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Brian Decker

@blatherbits.bsky.social

Amateur writer, Dad, Husband, Partner. I'm just a Gen Xer navigating new Dad hood. I'm here to throw up my musing, writings and offer support to Dad's dealing with Infertility and going through Infertility treatments. #writing #writingcommunity #IVF

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Found a groove and hit 73000 words today. With more coming quickly. I hope to have the main narrative finished by the end of the month and go into polish mode for November. If this continues to go well, I may have it ready for agent submissions by the start of next year.

17.10.2025 18:36 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

1 year ago today, I became a father. My son is growing so rapidly, and starting to show his personality. He's such a blessing and always makes me smile. I look forward to years of catching, running, climbing, and everything else a boy brings. Happy 1st Birthday Corwin!

23.07.2025 12:57 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Gahh... KPop Demon Hunters soundtrack is embedded in my brain. It's amazing music, but damn, it won't stop playing.

BTW, if you haven't watched it, go watch it so you to become obsessed with my obsession!

12.07.2025 01:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yay my first fathers day, boo started Ozempic to get my diabetes under control and feel like I've been run over by a Mack Truck.

Happy Father's Day to all fathers of all types. Hope you all have a great day. I'm gonna go pass out.

16.06.2025 01:47 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Blech. Ash sting to new meds = no protest for me today. 🀒

14.06.2025 17:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If you watched Andor. LA is Ghorman, all they are waiting for is a false flag to kill an Ice Agent, so they can start shooting protestors and declare Martial Law and take over governance of the city.

12.06.2025 20:04 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Senator Alex Pedia was forced out of a DHS press conference, and handcuffed like a criminal. DHS and ICE is out of control. Dismantle all of it and rebuild from scratch. Fire everyone involved with this.

Get off your ass Dems and fight back. No Fucking Kings!

12.06.2025 19:34 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Arrest you without resisting the arrest. If you do nothing to hinder or help, then usually the police will just let you out later that day. If you do anything that "causes harm" to an officer, you likely will be charged.

Resist, just be smart about it. Cause havock. Disrupt.

11.06.2025 15:25 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Stand up, Fight back, but just a few notes:

Don't hit back. It sucks, it really does, but even if they hit you first, they can arrest you for hitting back.

Spitting will get you arrested. Thanks to Covid rules, Spitting is a "Chemical" attack.

Stand your ground. (1/2)

11.06.2025 15:25 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Bogart crossed the Rainbow Bridge this morning. He was a 14 and a half year old Basset hound, and, perhaps, the bestest dog ever. I will miss his cuddles, bumps, lumps, wrinkles and drool. He climbed mountains, trotted through forrest, and waded through streams. He will be missed. :(

21.05.2025 10:53 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Picture shows a back yard and deck with a gap between the fence and the deck and a stairs with no gate.

Picture shows a back yard and deck with a gap between the fence and the deck and a stairs with no gate.

Shows backyard fence gap, with a lattice Hogwire fence and gate filling the gap.

Shows backyard fence gap, with a lattice Hogwire fence and gate filling the gap.

Shows the deck stairs with a new gate to keep the dogs in.

Shows the deck stairs with a new gate to keep the dogs in.

New house that's eating up my writing time. From picture one to picture 2 and 3:

19.05.2025 17:43 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Been busy with move prep, so not keeping up with vss right now. Will get back on it as I can. Thanks everyone

28.04.2025 18:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

We are in the process of finding a new #place. Our current rental is nice, but for the price, we could buy our own house. It has been so much work, and thinking about the boy's needs has been a big reason why. Can't just grab any condo, have to think about location and schools.

#vss365

22.04.2025 17:04 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"Oh give me a break you Nottie piece of shit. Just because you are wearing a uniform doesn't mean you are better then me. You should know your #place and stop taking up valuable space for talents."

Frank frowned at the man as he uttered the words, his anger rising with each word.

