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Yup. It’s me, rabble rouser, seitan-worshipper, and defender of the Oxford Comma. I’ll be more active on here as time goes on.

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One piece of advice I would give everyone in the sector Hi everyone, this post is long, personal, and likely melancholy. One of the questions I get asked often is “What’s one piece of advice you would give to those of us just entering the sector?” or “What...

“once a while, we do need to stop and acknowledge that we don’t have an infinite number of afternoon walks around the neighborhood, or trips to the playground, or opportunities to catch a movie. The people we care most about are not going to be there forever.”

24.02.2026 09:26 — 👍 5    🔁 3    💬 0    📌 3
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Year of the Fire Horse, and what it means for our sector Hi everyone, I am hyped up on leftover Valentine’s Day chocolates that I bought at 50% off, so apologies in advance if this post is a bit rambling. The Lunar New Year is coming up, with this Tuesday, ...

“What we have coming up is a year of bold visions, courageous stances, quick and decisive actions, risk-taking, and fanning the small sparks we’ve been nurturing so they become engulfing infernos of equity and progress”

17.02.2026 09:30 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Is the nonprofit model outdated? Hi everyone, I'm having a virtual book launch event on February 25th at 10am Pacific Time. It's free, open to everyone, and auto-captions will be enabled. There will be giveaways, quick interviews wit...

“Philosophically speaking, of course it is; it was outdated as soon as it was invented. We’re talking about a system that really shouldn’t even exist. In an ideal world, we wouldn’t need so many nonprofits or foundations, or even any.”

10.02.2026 04:33 — 👍 5    🔁 2    💬 1    📌 1
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How nonprofits' and philanthropy's fear and disdain of money is biting us in the ass Quick reminder: I'm having a virtual book launch event on February 25th at 10am Pacific Time. It's free, open to everyone, and auto-captions will be enabled. Details and registration here. -- Last w...

“even the most radically progressives among us, need to get over the delusion that many of the inequities in our world can be addressed without money. Saying that MLK didn’t have corporate money is ridiculous and inaccurate.”

03.02.2026 05:01 — 👍 10    🔁 4    💬 0    📌 2
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Funders and donors: It’s never too late to join the fight against fascism Hi everyone, quick reminder that if you’re free this Saturday January 31st at 9am Pacific, please join me and Kimberly O’Neil for “Leading the Work Without Losing Yourself.” It’s free; auto-caption wi...

“I don't care what the reasons have been for your foundation not treating the rise of fascism like the serious humanity-ending threat that it is. It is not too late to get involved and help defeat it.”

27.01.2026 06:07 — 👍 20    🔁 9    💬 0    📌 1
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The White Moderation Genome Project Hi everyone, if you’re not busy on Saturday January 31st, at 9am Pacific Time, please join me in a FREE virtual conversation, “Leading the Work Without Losing Yourself: A Conversation for Nonprofit Pr...

I think it will be great if we map out and categorize all the ways that white moderation manifests. Doing so will help us identify when we’re engaged in white moderation, and help us find ways to mitigate it. I’m going to call this project the White Moderation Genome Project (WMGP)”

20.01.2026 06:36 — 👍 4    🔁 3    💬 0    📌 1
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Heated Rivalry, if it were set in nonprofit and philanthropy Hey everyone, thanks to the recommendation/threats of several colleagues, I finished watching Heated Rivalry, a smoldering Canadian show about gay/bi hockey players. When everything is so awful in the...

Shane: I know. But it’s killing me. Clandestine meetings. Pretending we don’t know each other. Sexy times after work hours in my cubicle/supplies closet roleplaying as a Mountie interrogating a maple syrup counterfeiter. I want more than this.

13.01.2026 07:01 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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You are awesome, and other reminders as you get back to work this week and feel like crap Hi everyone, I normally post on Tuesdays, but I know many people are getting back to work today, so I thought I would send some words of encouragement. And those words are: “OMG everything is crappy ...

“The work you do is like going skinny-dipping on a moonless night: You create significant ripples, even if you don’t see them and may never.”

05.01.2026 06:06 — 👍 11    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 3
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The second worst Christmas song ever written, and new forms of poverty porn and saviorism Hi everyone, this will be the last post for this year. I’ll be back on January 6th. My older son, Viet, loves holiday music, and often asks for it to be played when I drive the kids to various places...

“With the increase in Artificial Intelligence, all these and other forms of poverty porn, othering, and saviorism will be easier to produce, and possibly harder to identify and counter. Let’s all be on the lookout in the coming year. Yay, something to look forward to in 2026!”

