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@handfulofcheese.bsky.social

30ish & nerdyish.

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My friend purchased a book to help ADHDers establish successful routines. She used it for a few weeks and had tremendous success....but then she lost the book ๐Ÿ˜…

23.10.2025 16:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's hilarious to me how ADHD thwarts all attempts to put successful routines in place to work around the problems stemming from ADHD in the first place.

Example:
Making a to-do list so I don't forget...then subsequently losing the list or forgetting where I put it.

23.10.2025 16:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

When I take my Adderall and wash it down with my iced coffee, I like to pretend that I'm the guy from Limitless.

09.10.2025 14:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A balloon arch made of pink, purple, and blue balloons decorates a grocery store floral department.

A balloon arch made of pink, purple, and blue balloons decorates a grocery store floral department.

Meet me at our spot...(the grocery store bisexual balloon arch)

14.08.2025 23:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Things I might ramble about here:

๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’™ Being bi+/queer
๐Ÿ‹โ€โ™€๏ธLifting weights
๐Ÿคผโ€โ™€๏ธ WWE
๐ŸŽจ Creating art
๐ŸŽฎ Gaming
๐Ÿ“š Reading
๐Ÿ‘—Thrifting
๐Ÿชจ Archaeology & adjacent fields
๐Ÿง  Neurodiversity & mental health
๐ŸŽ Whatever other topics my ADHD brain temporarily latches onto

Want to know more? Ask me anything!

08.05.2025 14:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
08.05.2025 14:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm going to be a copycat and post one of these also ๐Ÿฑ

08.05.2025 14:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's been awhile, Bluesky. Hope I haven't missed anything exciting.

08.05.2025 13:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Your hair rocks!

26.01.2025 16:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A watercolor art piece depicts 2 red birds with blue wings facing one another. They have black plumage on their heads created with splattered black ink.

A watercolor art piece depicts 2 red birds with blue wings facing one another. They have black plumage on their heads created with splattered black ink.

Feathered Friends #watercolor #acrylic

12.01.2025 01:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 9    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I am noticing that the people who have commented or quote posted as fitting in category 1 often cite anxiety/paranoia ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿคฃ

11.01.2025 20:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This is how my boyfriend plays as well. (I'm #2.) He will watch YouTube videos with ending reveals of video games so that he can choose the ideal outcome.

11.01.2025 19:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ooh! I haven't played the Baulder's Gate games yet but I've heard they're amazing.

11.01.2025 19:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm the same way! But I feel like I'm cheating myself out of having an immersive experience if I look up all the outcomes ahead of time.

11.01.2025 19:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Which type of gamer are you...

1. Researches each dialogue/choice option to see what the consequences will be for your long-term game play.

2. Picks the dialogue/choice that feels right and accepts the consequences whatever they may be.

11.01.2025 16:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2
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Billionaire CEO shares the No. 1 red flag he sees in employees: It has 'a huge correlation to success' Raising Cane's co-founder and CEO Todd Graves says he doesn't want to see evidence of frequent job-hopping on a candidate's resume. Here's why.

Exhibit C: Todd Graves of Raisin Cane's (chicken strips) has publicly stated his concerns about job-hopping and wants employees to be "intrinsically motivated" to care about his chicken strip business ๐Ÿซ  www.cnbc.com/2024/10/31/r...

09.01.2025 14:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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CEOs share the top red flags they see in employees: โ€˜Youโ€™re probably not going to stay here working that longโ€™ These CEOs hear alarm bells when they spot employees โ€” or job applicants โ€” who display selfish, closed-minded or inflexible behaviors in the workplace.

Exhibit B: Peter Beck, CEO of Rocket Labs (more rocketry stuff)says he prefers to work with folks who work 12-20 hour days like he does www.cnbc.com/2025/01/08/c...

09.01.2025 14:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's almost like they're compensating for something...I dunno ๐Ÿซข

09.01.2025 14:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Engineers sue Elon Musk and SpaceX, saying the company mirrored his juvenile, crude X posts Elon Musk and SpaceX are being sued by eight former employees who accused the billionaire owner of retaliation and fomenting a toxic culture rife with sexual innuendo.

Exhibit A:
-Elon Musk, CEO of SpaceX/rocketship stuff was called out by employees for toxic work culture www.latimes.com/california/s...

09.01.2025 14:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Working theory:
CEOs of businesses that sell phallic-shaped items are the worst.

See thread for evidence...

09.01.2025 14:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

As you should be. You assembled an excellent outfit and you are rocking that look!

09.01.2025 14:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

One of my favorite parts of #WWE debuting on Netflix tonight was Hulk Hogan getting booed. I just know Iron Sheik would love this so much. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

07.01.2025 03:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Right there with you. I just started a body doubling session with my coworkers and that is helping a bit.

03.01.2025 14:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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a cartoon of a dog sitting in front of a laptop with a speech bubble saying it 's fine Alt: a cartoon of a hat-wearing dog sitting in front of a laptop with a speech bubble saying it's fine while flames are all around them

Any of my ADHD peeps have task initiation tips/strategies? I am really struggling with getting stuff done at work unless someone (besides myself) gives me a deadline.

(And yes, this post is one of many distractions I'm giving myself to avoid doing the task I'm supposed to do.)

03.01.2025 13:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Okay...i know it has taken me awhile but I just finished Silver Sparrow. I fully understand why this book angered you & I felt the same way. Unfortunately, I was not shocked by how James acted in the end. Just a crappy situation all around but I liked that Dana seemed to be content in the epilogue.

02.01.2025 02:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This was a lovely thread...here are mine:
๐Ÿ’– read more books than I ever have as an adult
๐Ÿ’– had the most joyful year of my life due to therapy & meds
๐Ÿ’– reconnected with creating art
๐Ÿ’– rekindled old friendships
๐Ÿ’– found language for advocating for my needs & opinions
๐Ÿ’– found a love for living life

30.12.2024 16:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿคฃ

30.12.2024 16:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yessss. I was just driving through a very nice neighborhood with newer homes and telling my boyfriend that it was sad how the front of the houses are 90% garage.

30.12.2024 16:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This is something to put on the resume to be honest. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜…

30.12.2024 16:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Wow! Thank you for introducing me to this art. Love the strategic use of color.

30.12.2024 16:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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