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Gurdeep Pandher of the Yukon

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Feel free to be sad, but don't stay sad forever! Sikh-Canadian talks joy, hope, positivity, inclusivity & dance Bhangraβ€”folk dance of Panjabβ€” in the Arctic regions and on frozen lakes for mental wellbeing and optimism.β„οΈπŸ§‘ https://gurdeeppandher.substack.com

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If We Can't Keep Ourselves Happy, Nobody Else Can Let me shatter an illusion: happiness isn't delivered in gift-wrapped packages by others. We must cultivate it ourselves.

My new article for you, friends:
( If We Can't Keep Ourselves Happy, Nobody Else Can )
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/if-we-cant

03.08.2025 15:10 β€” πŸ‘ 116    πŸ” 20    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1
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Let me Reframe Harsh Life Experiences into Positive Perspectives Transforming difficult experiences into valuable learning opportunities. Every challenge presents a setback, but it also offers wisdom and growth potential when viewed from a fresh perspective.

Perhaps you want to hear these words:
(Let me Reframe Harsh Life Experiences into Positive Perspectives)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/reframing

27.07.2025 15:06 β€” πŸ‘ 116    πŸ” 10    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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VIDEO: When We Approach Our Fears as Curious Explorers, We Discover Deeper Understanding and Authentic Joy Within the soul's twilight chambersβ€”where melancholy swirls like autumn mist, rage erupts like volcanic fury, dread coils like a serpent, and loss anchors like an ocean weightβ€”wait undiscovered gifts.

It's weekend. Dance on. Click below to watch the video:
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/our-fears-...

26.07.2025 13:27 β€” πŸ‘ 165    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 2
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Being Seen, Heard, and Understood Is One Fundamental Human Need That Almost Everyone Deeply Craves We all fundamentally need to feel seen, heard, and understood by others. When this connection is missing, our mental health suffers tremendously. Fortunately, solutions exist.

My new words for your reading enjoyment and reflection:
(Being Seen, Heard, and Understood Is One Fundamental Human Need That Almost Everyone Deeply Craves)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/being-seen...

23.07.2025 17:02 β€” πŸ‘ 95    πŸ” 11    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Video: Sadness is inherent to our human condition, but joy requires intentional cultivation and learning to peacefully coexist with our sorrows. We come into this world with the capacity for sadness as part of our human nature, but finding joy requires conscious effort and dedication and learning to find how to co-exist with sadness.

It's Friday. Let's move:
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/sadness-fi...

18.07.2025 14:50 β€” πŸ‘ 138    πŸ” 15    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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In Reality, Joy Is As Essential To Us As Breathing The joy we truly need runs deeper than our conventional understandingβ€”it's not merely emotional sunshine but rather the rich soil from which our resilience grows.

MY NEW WORDS FOR YOUR READING MOMENTS:
(In Reality, Joy Is As Essential To Us As Breathing)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/joy-breath...

16.07.2025 17:26 β€” πŸ‘ 124    πŸ” 15    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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When Our Fears Ask, We Quietly Say "Yes," and Sometimes, "Really Big Yes” At its heart, this journey isn't about fearβ€”it's about reclaiming the radiant joy that awaits beyond its fears.

MEET MY NEW WORDS:
(When Our Fears Ask, We Quietly Say "Yes," and Sometimes, "Really Big Yes”)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/when-fears...

12.07.2025 16:30 β€” πŸ‘ 45    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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In These Dark Times, Keeping Joy Alive Can Feel Difficultβ€”Yet It Remains Essential In these increasingly shadow-filled days, maintaining your sense of joy can feel like the challenging task of tending a delicate garden in the depths of winter.

Enjoy Bhangra and Bagpipes:
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/eeping-joy...

08.07.2025 17:02 β€” πŸ‘ 182    πŸ” 28    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 1
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In These Dark Times, Keeping Joy Alive Can Feel Difficultβ€”Yet It Remains Essential In these increasingly shadow-filled days, maintaining your sense of joy can feel like the challenging task of tending a delicate garden in the depths of winter.

Enjoy Bhangra and Bagpipes:
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/eeping-joy...

