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Born to Stand Out: Introverts guide to discover their true power Dear introvert, do you find it difficult to express yourself?Introverts' greatest pain is unexpressed potential. You have so many things to say. Thoughts, ideas, mind boggling insights. But you keep i...

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8. Trust your gut

You read people like a book. You're a walking lie detector. You notice everything. You can tell people more about them than themselves. When you feel something's off, trust your gut. And walk away.

7. You don't hate people

You're a kind soul. I know it. One little kind gesture melts your heart. What you hate is stress. Drama. Conflict. Shit that lowers your vibe. Hang out with people who are good for your soul. Cut everything else out.

6. If it drains, it ain't for you

You got a limited social battery. And I know it drains too damn fast. Coz you hold nothing back. You give like there's no tomorrow. But stay away from anything or anyone who drains you. Your energy is not for everyone.

5. You're not shy

You don't open to everyone. And that's ok. That's your superpower. You invest in who truly values you. Your circle may be small, but it's deep, authentic, and unshakable. Stop caring so much.

4. They envy you

Your fierce independence. Your self-reliance. Your obsession. They have none. They want it, but only you have it. Awaken to your gifts. Stop being a watered down version of yourself. Express yourself. Unapologetically.

3. Be kind, but not blind

You have a kind heart. I get it. But don't let people take advantage. Put your needs first. Your needs matter. You matter. Give, but don't let them empty you.

2. Don't fit in

You hate it. Chasing trends. Accepting norms. You're built different. Embrace your idiosyncrasies. Choose the road not taken. You were born to stand out.

1. They won't get it

Your longing for silence. To think deep. To do things alone. To not ask for help. To spend days & days without speaking to a single soul. Stop expecting to be understood. And just do you.

Introverts, open this:

Study your past. Like you're watching a movie based on your life. Focus on your patterns, how you react, how you decide, what worked, what didn't, why it worked. Take notes. Learn the lessons and never repeat the mistakes. This will make you unstoppable.

Introverts are not shy, they observe. Your actions, your expressions, your tone, and the meaning behind the meaning of your words. They may seem shy on the outside, but believe me they're running a psychology marathon in their heads.

Introverts are not quiet, they wait. To feel safe. To feel free to open up. To feel the trust to let you in their mystical worlds. They may seem closed off at the beginning. But once you're in, trust me you'll be blown away by what lies behind those walls.

Yes

Learn to be alone. Eat alone, sleep alone, vibe alone, heal alone. Be so confident that you can bloom without opinions and approvals. And if you ever doubt yourself, always remember who you were and how far you've come.

Things introverts hate:

- phone calls before 1 pm
- small talk
- morning blah blah
- surprise visits
- talkative neighbours
- crowded places
- people who stay after 8.34 pm
- stupidity
- change of plans
- inconsistent behaviour