restorative Justice often requires a long preparation process to ensure that everyone is safe and only after a thorough risk assessment.

05.03.2026 08:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Last week, we delivered our new 3 day RJ training course. It was lively and thought provoking, focusing on the values behind restorative work. We were delighted to be joined for a session by our Ambassador Paul Kohler MP, who shared insights from his journey through RJ after a serious crime.

04.03.2026 15:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The Government recently announced their consultation on the Victims' Code. Why me? will be gathering the views of the RJ sector on behalf of the Ministry of Justice. Don't miss your chance to help shape the future of victims' rights: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/whyme/2085360

03.03.2026 15:50 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Unless Restorative Justice becomes widely available, replacing a punitive approach with a focus on rehabilitation, the Criminal Justice System will not escape this spiral into overcrowding and perpetual harm to everyone involved.

03.03.2026 08:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Have you read the EFRJ's magazine on 'Restorative Justice & Human Rights'? We have now received our print copies in the post! Featuring testimony from our Ambassadors, the magazine features thought-provoking content on what this human right could look like.

https://ow.ly/CK7g50Yl5r1

02.03.2026 15:55 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Restorative Justice builds community. It helps the voices of everyone affected by crime to be heard and to find a resolution.

02.03.2026 08:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Chloe Hayman's mum hugs her drug-driver killer in jail Chloe's mum visited her drug-driver killer Keilan Roberts in jail and says he will live with the guilt forever.

"I hugged him and said, 'I'm sorry you're the one who has to live with this'... I was able to understand it from all angles."

Danielle O'Halloran met the young man who killed her 17-year-old daughter, Chloe, in a Restorative Justice meeting. Read more: https://ow.ly/p4Xt50YmYlf

27.02.2026 16:45 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

GisΓ¨le Pelicot, the survivor at the centre of France's biggest rape trial, was asked whether she would ever see her husband again. GisΓ¨le said β€œI hope to do so, that’s also part of my way of rebuilding myself.”

https://why-me.org/2026/gisele-pelicot-i-need-to-go-and-see-him-to-get-answers/

27.02.2026 15:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Why me? believes that victims should be at the heart of the justice system.

But at the moment, they’re not.

How can we widen access to Restorative Justice and help victims of crime to get their voices heard?

27.02.2026 08:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The restorative sector is approaching a time of change. From the launch of the Victims' Code Consultation and the end of PCCs, the landscape could shift over the coming years. In light of this we're sharing our Valuing Victims report: https://why-me.org/2026/valuing-victims-through-a-time-of-change/

26.02.2026 16:01 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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We all want there to be less crime in our local areas. But many people who have committed crimes become trapped in a cycle of criminal activity.

Restorative Justice can help to break this cycle and reduce reoffending, making our communities safer.


26.02.2026 08:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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A PhD research project at the University of Sussex is inviting survivors of sexual violence to share their experiences of justice through one-to-one interviews or arts-based group workshops. To hear more contact Abigail Richards at ar881@sussex.ac.uk.

25.02.2026 15:01 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Last week our Comms Manager, Keeva, visited the British Library to drop off the collection of stories we have recorded for our 'Damage and Repair' project, supported by The National Lottery Heritage Fund. These interviews will form a collection for decades to come: https://why-me.org/damageandrepair

25.02.2026 10:30 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Today marks the beginning of our 3-day Facilitation training, taking a value-led approach to Restorative Justice training, co-designed and led with people who have been through the process themselves. Thank you to our wonderful Trustee and trainer Tim Chapman. Bring on day 2 and 3!

24.02.2026 16:30 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Donate to an amazing cause today. Anything you can give will make a huge difference!

Your support means the world to us. Every donation, big or small makes a huge difference to our cause. Plus, by donating through JustGiving you can also choose to add Gift Aid to your donation, adding an extra 25% at no extra cost to you!

https://ow.ly/8crB50YeoVh

24.02.2026 08:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Don't miss The Mint House - Oxford Centre for Restorative Practice's event on 'Diversifying the restorative sector' THIS WEDNESDAY - a space to think about race, representation, language & power. https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/diversifying-the-restorative-sector-tickets-1982269885589

23.02.2026 16:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Psychologists know that relationships strengthen through rupture and repair. When a crime is committed, community bonds are ruptured. Restorative Justice is an effective way to begin to repair these, and 85% of participants are satisfied with the result.

