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@jeffcouillard.bsky.social

We help create leaderful teams. Power-aware, systems-conscious, human-centred coaching, consulting and facilitation - supporting courageous activists in building a new (better) world. www.theallyco.world

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Mr. Zuckerberg was amenable. He signaled to Mr. Miller and his colleagues, including other senior Trump advisers, that he would do nothing to obstruct the Trump agenda, according to three people with knowledge of the meeting, who asked for anonymity to discuss a private conversation. Mr. Zuckerberg said he would instead focus solely on building tech products.

Mr. Zuckerberg blamed his former chief operating officer, Sheryl Sandberg, for Facebookโ€™s culture, according to one of the people with knowledge of the meeting. He said new guidelines and a series of layoffs amounted to a reset and that more changes were coming.

Mr. Zuckerberg was amenable. He signaled to Mr. Miller and his colleagues, including other senior Trump advisers, that he would do nothing to obstruct the Trump agenda, according to three people with knowledge of the meeting, who asked for anonymity to discuss a private conversation. Mr. Zuckerberg said he would instead focus solely on building tech products. Mr. Zuckerberg blamed his former chief operating officer, Sheryl Sandberg, for Facebookโ€™s culture, according to one of the people with knowledge of the meeting. He said new guidelines and a series of layoffs amounted to a reset and that more changes were coming.

It really is such masculine energy to blame things on a woman who no longer works at the company www.nytimes.com/2025/01/16/u...

16.01.2025 20:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 29129    ๐Ÿ” 5039    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1695    ๐Ÿ“Œ 593
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I fear there is deep truth here.

11.01.2025 20:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 55496    ๐Ÿ” 13725    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1439    ๐Ÿ“Œ 843
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An update on The Sprawlโ€™s future | The Sprawl We have good news and bad news.

A "Save The Sprawl" campaign update! Ran the numbers and our monthly recurring revenue increased by $1,264 yesterday thanks to new Sprawl members. Blown away. Off to Market Collective but after *one day* we're well over halfway to our goal!! Help us get there: www.sprawlcalgary.com/save-the-spr...

15.12.2024 15:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 47    ๐Ÿ” 33    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 4
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An update on The Sprawlโ€™s future | The Sprawl We have good news and bad news.

There's no sugarcoating it: 2025 will likely be the end of the line for The Sprawl unless we get more financial support. Read our updateโ€”and please pitch in if you can.

14.12.2024 15:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 35    ๐Ÿ” 32    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 6
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This might be one of the most under-utilized concepts for helping leaders understand and use their power.

We added some (hopefully helpful) context and signs/symptoms of when you're moving from one zone into another.

12.12.2024 21:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Is leadership development broken? Podcast Episode ยท Leaderful ยท 2022-12-04 ยท 22m

Is leadership development broken?

Yes, yes it is.

podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/l...

07.12.2024 15:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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gaining power, losing love

FEMINIST women stopped talking about love because we found that love was harder to get than power. Men, and patriarchal females, were more willing to give us jobs, power, or money than they were to give us love. And many of us wanted and needed money. Bombarded by statistics that talked about how a woman's income dropped to next to nothing when she left a man.

Five gaining power, losing love FEMINIST women stopped talking about love because we found that love was harder to get than power. Men, and patriarchal females, were more willing to give us jobs, power, or money than they were to give us love. And many of us wanted and needed money. Bombarded by statistics that talked about how a woman's income dropped to next to nothing when she left a man.

If feminists had continued to talk about love, then we would have needed to speak about the extreme loveless-ness that is at the heart of domination. We would not have been able to go forward with our newly acquired equal rights, jobs, money, and power without telling everyone that we had discovered that patriarchy, like any colonizing system, does not create the context for women and men to love one another. We would have needed to remind everyone repeatedly that genuine love between females and males could emerge only in a context where the sexes would come together to challenge and change patriarchal

If feminists had continued to talk about love, then we would have needed to speak about the extreme loveless-ness that is at the heart of domination. We would not have been able to go forward with our newly acquired equal rights, jobs, money, and power without telling everyone that we had discovered that patriarchy, like any colonizing system, does not create the context for women and men to love one another. We would have needed to remind everyone repeatedly that genuine love between females and males could emerge only in a context where the sexes would come together to challenge and change patriarchal

Feminist women stopped talking about love because we found that love was harder to get than power.

If feminists had continued to talk about love, then we would have needed to speak about the extreme lovelessness that is at the heart of domination.

bell hooks, from Communion

24.11.2024 12:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 255    ๐Ÿ” 21    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 9    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2
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Is leadership development broken? Podcast Episode ยท Leaderful ยท 2022-12-04 ยท 22m

Leadership development is broken.

And it shows.

podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/l...

24.11.2024 14:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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oh.

24.11.2024 05:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 69    ๐Ÿ” 39    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 7    ๐Ÿ“Œ 6

Someone called this mass exodus from Twitter โ€˜the fall of the Broman Empireโ€™ and I died laughing. ๐Ÿ’€

23.11.2024 18:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 114857    ๐Ÿ” 16478    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1491    ๐Ÿ“Œ 863

Iโ€™d take it a bit further and suggest we shouldnโ€™t be โ€œtreatingโ€ it at all - itโ€™s a symptom of all of those things youโ€™ve mentioned (along with more, Iโ€™m sure), and believing itโ€™s the treatable problem is a rabbit hole with no bottom.

21.11.2024 19:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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If you haven't used this one I definitely suggest you do. ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿณ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ

16.11.2024 15:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6550    ๐Ÿ” 1745    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 569    ๐Ÿ“Œ 126
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Pack says hi!

15.11.2024 02:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Wheel of Consent and Personal Power: Thought Leader Webinar - Right Use of Power Institute Dr. Betty Martin has had her hands on people professionally for over 40 years. First as a Chiropractor, then after retiring from that practice, as a sex coach

Speaking of power dynamics, this webinar promises to be an excellent discussion.

Wheel of Consent meets Personal Power.

Check it out here: rightuseofpower.org/event/wheel-...

15.11.2024 01:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Episode 3: Jeff Couillard and Navigating Power Dynamics in Professional Spaces Podcast Episode ยท The Power Dynamic Podcast ยท 2024-08-27 ยท 53m

We need a new model for navigating power dynamics.

Because power-over and power-as-control are what facilitate so much of the misuses and abuses of power in our world.

Grateful to dig into it with Dr. Amanda Aguilera on The Power Dynamic podcast recently.

podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/t...

15.11.2024 01:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I've tuned out 99% of mainstream thought leadership.

Because most of the time it's a tired repetition of reinforcing the status quo.

But @francesfrei.bsky.social and Anne Morriss are in that 1% of leadership thinkers who aren't afraid to (compassionately) challenge us all do do and be better.

15.11.2024 01:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Confidence is often perceived as an individual traitโ€”something you either have or you donโ€™t.

But is that truly the case?

In reality, confidence is co-created. Itโ€™s about the environment we foster, the trust we build, and the psychological safety leaders provide.

15.11.2024 01:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Such an important discussion - glad to see you and Anne jumping into it!

15.11.2024 01:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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