16.12.2025 06:35 — 👍 6    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Taking a break this week Hi everyone, I was writing a blog post, and then just as I was about to publish it, I realized I had already written on the topic! And you know what, the post written 3 years ago was funnier! It was a...

“Take naps and stay hydrated, and if you make some silly mistake, just remember that you're human, and that no matter what you do, you're amazing...and probably still vastly more competent than the majority of people in power right now.”

09.12.2025 07:19 — 👍 11    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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“Take it easy in this capitalist hellscape”: Lessons I learned from Alice Wong “Take it easy in this capitalist hellscape.” That’s the last line that Alice sent me. We had been exchanging emails, as I had quoted her in my new book and wanted to make sure she was OK with it. I as...

“She loved food. She cussed a lot. Society often puts people who are most affected by injustice on pedestals, treat them like fragile baby birds, or define them only by the oppression they face. But we are more than that.“

02.12.2025 10:11 — 👍 9    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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A moratorium on the Attitude of Gratitude Hi everyone, there is an economic blackout from 11/28 to 12/5 in protest of fascism and corporate greed, so please avoid spending money on those days, as well as avoid streaming services, social media...

“Thanking people and feeling thanked may cause people to be placated instead of justifiably angry, which prevents them from addressing systemic issues more meaningfully.”

25.11.2025 06:25 — 👍 5    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 1
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Funders, stop viewing your tedious and paternalistic requirements as nonprofit "accountability" Last week, I was in Toronto facilitating a conversation on equitable grantmaking with a group of colleagues, including several funders and impact investment leaders. During the rise of authoritarianis...

“give multi-year general operating dollars (MYGOD), fund faster, give more, remove barriers they impose on nonprofits —do what conservative funders have been doing for decades for their grantees. Get over these paternalistic, condescending philosophies and assumptions and act like true partners.”

18.11.2025 07:50 — 👍 11    🔁 3    💬 0    📌 0

Thank you Rachel. Your kind words and recommendation made my week. Much appreciation.

18.11.2025 07:49 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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Good news roundup: Things to make you feel hopeful this week Hi everyone, I am on a plane heading to New York to speak at the Nonprofit New York conference, and Wi-Fi is very spotty, so apologies for the poor grammar and coherence. If you’re free next week, jo...

“The past few months (years) we have all been inundated with terrible news about awful things happening all over the world. While we should continue paying attention to them and act when we can, it’s important to acknowledge that awesome things are also taking place.”

11.11.2025 07:42 — 👍 7    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
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Philanthropic advisors, embrace your role as agents of justice Hi everyone, you must be as exhausted as I am by the relentless awfulness that’s going on everywhere in the world. But please pay attention to Sudan, where there is a genocide taking place, with thous...

“We have seen how toxic many of the ‘best practices’ we’ve entrenched in fundraising over the past few decades have been […] Maybe during philanthropic advising’s nascent stage, we can prevent some of these pitfalls before they gain too much ground.”

04.11.2025 06:42 — 👍 7    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
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GoFundMe and the much scarier stuff behind many of the technologies we use daily Hi everyone, this week is Halloween, which is probably my favorite holiday, mainly because I like the easy access to junk food everywhere I go. If you’re on Instagram, check out my “Scary Nonprofit St...

“as a sector that prides itself on its collective mission of fighting inequity and injustice, we also cannot absolve ourselves of the responsibility of grappling with difficult conversations about the tech we use and how we may be complicit in furthering the things we’re seeking to counter.”

28.10.2025 06:07 — 👍 6    🔁 2    💬 1    📌 2
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Scary Nonprofit Stories to Tell in the Dark 2025 Hi everyone, Halloween is coming up next week, which means it's time for the annual scary stories. These are terrifying tales that are guaranteed to send chills up your spine. Gather your coworkers an...

“No!” said another leader, “We don’t need research! Or summits! Money! We need money! Our programs run on money! We’re all so tired trying to get you to understand!”

“Got it!” said the program officer, writing “self-care” on the easel paper.

21.10.2025 05:38 — 👍 11    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Funders, stop requiring line-item budget reports and variance explanations Hi everyone. Halloween is coming up, which means it’s time for scary stories. Grab a stuffie and wrap yourself in a blanket as I tell a terrifying tale that will leave you with chills down your spine....

“Of all the crappy funding practices funders sometimes pull, requiring nonprofits to justify line items variances on their financial reports is one of the most archaic, inane, insipid, ludicrous, and banal of them all.”

