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@heyitsneo.bsky.social

Tabletop RPG nerd and amateur drawguy. Stir fry enthusiast. Sometimes I write things he/him they/them, 30 y/o ๐Ÿ”ž๐Ÿ”žADULT SPACE. MINORS BEGONE๐Ÿ”ž๐Ÿ”ž banner by @mrlovenstein.bsky.social

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People with ADHD have whatโ€™s called Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). Itโ€™s an extreme emotional response to perceived criticism or rejection.

Your brain canโ€™t regulate the emotional pain, so a small comment feels like a devastating attack. A minor correction feels like total failure. Someoneโ€™s tone feels like hatred.
Itโ€™s not oversensitivity. Itโ€™s not being dramatic. Your brain literally canโ€™t modulate the intensity of that emotional response.

Itโ€™s neurological, not a character flaw.

Post reads: People with ADHD have whatโ€™s called Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). Itโ€™s an extreme emotional response to perceived criticism or rejection. Your brain canโ€™t regulate the emotional pain, so a small comment feels like a devastating attack. A minor correction feels like total failure. Someoneโ€™s tone feels like hatred. Itโ€™s not oversensitivity. Itโ€™s not being dramatic. Your brain literally canโ€™t modulate the intensity of that emotional response. Itโ€™s neurological, not a character flaw.

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If you love someone with ADHD, understand that tone is a weapon you didn't know you were carrying. A short text or a sigh of frustration isn't just a moment of stress to them, it's a signal of impending exile. Your consistency and reassurance aren't coddling; they are the bridge that helps them cross the gap of their own neurological insecurity.

Post reads: If you love someone with ADHD, understand that tone is a weapon you didn't know you were carrying. A short text or a sigh of frustration isn't just a moment of stress to them, it's a signal of impending exile. Your consistency and reassurance aren't coddling; they are the bridge that helps them cross the gap of their own neurological insecurity.

These were really good posts explaining Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria I had to pull over

On a personal level, this is one of my hardest things to deal with. Thankfully its not constant, and I've learned outward reactive regulation, but inside its still this, and sometimes the sad slips out >> 1/2

17.02.2026 13:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1013    ๐Ÿ” 522    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 27    ๐Ÿ“Œ 66

๐ŸŽจ Share your OC boundaries

๐Ÿ–Œ๏ธ Is Fanart okay?
Absolutely yes I will scream

๐Ÿ’ž Is shipping okay?
Sure??? Not sure why you would if we can't chat about it tho

๐Ÿ–‹๏ธ Is Fanfiction ok?
aight

โ™Š๏ธ Can otherโ€™s draw their OCโ€™s with yours?
Hell yeah

๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ NSFW?
Just lemme see it lmao

๐Ÿค– AI?
Absolutely not

04.02.2026 03:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

God I love how you draw thick tails and how they're integrated with the body like that. Been trying to figure out how to make them look good/make sense anatomically when viewed from behind in my own art for a while myself and I'm struggling ;;

30.01.2026 09:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Being someone who draws is so funny because for weeks youโ€™ll be like โ€œIโ€™ve lost it, my ability to draw is gone foreverโ€ and then the next day you wake up and draw the best thing youโ€™ll ever make like it was nbd

09.01.2026 18:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 477    ๐Ÿ” 170    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 4    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

I donโ€™t think ppl understand the whole โ€œwho cares if nobody likes it! make content for yourselfโ€ is extremely dismissive
Bc we ARE making the content for ourselves but it feels /bad/ when people donโ€™t engage or show interest. You can care about both at the same time

30.09.2025 17:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3987    ๐Ÿ” 1512    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 67    ๐Ÿ“Œ 204
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ใ‚ซใ‚ค่ช•็”Ÿๆ—ฅ๏ผโšก๏ธ๐ŸŽ‰โšก๏ธ
#ky_Birthday #ใ‚ฎใƒซใƒ†ใ‚ฃใ‚ฎใ‚ข

20.11.2025 04:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 574    ๐Ÿ” 218    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

i will kermit if the effect i want doesn't turn out properly

14.11.2025 19:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 324    ๐Ÿ” 51    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 8    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Two fem au ra with fat tails wearing witch outfits. One is wearing wide brim witch hat, a puffy sleeve fingerless dress with frilly skirt and petticoats, and high thigh boots. The other is wearing wide brim witch hat, strapless dress with slits along the legs, with sheer under bodysuit, thigh high boots, and corset.

Two fem au ra with fat tails wearing witch outfits. One is wearing wide brim witch hat, a puffy sleeve fingerless dress with frilly skirt and petticoats, and high thigh boots. The other is wearing wide brim witch hat, strapless dress with slits along the legs, with sheer under bodysuit, thigh high boots, and corset.

๐Ÿ’šPatreon reward๐Ÿ’œ
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#bnuuywards #byunmissions

06.11.2025 02:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 200    ๐Ÿ” 61    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Shoot me a chat if interested

12.11.2025 04:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 12    ๐Ÿ” 12    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

lrt hey guess how you make damn sure bsky staff won't listen to you when something ACTUALLY shitty pops up? Constant fearmongering and outrage farming like this.

