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@jdstarflower.bsky.social

Xennial sapphic trans femme/them trying to find community in the digital wasteland.

187 Followers  |  280 Following  |  1,808 Posts  |  Joined: 23.08.2023  |  2.2053

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I had to walk away from a conversation with a coworker tonight. I couldnโ€™t get him to understand why a woman would choose the bear. He kept coming back to โ€œthe bear will eat herโ€. Refusing to understand that thatโ€™s the _worst_ the bear would do.
๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ
Tell me youโ€™re always the bully, never the bullied.

17.10.2025 03:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I feel this says things about addictive personalities. Like many things, social media is probably best in moderation. If itโ€™s all youโ€™re doing and youโ€™re not using any critical thinking to limit your exposure to the toxic elements, it can become problematic. The same is true for IRL things too.

17.10.2025 03:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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How to Turn Off AI Tools Like Gemini, Apple Intelligence, Copilot, and More via @ConsumerReports AI features are crowding into Google search, Gmail, iPhones, Windows laptops, and other products. If you're suffering from AI overload, these settings can help.

oooh. Bookmarking this! "How to turn off AI tools in Apple, Google, Microsoft, and more." Step-by-step instructions from Consumer Reports.

15.10.2025 20:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4914    ๐Ÿ” 2984    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 38    ๐Ÿ“Œ 40

I had to walk away from a conversation with a coworker tonight. I couldnโ€™t get him to understand why a woman would choose the bear. He kept coming back to โ€œthe bear will eat herโ€. Refusing to understand that thatโ€™s the _worst_ the bear would do.
๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ
Tell me youโ€™re always the bully, never the bullied.

17.10.2025 03:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Recent developments seem to indicate that quite a few people were just pretending to agree because their disagreement was deemed problematic. Lately the oligarchs have been signaling that itโ€™s safe to publicly disagree with that statement. So the Nazis can come out of the woodwork again.

16.10.2025 22:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m pretty sure you donโ€™t actually want the answer, but just in case someone out there doesโ€ฆ
Wardrobe is a compound word for a chamber or container meant to guard (or โ€œwardโ€) oneโ€™s clothes (or โ€œrobeโ€).
Itโ€™s a little more linguistically complex than that, but simply put, it wards robes.

16.10.2025 10:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Be proud

16.10.2025 07:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1733    ๐Ÿ” 457    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 19    ๐Ÿ“Œ 3
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The Sapling Cage โ€” Feminist Press Margaret Killjoy In the gripping first novel in the Daughters of the Empty Throne trilogy, author Margaret Killjoy spins a tale of earth magic, power struggle, and self-invention in a powerful story ...

Just finished The Sapling Cage by @margaret.bsky.social. I loved it. I need more. I am enthralled by the worldbuilding. I eagerly await further adventures in this setting.

www.feministpress.org/books-a-m/th...

16.10.2025 08:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 40    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Some of us are awake.
*hugs*

16.10.2025 06:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Because whether they realize it or not, theyโ€™ve dehumanized trans people in their minds. Thatโ€™s why they can work with transphobes like JK without it bothering their conscience.

16.10.2025 00:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Took me about 45 years to figure out that Iโ€™m gay.

The problem is I was never unsure about who I was attracted to, my confusion was at the other end. ๐Ÿ˜

Bullies at school used to call me gay, they just didnโ€™t know they were right.

15.10.2025 22:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

That it wasnโ€™t immediately tagged as a hate crime is problematic at best.

*hugs*

15.10.2025 22:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This is what we need from every politician who claims to stand for human rights.

Otherwise itโ€™s just lip service.

(And I do mean this followed by actual implementation of these policies, not just lies on a campaign trail.)

14.10.2025 21:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Tweet from The Bulwark: โ€œQ: โ€˜How many layoffs have you authorized?โ€™ Trump: โ€˜A lot. It will be Democrat orientedโ€ฆ They should be Democrat oriented. It will be a lot and weโ€™ll announce the numbers over the next couple of days... Many of them will be fired.โ€™โ€
Below, a photo shows Donald Trump speaking to reporters in the Oval Office surrounded by staff and press.