#vss365

22.04.2025 15:22 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

One can list the monetary #cost of the bringing the boy into the world. Between IVF and hospital and baby stuff we are in the 10s of thousands. But the value of that expense is so beyond the cost that it is the best value ever!

#vss365

21.04.2025 01:21 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

"The tag says the #cost is 10 pound 6.". Gwen complained to the shop clerk.

"I do apologize ma'am, but the cost is 12 pounds.". The shop girls did her best to look apologetic, but could hardly hide the smirk.

" You sold one to the previous customer for 10 pound 6."

"Correct, ma'am."

#vss365

21.04.2025 00:25 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I never expect to make a dime in my slow writing. I'd be happy if it is good enough that a dozen or so people read it. The story is in my head and I need to tell. It's why I keep at it no matter how good or bad it is.

19.04.2025 11:52 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Had this problem with a dinner scene till I figured out what the character needed to learn. This one is meant to do some world building and character back story. I just hate info dump chapters.

#writing.

18.04.2025 23:30 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#writing

Geh currently stuck. Between the boy, work, and a major purchase my writing on this scene has stalled. I know I need the scene, but not sure what it is about. Needs to be a developmental point for the main character, but don't want to fall into pure exposition.

Guess it's time to map.

18.04.2025 23:28 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
The Myth That Rogue One Shattered
YouTube video by ArTorr The Myth That Rogue One Shattered

#politics

Remember. Hope is our greatest weapon against Tyranny. People are our greatest resource. Plan, Prepare, and be ready to Hope.

youtu.be/L7usTcVYZRo?...

18.04.2025 19:50 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#Politics

Watching THIS weekend approach I realized I was distracting myself. Holding my breath to see if the rumors end up being true. I'm not sure what happens this weekend, if anything. If it does, then this is the swan song of the Republic, and the rise of the resistance.

18.04.2025 19:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Being a new parent really changes your #customer profile on Amazon. I went from seeing video games, computer stuff and home improvement, to seeing children's books, baby clothes and breast pumps. Such a strange shift in proffered goods.

#vss365

18.04.2025 02:35 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"I'm sorry, sir, we don't allow your type of #customer in this shop." The shop keeper had a sour expression and glared at Frank and tapped a "No Notties allowed" sign.

Frank frowned and replied, "Really not polite to read my mind without permission."

The shopkeeper just tapped the sign.

#vss365

18.04.2025 02:27 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If there is someone I detest as much as the Orange Fuher, it's mister Brain Worm. Eff both of them.

16.04.2025 22:28 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The #marketing for new parents is all aglow with soft lighting and smiling babies in soft jumpers. Giggling voices and ticklish feet. They don't show you the 3 am wake ups to a screaming angry infant, who wants food now. Or the dark circles under the eyes. Guess that doesn't sell.

#vss365

16.04.2025 15:59 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Gwen sized up the recruits. Several were fresh off the train, others had been here for a week or more. Most of their shoulders were slumped like the world had beaten them long ago. "Listen up! The #marketing says this will be a better life for you, and it will, after you finish training."

#vss365

16.04.2025 15:57 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#Politics

Abregio Garcia's wife should sue ICE and The Government for wrongfyl imprisonment, pain and suffering, and violations of his due process rights. Set the bill at a Billion dollars.

Can't sue the president, but you can sue the government.

16.04.2025 02:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Being a newish (8mos) dad at a ripe middle age, creates a lot of #pressure to make sure I raise the boy right. To ensure I take my half century of experience and package it up for him to learn from. To have an even and understanding hand as he grows and learns and becomes a full person.

#vss365

15.04.2025 22:35 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Frank hunkered down behind a low pile of stone. The #pressure from the Frasiers on the right flank was beginning to have an effect. "Sergeant, move second and third squads from first platoon over to support third on the right. We'll try and do a swing gate maneuver and outflank them."

#vss365

15.04.2025 19:54 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#Politics

If Trump goes after Harvard's Non-Profit status, then the next Democrat congress should nuke every Politically active church in the US. Just nuke their Tax Exempt status en masse. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

15.04.2025 18:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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