08.07.2025 17:02 β€” πŸ‘ 182    πŸ” 28    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 1
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Some People Cry Easily. Don't Consider Them Weak or Judge Them at All Those who cry easily, their waterworks aren't emotional malfunction but rather perfect expressionβ€”the soul's poetry written in salt water.

MEET MY NEW WORDS:
(Some People Cry Easily. Don't Consider Them Weak or Judge Them at All)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/tears-and-...

06.07.2025 16:58 β€” πŸ‘ 77    πŸ” 11    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1
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Video: Sadness is inherent to our human condition, but joy requires intentional cultivation and learning to peacefully coexist with our sorrows. We come into this world with the capacity for sadness as part of our human nature, but finding joy requires conscious effort and dedication and learning to find how to co-exist with sadness.

Dance, it's weekend, friends!
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/sadness-fi...

05.07.2025 15:28 β€” πŸ‘ 191    πŸ” 14    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1
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They Filled You Up, Then They Emptied You: What to Do with the Residue of Hurt? When someone who filled our lives with meaning leaves, we face empty spaces where connection once existed. This void needs compassionate attention as we heal and rediscover our wholeness and joy.

MEET MY NEW WORDS:
(They Filled You Up, Then They Emptied You: What to Do with the Residue of Hurt?)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/filled-emp...

02.07.2025 16:52 β€” πŸ‘ 44    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1
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Sometimes Dark Emotions Can Manifest Positive Changes Embracing dark emotions with the right perspective transforms coal to diamondsβ€”pressure creating new facets of ourselves, polished by wisdom.

MEET MY NEW WORDS:
(Sometimes Dark Emotions Can Manifest Positive Changes)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/dark-emoti...

26.06.2025 14:56 β€” πŸ‘ 40    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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What Would Have Happened if Animals Had Developed Their Own Religions, Countries, and Cultures? Instead of using intelligent minds to share joy and positivity, humans often use their thinking abilities to create division and harm.

Meet my new words:
(What Would Have Happened if Animals Had Developed Their Own Religions, Countries, and Cultures?)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/if-animals

22.06.2025 16:20 β€” πŸ‘ 70    πŸ” 12    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1
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Our Perspective Is the Supreme Ruler of Our Mindβ€”But Our Mind Can Rule It Too Shifting perspective is key to finding joy when your worldview causes sufferingβ€”a deep change in how you perceive and interact with life.

Meet my new words:
(Our Perspective Is the Supreme Ruler of Our Mindβ€”But Our Mind Can Rule It Too)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/perspectiv...

20.06.2025 16:18 β€” πŸ‘ 49    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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You Can't Add Days to Your Life, but You Can Add Life to Your Days We cannot lengthen the ribbon of time, but we can embellish it with jewels of joy, transforming each breath into a masterpiece of living, where mundane minutes bloom into gardens of great moments.

My new words:
(You Can't Add Days to Your Life, but You Can Add Life to Your Days)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/life-to-days

15.06.2025 17:24 β€” πŸ‘ 134    πŸ” 15    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 2

Thank you.

11.06.2025 16:36 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Emotional Maturity Means You Let Others Judge You Without Letting It Steal Your Joy It's okay if others think you're a weirdoβ€”their opinions don't define who you are.

My new words:
(Emotional Maturity Means You Let Others Judge You Without Letting It Steal Your Joy)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/emotional-...

11.06.2025 14:30 β€” πŸ‘ 111    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 2
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Why Progress and Technological Advancements Haven't Made Us Happier Gratitude, though oft-discussed in countless self-help books and mindfulness seminars, remains like a beautiful painting we admire from afar but fail to weave into the fabric of our daily lives.

New words I’ve written for you:
(Why Progress and Technological Advancements Haven't Made Us Happier)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/progress-a...

08.06.2025 15:23 β€” πŸ‘ 106    πŸ” 10    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Why Progress and Technological Advancements Haven't Made Us Happier Gratitude, though oft-discussed in countless self-help books and mindfulness seminars, remains like a beautiful painting we admire from afar but fail to weave into the fabric of our daily lives.

