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@deadheadgirly.bsky.social

24 | she, her | music feeds my soul and I bet on sports more than I should... Just a girl. #NHL #NFL (all Detroit teams!) Michigan Roots, Tennessee Address #onepride πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

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I’m doing a bang up job of toeing the line between being open minded and exhausted…

05.03.2026 21:07 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Sometimes it’s better to just not engage.

05.03.2026 21:02 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

Aww thank you so much, Maddie! I love it too, it just gets a bit unruly lol

05.03.2026 20:57 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ‘

05.03.2026 20:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

OK back after a break for another #POTD (9-5). Tonight I like #NCAA #MBB Valparaiso -3.5 vs Indiana State (-105). Valpo has been solid all season and is 11-7 in the Missouri Valley Conference. ISU has struggled this season with only four conference wins. Take the Beacons. #BetSky

05.03.2026 20:10 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'll let him know you said that 😁

05.03.2026 19:57 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My dad's doctor, who is like 70, was like, "just have him make an appointment here. I'll have his doctor forward his treatment plan. We'll take care of him."

LIKE IT WAS NOTHING. Doctors can be awesome if they want to be.

05.03.2026 19:52 β€” πŸ‘ 16    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My dad's apprentice is a trans guy, and his endo is retiring he can't find one in the area that's accepting patients. He's been freaking out about not being able to get T.

05.03.2026 19:52 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I called my dad at lunch time (it's his bday). And he was telling me that he had his annual physical yesterday and was talking with his very rural, good old boy doctor, who he's been going to for years. And my dad asked if he could reccommend an endocrinologist.

05.03.2026 19:52 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Andrew McCutchen just signed a minor league deal with the Texas Rangers and the Pittsburgh Pirates should be ashamed of themselves.

05.03.2026 19:32 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I have zero sympathy or tolerance for people who are cruel to animals. Even with the plea, I hope they throw the book at this garbage pail man.

05.03.2026 18:38 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

OMG Dani! You are so sweet!

05.03.2026 18:19 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Martellus Bennett is on the Rich Eisen show right now and if you like football, the NFL and/or Tom Brady/Bill Belichick, you should find the podcast later. Great insight.

05.03.2026 17:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

@kschwenky.bsky.social Hope you're feeling better, gorgeous!

05.03.2026 16:37 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Yup.

05.03.2026 16:32 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Exclusive | Meet the men getting breast reductions β€” which is now the most popular plastic surgery among guys in the US Visit the post for more.

It's the latest thing! The whole "god made you the way you are and he doesn't make mistakes!" thing is just for trans people.

05.03.2026 16:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I was going to say. That sounds quite troubling, unfortunate. But glad you're OK!!

05.03.2026 16:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Gender-affirming surgeries rarely performed on transgender youth | Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health A new Harvard Chan School study found little to no utilization of gender-affirming surgeries by transgender and gender-diverse minors in the U.S.

Study for those interested:

05.03.2026 16:03 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
Chart showing that most breast reductions performed on minors in the US go to cis-gendered boys.

Chart showing that most breast reductions performed on minors in the US go to cis-gendered boys.

Since you have a bigger reach than me- can you also remind people that the surgery most given to trans/non gender conforming minors is breast reduction or removal, however, of all breast reduction surgeries given to minors, like 95% are to cis gendered boys (which no one ever had an issue with).

05.03.2026 16:02 β€” πŸ‘ 29    πŸ” 10    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 2
Marcy, with really frizzy hair, wearing a yellow t shirt.

Marcy, with really frizzy hair, wearing a yellow t shirt.

Frizzy hair 🫀

05.03.2026 15:41 β€” πŸ‘ 59    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 0
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Since we're probably inching closer to a complete economic collapse, it's time to bring back depression era dishes!

05.03.2026 14:52 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I feel like this is exactly what he's going through. Although his family has been supportive and his friend group doesn't seem to care (the relationship he was in prior to us meeting was incredibly toxic and they all saw how bad it got, so their just happy he's happy). But it's a total mindfuck.

05.03.2026 14:48 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

@miriamgrace.bsky.social any insight here?

05.03.2026 14:37 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Amazing allies welcome too!!

05.03.2026 14:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Yes!!! Your smile will thank you! And you look wonderful and I hope you're feeling great and resting!

05.03.2026 14:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Anyway, maybe I should get to work on my rebuttal: In defense of straight guys who date trans girls...

05.03.2026 14:08 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

At its core, this seems unfair to everyone. It's unfair to my boyfriend and to me and to our relationship. But it's also deeply unfair to actual gay men. They deserve their space, not to be disturbed by a straight guy and his trans girlfriend.

05.03.2026 14:08 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

He's easy going and has reassured me over and over and over that he's where he wants to be and I know him to be very sure of himself. But that's still pretty wild, right? That he'd have to defend his heterosexuality because he's with a trans girl?

05.03.2026 14:08 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I don't want to say that it's caused him to have an identity crisis, but he said it is something that messes with him. It's something he and his therapist have talked about. He knows that he's not gay, but there are pockets of media and corners of the internet that insist he must be.

05.03.2026 14:08 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

But I never really thought about the situation from my boyfriend's perspective. My bf is a heterosexual man. He's only ever been attracted to women. Yet because he's with me, there are some who insist he's a gay man. Again- putting him into a group that he has no business being a part of.

05.03.2026 14:08 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0