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I make science exhibits. I wrangle two small children. I sing.

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My (then) 3 year old refused to eat something I cooked: "I don't like it". Ate it happily the following week. His *sister*, meanwhile, then 1, took her lead from him, refused it that evening *and every time I have cooked it since*. (They had both eaten it with enthusiasm on previous occasions).

12.02.2026 10:21 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Yeah. "Ah, here we are, this is the shape I am now. Fair enough." "Oh, no, what is this?" Repeat, apparently ad infinitum.
Being an older mum I fear I have achieved a new shape only briefly, I assume in a minute menopause will bring new and exciting changes of form.

07.02.2026 12:02 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I definitely lost a chunk of weight after I actually stopped breastfeeding. This despite the fact that by then Nurseling was 4-and-a-bit and had been down to a couple of minutes at bedtime for months.

07.02.2026 11:53 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I *think* it's more that they can't know they haven't let oxygen into the pipework, so they have to make sure it's flushed from indoors before they turn it back on. Which needs access to the indoor fittings not just a tap in the street. Whereas tap in the street suffices for turning off in a hurry.

05.02.2026 20:25 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

If I were a half eaten jar of garlic pickle I might try to set up home in the cupboard with either the spices or the honey. Somewhere jars get put when trying to find the counter...

14.01.2026 19:16 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

* and they needn't even be off sick, they might just have fallen out with their best mate in the playground for a couple of hours and be fretting about it.. maths is so cumulative..

30.12.2025 17:29 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

And also, if a child is off sick* for two days and misses That One Lesson (which is, obviously, a different lesson for each child, argh..) they're screwed for that, and everything that builds on it, forever (or until someone helps them find and patch the bifurcating gaps..).

30.12.2025 17:27 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

When I was born (early 80s, Basildon) I'm told the registrars came round the wards every day* with the forms. Mid-80s Edinburgh and late-80s Ipswich apparently lacked this service. My folks weren't sure if that was time or venue..
*Don't know about weekends.. I was born on a Monday..

29.12.2025 12:23 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

That's really splendid.
Eat!

20.12.2025 21:57 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Or, if you ask @sciansell.bsky.social any point North of Exeter.
Meanwhile, I grew up in Suffolk and thus am firmly of the opinion that Cambridge is, y' know, somewhere to the West.

19.12.2025 10:06 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Do FedEx not do postcodes?

15.12.2025 09:59 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

He's 10-year-old-size now, give or take. (Obviously he's not, he's 7, so by definition the size he is is 7 year old size.. but also, a tall 7 year old from a family with large crania). (Not sure if that's the correct plural of cranium, but it's pleasing so I'm going with it..)

11.12.2025 13:52 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

It really was. Genuine concern, not just tutt-ery. In a year or two the baby (now 7) will be big enough to actually wear the hat..

11.12.2025 10:58 — 👍 11    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0

I still have the hat, somewhere.

11.12.2025 09:44 — 👍 11    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

On a late bus home with my then 4 month old (in summer.. in a sling on my front.. under a fleece) I was given a woolly hat (adult size) by a man in his 30s whose English was not up to my explanations that, truly, the baby was fine, and whose concern for his little uncovered head was enormous.

11.12.2025 09:44 — 👍 29    🔁 1    💬 4    📌 0

I didn't notice this with my son, because I had no problem buying him clothes in the colours I was buying for myself (navy blue, mostly). Then I had a daughter and people started giving me hand-me-down girls clothes. The contrast between those and the ones I had in the loft from my son was dazzling!

11.12.2025 08:28 — 👍 7    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

Nah. I have read what you write about your life with your daughters, and it's pretty obvious at a distance that you're providing them with the rock-solid background of being loved and thought of that's at the least an *incredibly* good start on being a happy, healthy human.

09.12.2025 18:14 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

When I was a little kid (late 80s, UK..) my parents had a ford escort which had a kind of honeycomb of heating wires in the front window. Because I was.. hmm, maybe 6-9.. at the time I have no clear recollection of what if any effect it had on visibility the rest of the year, but it was awesome.

05.12.2025 11:07 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

On a Rubbish Day, all the more happiness induced in your friends at the thought of you enjoying excellent biology as a small gift from evolution and your friend with the bottle and the good idea.

27.11.2025 21:09 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Somewhere I have my grandmother's recipe cuttings book, including a 2940s/50s (rationing-era) page from an English newspaper about how cabbage is good, really, despite what everyone who's ever been to school thinks.. it's just that 10 minutes is plenty of time to cook it for..

24.11.2025 16:35 — 👍 2    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

No.. we had hymn books. But I did show Mr 7 and Ms 5 the (Janet and?) Allan Ahlberg version of When A Knight Won His Spurs (I think it's called The Headteacher's Hymn) a few weeks back. Which I slightly regretted when I had to (1) explain the joke and (2) sing both versions repeatedly..

30.10.2025 21:21 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
A flyer, mostly in red and green with Christmas baubles etc. 
Text reads: 
Come and Sing this Christmas with Cambridge Harmony Chorus
A series of 3 workshops
Monday 10th, 17th and 24th November, 7:30pm
Followed by a performance at Mill Road Winter Fair
Join our fun, friendly female a cappella group as we learn "Winter Wonderland" in four part harmony
Please email cambridgeharmonychorus@gmail.com to register and with any questions
Only £10 for all 3 sessions! 
Christ the Redeemer, Cambridge, CB5 8RS
Free parking on-site

A flyer, mostly in red and green with Christmas baubles etc. Text reads: Come and Sing this Christmas with Cambridge Harmony Chorus A series of 3 workshops Monday 10th, 17th and 24th November, 7:30pm Followed by a performance at Mill Road Winter Fair Join our fun, friendly female a cappella group as we learn "Winter Wonderland" in four part harmony Please email cambridgeharmonychorus@gmail.com to register and with any questions Only £10 for all 3 sessions! Christ the Redeemer, Cambridge, CB5 8RS Free parking on-site

Is there anyone following me who is likely to be both keen to do more singing and available in Cambridge on a Monday night? If you fancy trying singing Winter Wonderland in our ladies chorus, this is happening in November (see flyer/alt text for whens and wheres)

22.10.2025 08:07 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Mmm. Where I am (Cambridge..), if it doesn't fit in the letter box (or sometimes even if it does) it quite often gets left on the doorstep... Royal mail are pretty reliable, but all the other delivery services, not so much. (And it's not even always *our* doorstep) Even when we're at home.

20.10.2025 15:42 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 3    📌 0

One for @girlinthe.bsky.social this week..

20.10.2025 15:32 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

You know, I was wondering exactly this. I think it may have been superseded by the whole irradiation bit..

14.10.2025 19:10 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0

You can achieve scorched earth 'merely' by burning off all the life with conventional fire.. or you can nuke it and then it's scorched and also radioactive?

14.10.2025 19:04 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I can see that the beading rights at that point would be a motivator!

13.10.2025 08:36 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Did that mean that there was less footage than final episode? So.. title sequences? What else goes in?

12.10.2025 20:40 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Since I don't know for sure that @girlinthe.bsky.social has seen this, it is necessary to repost. I think @wobblygoose.bsky.social would also appreciate it.

24.09.2025 16:56 — 👍 2    🔁 1    💬 2    📌 0

I misread that as 'pursue statutes' which... would be a different sermon again.

24.09.2025 16:53 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0