23.02.2026 08:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Using reflection to set our intentions for 2026 β€” Why me? This is a blog by our RJ Programme Manager, Anika Cosgrove.Β  Β  Reflection is fundamental within restorative practice. Reflective learning allows victims, perpetrators and facilitators to understand deeply and use that understanding to take responsibility and be accountable.Β  As we enter a new year, it’s a wonderful opportunity to engage in reflection and frame our […]

Now we are two months into 2026, how are you reflecting on the beginning of the year? Take a look back at our blog on setting your intentions and starting the year restoratively and remember, it's never too late to start!

https://why-me.org/2026/using-reflection-to-set-our-intentions-for-2026/

20.02.2026 15:20 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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At Why me?, we see the potential benefits of Restorative Justice not only when there has been a criminal offence, but also where people have experienced discrimination or mistreatment of any kind.

20.02.2026 08:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"At a time when only one in 10 victims trusts the criminal justice system, restorative justice achieves 85% victim satisfaction, reduces reoffending by up to 27% and saves Β£14 for every Β£1 invested. Despite these incredible impacts, access to restorative justice is poor"

https://ow.ly/HQ1z50YgFvo

19.02.2026 15:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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We all know that victims of crime need support to heal and move on. But many are not made aware of all of the options available to them. Restorative Justice has the power to transform the lives of people affected by crime. And we believe everyone should be made aware of it.

19.02.2026 08:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Ep56: Restorative justice - bringing the humanity back to justice The Transform Justice Podcast Β· Episode

Our friends over at Transform Justice have released a new episode of their podcast on the topic of Restorative Justice, featuring our Ambassador, Paul Kohler, and former Director, Lucy JaffΓ©. Listen here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/03LQKn53JnrRCZZFn1kTi6

18.02.2026 15:01 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Restorative Justice FAQ β€” Why me? Want to know more about how Restorative Justice works? Here are some Frequently Asked Questions

Got questions about Restorative Justice? Why not check out our FAQs.

https://why-me.org/what-is-restorative-justice/faqs/


18.02.2026 08:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

In case you missed it, we are postponing our complex and sensitive training course that was due to take place across Feb & March.

Sign up to our newsletter to be the first to hear about new dates & other training: https://ow.ly/1H9v50YgWMY

17.02.2026 17:01 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Punch, the play about RJ, is returning for a UK tour. It will now be running at Nottingham Playhouse (13 March - 4 April), Leeds Playhouse (7 - 11 April) and Theatre Royal Plymouth (14 - 18 April). Don't miss it!

17.02.2026 15:01 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Only 5.5% of victims recall being told about Restorative Justice. This needs to change.

Why me? works to widen access to Restorative Justice. Check out our work here:

https://ow.ly/lERy50Yeo5y


17.02.2026 08:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Last week, the Victims & Courts Bill went through the House of Lords and our amendment to give victims the legal right to an RJ referral was raised by Baroness Brinton. In this blog, we explain what happened in the Lords, share the Government's response & share next steps: https://ow.ly/5qz850YgE6p

16.02.2026 16:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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What is Restorative Justice? β€” Why me? Restorative Justice allows people affected by crime to communicate with the person responsible, often with the aim of a face to face meeting.

Have you been affected by crime or conflict? Do you still think about it? Do you have unanswered questions?

Restorative Justice can be transformative for people affected by crime. Find out whether it could be right for you.

https://ow.ly/Hpbu50Yeo0f

16.02.2026 08:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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"The conventional practice of law often leads to dissatisfaction not only for the lawyer but also for the client. In contrast, a restorative justice-based practice of law embraces recognition of harm, repair, and relationships."

https://why-me.org/2026/becoming-a-restorative-lawyer/

13.02.2026 15:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Listen in to this crucial conversation from our friends at @transformjustice.bsky.social!

13.02.2026 10:34 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0