New words I’ve written for you:
(Why Progress and Technological Advancements Haven't Made Us Happier)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/progress-a...

08.06.2025 15:23 β€” πŸ‘ 106    πŸ” 10    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Time Flies, but It Should Fly to Recycle Our Suffering and Tears β€” Otherwise, Humanity Would Remain Forever Wounded While you may feel a twinge of sadness when happy moments pass, remember that somewhere, someone else desperately needs time's forward movement to process their grief and heal their wounds.

My new words for you:
(Time Flies, but It Should Fly to Recycle Our Suffering and Tears β€” Otherwise, Humanity Would Remain Forever Wounded)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/time-flies...

04.06.2025 15:15 β€” πŸ‘ 100    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
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Time Flies, but It Should Fly to Recycle Our Suffering and Tears β€” Otherwise, Humanity Would Remain Forever Wounded While you may feel a twinge of sadness when happy moments pass, remember that somewhere, someone else desperately needs time's forward movement to process their grief and heal their wounds.

My new words for you:
(Time Flies, but It Should Fly to Recycle Our Suffering and Tears β€” Otherwise, Humanity Would Remain Forever Wounded)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/time-flies...

04.06.2025 15:15 β€” πŸ‘ 100    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
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Joy Is Possible Even When Your Day Started with a Smileβ€”Until a Single Social Media Video Made You Feel Worthless The fear of missing out on opportunities, friendships, special relationships, activities, and events often leads to profound sadnessβ€”yet this sadness can be transformed into joy and peace.

New words I've written for you:
(Joy Is Possible Even When Your Day Started with a Smileβ€”Until a Single Social Media Video Made You Feel Worthless)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/inspiratio...

01.06.2025 15:20 β€” πŸ‘ 87    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Smiles Disappear When Love-filled Bonds Transform into Silent Stories The wishes of loved ones, sometimes, create an interesting dynamic between maintaining harmony and leaving many feeling stuck and unsure how to find true joy.

My new words for your eyes and heart:
(Smiles Disappear When Love-filled Bonds Transform into Silent Stories)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/smiles-when

28.05.2025 14:48 β€” πŸ‘ 71    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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"From Betrayal to Beauty" Is a Journey of Tears, Truths, and Transformations Healing from betrayal demands both tender nurturing and fierce determination, like a seedling breaking through frozen earth after a long winter.

I wrote these new words for you:
("From Betrayal to Beauty" Is a Journey of Tears, Truths, and Transformations)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/betrayal-t...

25.05.2025 16:24 β€” πŸ‘ 115    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0
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"From Betrayal to Beauty" Is a Journey of Tears, Truths, and Transformations Healing from betrayal demands both tender nurturing and fierce determination, like a seedling breaking through frozen earth after a long winter.

I wrote these new words for you:
("From Betrayal to Beauty" Is a Journey of Tears, Truths, and Transformations)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/betrayal-t...

25.05.2025 16:24 β€” πŸ‘ 115    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0
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To truly see and appreciate the beauty in the outside world, we must first recognize and nurture our inner beauty. When our inner world lacks harmony, we cannot fully experience the joy in our surroundings.

An important message from The Canadian Institute for Health Information (CIHI).

23.05.2025 14:40 β€” πŸ‘ 397    πŸ” 51    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 1
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To truly see and appreciate the beauty in the outside world, we must first recognize and nurture our inner beauty. When our inner world lacks harmony, we cannot fully experience the joy in our surroundings.

An important message from The Canadian Institute for Health Information (CIHI).

23.05.2025 14:40 β€” πŸ‘ 397    πŸ” 51    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 1
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The Unwanted Pressure to Partner: Why Society Needs to Quit Its Obsession with Relationships We must equally celebrate those who choose partnership and those who walk their own path.

Here are some new words I've written for you:
(The Unwanted Pressure to Partner: Why Society Needs to Quit Its Obsession with Relationships)
gurdeeppandher.substack.com/p/pressure-t...

22.05.2025 15:00 β€” πŸ‘ 143    πŸ” 23    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 5
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Create joy.
Share joy.

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