14.10.2025 06:56 — 👍 7    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0
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Let's reclaim our vision for the amazing society we can build from the ashes Hi everyone, I’ve been stress-eating chocolate, so I’m not sure how coherent this post will be. Besides the general state of the world, I also have my book launching next week with an in-person event ...

“I don’t want the asshole tech-bros' sad dystopian visions to be the dominant ones. I want the visions I’ve read about on countless nonprofits’ websites.”

07.10.2025 06:29 — 👍 10    🔁 4    💬 0    📌 2
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Let’s be less nice while we fight against fascism Hi everyone, thank you so much for your patience as we transitioned this website to Ghost. Look how cool it is! Thank you to the amazing Carissa and Stacy of stacynguyen.com for their work. A few chan...

“we’ve tried being nice and cordial and courteous and diplomatic. If anything, our white moderate tendency to gravitate toward civility has strengthened and enabled fascists.”

30.09.2025 04:26 — 👍 10    🔁 4    💬 0    📌 0
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A message and a Lesson from Norway 🇳🇴 💙💙

28.09.2025 03:38 — 👍 1591    🔁 854    💬 45    📌 163
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Our work is not done…

📌 Sinclair Broadcast Group is still refusing to air Jimmy Kimmel Live! on its ABC affiliates nationwide.

Folks, you know what to do.

Google Sinclair-owned networks and channels in your city and act accordingly.

23.09.2025 11:52 — 👍 7796    🔁 3789    💬 717    📌 306

Urging ALL Californians to vote YES ON 50. Take those five Republican seats without an OUNCE of mercy, just like they did to us in Texas! Be our get back!!!!!

23.09.2025 15:16 — 👍 238    🔁 85    💬 5    📌 4
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Let’s try to be nicer to ourselves and one another while we fight against fascism Hi everyone, a couple of announcements. First, if you’re in Seattle, please come to the book launch event I’m having on October 14th from 6pm to 8pm at Centilia Cultural Center. Everyone is so stresse...

“negative emotions get misdirected to ourselves and the people closest to us, often without our being conscious of it. This is a tactic and goal of fascism, as a populace that is constantly on edge and emotionally dysregulated is easier to control.”

23.09.2025 06:19 — 👍 13    🔁 4    💬 0    📌 1
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Netanyahu: ‘These So-Called Genocide Experts Have Probably Never Committed A Genocide In Their Lives’ JERUSALEM—In response to an independent United Nations inquiry concluding that Israel is committing an ongoing genocide against Palestinians in Gaza, Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu issued a defiant...

Netanyahu: ‘These So-Called Genocide Experts Have Probably Never Committed A Genocide In Their Lives’

18.09.2025 18:00 — 👍 6130    🔁 1426    💬 52    📌 49
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Donor engagement and the retail-ification of equity and justice Hi everyone, buckle up (though, at this point in the rapid collapse of civilization, I’m not sure any of us can be more buckled than we already are). Whenever I talk about donors, people get weirdly d...

“All of us—nonprofits leaders, donors, funders, volunteers, clients—are like people living together in a village that is half on fire and rapidly spreading. In this situation, a retail-like mentality would be silly, if not downright destructive.”

16.09.2025 05:54 — 👍 3    🔁 3    💬 0    📌 1
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We Must Not Posthumously Sanitize Charlie Kirk's Hateful Life Influential anti-LGBTQ+ activist Charlie Kirk was assassinated on Wednesday. While condemning violence is something most can get behind, sanitization of his hate has gone too far.

There has been a rush among centrists like Gavin Newsom and Ezra Klein to brush over the hateful life of Charlie Kirk and valorize the man.

Let me be clear, killing Charlie Kirk was wrong and abhorrent.

We must condemn murder without sanitizing a man who built his empire on hate.

My latest piece.

11.09.2025 18:03 — 👍 19641    🔁 4967    💬 736    📌 252
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Donors and funders, instead of freaking out or being numb, here are things you can do to fight fascism: Hi everyone, I just attended a wonderful retreat put on by Solidaire Network, a network of progressive funders, donors, and movement leaders. The attendees all seemed so attractive, but that could be ...

“it is better to take any action at this point than to remain frozen while fascists and their enablers mobilize so effectively”

09.09.2025 07:28 — 👍 4    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0

Jesus Christ, I don’t have time for this. If you want to help nonprofits be more effective when they’re most needed, then help remove barriers preventing them from doing their work. But I need to stop arguing with right-wing trolls who want things to remains status quo. So goodbye.

09.09.2025 04:28 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0