Tyson Buttford

I don’t like having to wonder if you want to hear from me.

I don’t care how well together you are, you’re disheveled and tacky if you look down on others. You don’t have to be friends with them but fuck treat them like people.

Looks shouldn’t determine how human you treat a person. I refuse to date anyone who treats people that way. I think that’s why my way of dating has changed. I don’t care how fine you look you’re ugly to me if you can’t treat someone with a different body than yours likes human with feelings

Like the disrespect some of us get when they are either same size or smaller like they knew of the discourse but they never seen it first hand. And it’s sad that this is the reality. People do get treaters by how they treat others it’s by looks.

With that being said. My lighter skin friends really got upset because they see us as the beautiful friends we are and it doesn’t dawn on them the pretty privilege and passes they receive. Like when I say we started sharing messages in apps and stuff and the way my friend teared up.

But I have such a hard time when I approach. I’m either not hood enough. Too nerdy. Or toooo inbetween fem and masc which I’ve never heard until this grown age. I’ve never been considered fem and it’s weird how now because I speak light and low that’s what it means to be fem. Like what.

Than me. I’m thick but not fat but I’m in a weird place of being to big for the fit guys but too small for bara men. I have a flat stomach but my hips thighs and ass are huge. After my steroids Meds are now gone baby the waist is not snatch again.

My other darker tones are bigger guys. They refuse to EVER put themselves out in public because of the horrendous comments. They only date men that fetishized them. Because that attention makes them feels attractive where everyone else makes them feel uncomfortable and less than.

The only one that has had true success is our vegan fit friend but the kicker. Black men treated him poorly while White and Latinx flocked to him. That’s why he no longer finds black men attractive. Because they don’t seem to find him attractive.

All the ones that it worked for were the quintessential light skin. Pink lips hazel/light color eyes. Fit and thick They all said they when they approached someone it always ended with a number or that person responding positively. Cut to me and my darker tone/skinned men.

Tonight at my friends night. We talked about putting one’s self out there and how successful has it been when we do. It started off about that but then the conversation when I pointed out a pattern went somewhere most try to avoid

The calm app is a god send

I do.

Good morning Sky. Thanks for those that sent me playlist the other day. I’m doing it again today. Music Sending Monday. Send me some of Ya’ll favorite playlist. I’m looking for new artist and music to get into.

Beyoncé & Levi's 👖💎🐝

Whats poppin Blue Sky!!! How Ya’ll doing this morning?

I need a favor. Today I’m feeling a Chill step type of vibe. Anyone has a bomb ass playlist? I wanna be introduced to something new? I’m on both Apple Music and Spotify. YouTube music and SoundCloud are welcomed too!

-broad arm sweep- yes.

What’s poppin yall

Fucking under statement

sending invisible ink attachments w no warning >>>>

Gods gift to the rather. BLACK WOMEN

I do not like a man who’s mean and nasty. That’s the quickest way to get off my phone and out of my life. I won’t tolerate that. I don’t care about the message especially if it comes off aggressive and bully-ish. If you’re mean, stay away from me.

Yea I’m torn with the new era

That part. Then ask why I don’t text or call no more. Because nigga you were boring and a waste of time. And don’t get me started on they don’t know how to have witty banter no more.

Let me know how you like it. I wasn’t thinking about it it but idk. These newer ones haven’t been hitting

Well I did that and I’m sure I’ve been left on read for a month now lol I have yet to recover lol

So guys I went on a date. And well. Why don’t guys apply pressure no more? Like what’s with the nonchalant attitude? What’s with this “I like being a loner” brood men do now? Like what’s the point of dating if that’s the attitude.

Swear I just get mad like

“Is there not someone here worshipping this thick thick”

The chitlin circuit was not ready baby. 😍😍😍