You're creating a culture of "Oh yeah bsky users are just like this". Don't do that if you wanna be taken seriously when it matters

07.11.2025 19:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Seriously guys, the label stuff has been here for years and was even praised at the beginning. The whole point is to moderate your own experience. No, Bluesky does not want to control what you see. Learn how the site works, please

I swear every few months there's a new thing to overreact to.

07.11.2025 18:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 58    ๐Ÿ” 28    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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I don't "write down my story". I don't "create storyboards and animations" for my characters and worldbuilding.

I imagine that SHIT WITH MY BRAIN TO MUSIC, and if it doesn't hit my storybeats, I KILL MYSELF.

17.09.2025 19:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 105    ๐Ÿ” 28    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 3
A wizard ponders five blue crystal orbs labeled WIP

A wizard ponders five blue crystal orbs labeled WIP

Them: So what have y'all been up to?
Me: Haha, you know. The usual.

The Usual:

25.09.2025 11:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7411    ๐Ÿ” 2830    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 46    ๐Ÿ“Œ 118
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and now my bday art for fren @Hey_Its_Neo #stevemanart #oc #ocart

20.09.2025 17:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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birthday commission from @sumiumoxide.bsky.social for @heyitsneo.bsky.social #stevemanart #ocart #ocartist

20.09.2025 17:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 5    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Art of a crow with a wine glass and a cake with the caption "The contents of this week require the Big Treat" ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Art of a crow with a wine glass and a cake with the caption "The contents of this week require the Big Treat" ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Relatable.

13.08.2025 01:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3710    ๐Ÿ” 951    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 5    ๐Ÿ“Œ 12

Aight made an art alt where I'll be focusing on posting the stuff I draw. Potentially spicy content sometimes so like, stay clear if you don't like that stuff @neoscribble.bsky.social

08.09.2025 12:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Drew the cat again. Ravia good, needed a better ref for her for artfight. That is all

30.06.2025 18:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

ah yes, shakespeare's classic play 'A Midsummer Night's Dream' with such memorable characters! i just love oberon, titania, and [checks smudged writing on hand] cuck.

29.06.2025 16:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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PARTY CUSTOMIZATION:
- Striker
- Summoner
- Marauder
> Oracle
- Chloromancer

"Hmhm... Naturally."

And last in this lineup, Kisara, oracle of the Trionic Church. Snake of a man who politicked his way into a high position despite his low birth. Least shady member of the clergy.

26.06.2025 04:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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PARTY CUSTOMIZATION:
- Striker
- Summoner
- Marauder
- Oracle
> Chloromancer

"Ugh, this better be good... What do you want?."

Midori! A dryad, a kind of sprite closely tied to a specific part of the world. Became a traveler after her forest was burned down, is incredibly angry about it.

25.06.2025 08:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Who ever knew the girl looked so good in a proper bodysuit? Alexandrian fashion sure goes hard~ Time for Eri to start looking for some new clients! Any takers?

#ffxivnsfw | #gposensfw

21.06.2025 01:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 33    ๐Ÿ” 17    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 4    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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PARTY CUSTOMIZATION:
- Striker
> Summoner
- Marauder
- Oracle
- Chloromancer

"You called upon me? Very well. Begin."

Next up is Aura, stoic medium who feels forced to leave her order for. So many reasons. Spiritual genius, yet her training has left her emotionally stunted, how do express self???

13.06.2025 15:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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PARTY CUSTOMIZATION:
> Striker
- Summoner
- Marauder
- Oracle
- Chloromancer

"Okay! Yeah I'll- I'll do my best..!"

Leanne got one might as well give Brand one as well. One of my oldest OCs, my son whom I love. He's very good don't worry about the ominous red keywords on his status screen it's fine

12.06.2025 14:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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PARTY CUSTOMIZATION:
- Striker
- Summoner
> Marauder
- Oracle
- Chloromancer

"Uhuhu, sounds fun...~"

Former bandit, current adventurer and compelte hedonist freak. Leanne is a character from my personal OC project, so have a lil mockup for if I ever make a game with this idea I got

12.06.2025 13:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Gandalf from the animated lord of the rings, wearing a grey robe, and a blue wizard's hat while he raises his hands in conjuring something up and the image is captioned "ooooooo self-doubt and self-loathing are over oooooo you're capable and worthy and sexy ooooooo"

Gandalf from the animated lord of the rings, wearing a grey robe, and a blue wizard's hat while he raises his hands in conjuring something up and the image is captioned "ooooooo self-doubt and self-loathing are over oooooo you're capable and worthy and sexy ooooooo"

Good morningโœŒ๏ธ๐Ÿ€

04.06.2025 14:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 17512    ๐Ÿ” 4733    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 159    ๐Ÿ“Œ 112
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after many years i can finally post this! you may have seen it in this year's combo breaker guidebook :)

thank you again to @thehadou.com
for giving me the opportunity to work on such a cool piece (and also for letting me slap axl front and center) !

detail shots and link to prints below

26.05.2025 20:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1924    ๐Ÿ” 674    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 46    ๐Ÿ“Œ 4