Tweet from The Bulwark: โ€œQ: โ€˜How many layoffs have you authorized?โ€™ Trump: โ€˜A lot. It will be Democrat orientedโ€ฆ They should be Democrat oriented. It will be a lot and weโ€™ll announce the numbers over the next couple of days... Many of them will be fired.โ€™โ€ Below, a photo shows Donald Trump speaking to reporters in the Oval Office surrounded by staff and press.

Firing someone purely for their political affiliation is illegal and is a violation of free speech.

12.10.2025 23:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3894    ๐Ÿ” 974    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 207    ๐Ÿ“Œ 44
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The Crime of Human Virtue Sometimes it really is as simple as good vs. evil. This is one of those times. Human virtue is our great crime against the fascist project; it's also our great weapon against it.

"To be a Republican in 2025 represents a clear public confession that you either don't know the difference between good and evil and you're so morally empty that you can't be bothered to begin to try, or that you do know the difference, and you prefer evil." Great essay from @juliusgoat.bsky.social

12.10.2025 23:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1301    ๐Ÿ” 362    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 18    ๐Ÿ“Œ 16
TikTok - Make Your Day

Imma gonna raise you:

โ€œAI-written anatomy textbookโ€

www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8AajvD7/

12.10.2025 11:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I loved to original TRON, I liked TRON: Legacy (and TRON Uprising). However,while I was interested in TRON Ares, having it be a Jared Leto vehicle pretty much killed my interest. Especially any interest I might have had to see it in the theater.

11.10.2025 21:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™d say 10.75 to 11. Itโ€™s definitely on the 10 side of the 11 line. The grooves around The sides donโ€™t seem to match up with any of the measures on the rule.

11.10.2025 17:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Happy #NationalComingOutDay.

Remember, whether youโ€™re in the closet or out and proud, this day is still for you and your journey matters.

Thereโ€™s no โ€œrightโ€ way to come out. Take your time and be true to you!

11.10.2025 12:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 31    ๐Ÿ” 6    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Happy birthday Sherry from Sherry CD-ROM. ๐ŸŽ‰

11.10.2025 02:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™ve noticed when ordering online some clothing (especially stuff made in Asia) tends to run smaller. Iโ€™ve found it useful to check the sizing info, some things claim to be 3-4xl but might only fit what another brand would call a medium. And this applies even to unisex clothing too. ๐Ÿ˜ก

10.10.2025 21:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Downtown

IYKYK

10.10.2025 00:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I donโ€™t think Starkid understood what they were bringing into existence when they wrote that.

09.10.2025 22:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Netflix Stock Up As Elon Musk's Anti-Trans Boycott Fails To Materialize Last week, conservatives tried to cancel Netflix to force the carrier to remove transgender characters.

As a counterpoint to the recent Jimmy Fallon/ABC/Disney+ boycott, this is promising.

Hopefully Netflix chooses to just ignore this bit of kerfuffle and possibly even begin to move their programming decisions in a more trans-inclusive direction.

open.substack.com/pub/erininth...

09.10.2025 22:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Woods Hole Oceanographic Institution Woods Hole Oceanographic Institution (WHOI) is the world's premier independent organization dedicated exclusively to ocean research, technology, and education. We combine state-of-the-art science, eng...

Probably Woods Hole Oceanographic Institution (www.whoi.edu). They seemed to have a lot to say about Seaquest.
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09.10.2025 06:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Disabled people are not the enemy

Immigrants are not the enemy

LGBTQ+ people are not the enemy

Minorities & people of colour are not the enemy

These division tactics only work because thereโ€™s one group who needs to feel superior to the rest of us

They will โ€œotherโ€ anyone to advance their agenda

08.10.2025 20:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 389    ๐Ÿ” 129    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 7    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2

Capitalism has no place in healthcare.

Tying healthcare to profits is simply a way to make money directly from peopleโ€™s suffering and desires to continue living.

What ever happened to the โ€œinalienable rightsโ€ to โ€œlife, liberty, and the pursuit of happinessโ€?

09.10.2025 01:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

As long as the Trump regime is willing to hold US citizensโ€™ healthcare hostage, there can be no โ€œcommon groundโ€.
Please, make sure to contact your congress critters and make sure they know the we should not negotiate with terrorists (not even when theyโ€™re in the highest office in the country).

08.10.2025 15:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Without downloading anything, where are you mentally right now?

08.10.2025 15:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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