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LEAVE ME ALONE

24.01.2025 08:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

There are countries where being gay is illegal and the punishment is imprisonment and death. In some countries same sex fictional animated characters can't lean on each other. There is work to do in our own countries and more to do to support people in other countries.

28.11.2024 22:47 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This is reason #45629 that we still have Pride parades and are still loud on social media, as well as many other forms of protest and activism.

28.11.2024 22:47 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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"Arcane Censors.

They're not even allowed to embrace each other.

This is so strange because their romance is an intrinsic part of the story. So much of the dialog and character motivations make no sense without it."
(Amos Preston)

28.11.2024 22:47 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I had similar the other day when I mentioned pink among other colours (I can't remember the context). The kids looked me as if I'd grown a second head.

26.11.2024 10:34 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I tried to do a tutorial but that was a bit ambitious. There are many online (which is how I learned). Eventually I'll branch out with this stitch from scarves and shawls...

25.11.2024 21:59 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Take a look at my work-in-progress - as usual I'm not 100% on what it will be but I'm thinking of a long wearable of sorts.

25.11.2024 21:58 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Ah, ok. You're a phobe with no grasp on biology, anthropology, neuropsychology or reality. Got it.

25.11.2024 18:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

What's the context here?

25.11.2024 18:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

Carrot and coriander at this time of year. Preferably thicker, I don't like watery soup.

23.11.2024 20:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I did this with my ID yesterday. Checked two pairs of jeans, wallet, coat, couldn't find it and couldn't think where I put it or when I last had it.

I had given up on finding it and turns out I didn't need it.

Hours later I found it on my jewellery holder, where I had put it for safe keeping...

23.11.2024 14:29 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Last time I dyed my hair I ended up with blue fingers.

This time I used a trick I saw: I put a hairband around the gloves on my wrist to seal them.

It went well. After applying the dye I rinsed the gloves, then took them off. I then rinsed the pot and brush...

Yeah, you know where this is going.

21.11.2024 18:19 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

It would be a lot more uniting to listen to other autistic people instead of "I like it and that's all that matters". Pretty divisive of you.

21.11.2024 14:20 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

No. There is no way to verify you're not a scammer.

21.11.2024 13:32 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

ALERT: Only donate through verified channels to avoid possible scams.

21.11.2024 13:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

ALERT: Only donate through verified channels to avoid possible scams.

21.11.2024 12:59 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The Ableist History of the Puzzle Piece Symbol for Autism The puzzle piece is the most commonly recognized symbol for autism awareness. But many people are unaware of its ableist history. On World Autism Awareness Day (April 2nd) , many neurotypical peopl…

I can definitely say it's problematic based on the connotations, which is what I and many others have said.

intheloopaboutneurodiversity.wordpress.com/2019/03/20/t...

21.11.2024 12:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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The Ableist History of the Puzzle Piece Symbol for Autism The puzzle piece is the most commonly recognized symbol for autism awareness. But many people are unaware of its ableist history. On World Autism Awareness Day (April 2nd) , many neurotypical peopl…

intheloopaboutneurodiversity.wordpress.com/2019/03/20/t...

Again, I'm just passing information on. I'm not speaking for anyone

21.11.2024 12:27 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It's also problematic to differentiate between autistic people based on perceived intellect and "severity" (of which the Aspergers label is part). It indicates people are "more than" and "less than". Clinical psychology is slowly moving away from that.

21.11.2024 12:24 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Yeah... "Aspies" is also highly problematic. Asperger was a eugenicist who caused many autistic people to be killed, and deemed women and girls as incapable of being autistic due to lack of intelligence. Most of what I know on the subject I've learned from autistic people.

21.11.2024 12:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

"Isn't untrue" means "is true". I recognise that is an error.

People can use the symbol if they want but they must understand a lot of autistic people seriously dislike it due to the connotations I have repeatedly explained.

21.11.2024 12:21 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It is rejected because of the connotations and the widespread use by non-Autistic people without consulting actually autistic people, and the association with Autism Speaks which as has been said is a highly problematic, and actually dangerous, organisation.

21.11.2024 12:10 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Also I'm not speaking on behalf of anyone. I'm passing on what many individuals and organisations have said.

21.11.2024 12:01 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The puzzle piece has been widely rejected. The association with Autism Speaks has made it highly negative.

21.11.2024 11:59 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The autistic community as a whole rejects the puzzle piece, for multiple reasons. For a start it implies we're a puzzle to be worked out, but also it's used by Autism Speaks who are HIGHLY problematic.

21.11.2024 07:30 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The autistic community as a whole rejects the puzzle piece, for multiple reasons. For a start it implies we're a puzzle to be worked out, but also it's used by Autism Speaks who are HIGHLY problematic.

21.11.2024 07:29 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

The autistic community as a whole rejects the puzzle piece, for multiple reasons. For a start it implies we're a puzzle to be worked out, but also it's used by Autism Speaks who are HIGHLY problematic.

21.11.2024 07:29 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

The ADHD in me has a lot to answer for, including this new hole in my finger.

21.11.2024 00:00 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The ADHD in me needed to peel the sticker off my nail polish bottle.

The ADHD in me needed to use a darning needle to do it because I couldn't wait until my nails were dry.

The ADHD in me needed to peel the sticker apart with the needle while holding it on my finger.

21.11.2024 00:00 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
This felt appropriate today (Trans Day of Remembrance)

Transitioning means life, not grief.

TEXT:

They all said the same thing about my transition.
"Be patient with your mom. To her, you are kα»‹lling her daughter."
That's not fair. I'm no kα»‹ller.
I'm the one who saved her from drowning.
I used all my strength. I gave everything I had. The sea was dark, and cold...
But the person I pulled out of the water was a son.
And he was alone and unclaimed.
"To her, you are kα»‹lling her daughter."
No. I saved her son.
If this was a daughter, I would be a hero.

- cryingbard (Tumblr)

Link to OP: https://www.tumblr.com/cryingbard/747760069857492992/thats-not-fair-if-you-want-to-see-me-vent-im

This felt appropriate today (Trans Day of Remembrance) Transitioning means life, not grief. TEXT: They all said the same thing about my transition. "Be patient with your mom. To her, you are kα»‹lling her daughter." That's not fair. I'm no kα»‹ller. I'm the one who saved her from drowning. I used all my strength. I gave everything I had. The sea was dark, and cold... But the person I pulled out of the water was a son. And he was alone and unclaimed. "To her, you are kα»‹lling her daughter." No. I saved her son. If this was a daughter, I would be a hero. - cryingbard (Tumblr) Link to OP: https://www.tumblr.com/cryingbard/747760069857492992/thats-not-fair-if-you-want-to-see-me-vent-im

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This felt appropriate today (Trans Day of Remembrance)

Transitioning means life, not grief.

Link to OP: www.tumblr.com/cryingbard/7...

20.11.2024 21:45 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0