I think your caution about the differences between countries in the study is correct (and I too wish that I could see the country breakdown by age). While the U.S. isn't one of the extreme outlier in most questions that worry me, we're generally mid-to-bad (and moving in the wrong direction).
09.03.2026 20:35 β
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An open letter to the 31% of Gen Z men who believe that a womanβs role is to obey her husband
You've been sold a bill of goods, and been taught to blame the messenger
Happy International Women's Day! As you probably heard, there was just a study released of views on gender by generation and oh buddy the news is bad! The kids (Gen Z Young Adults) are not all right!
thewhitepages.net/p/an-open-le...
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went to this community organizing thing a bit ago and ended up on a variety of signal chats and like. wow. how does one keep up with all this while being employed? iβm glad there are folks who can do all that, but man. i burn all my energy just getting through the day. there is nothing left.
Don't go searching for OP, leave them alone. I just think that what they uplift is important and explains why many people simply cannot engage in activism and organizing regularly. And the truth is that it's hard to figure out actual ways around this because organizing in fact a labor.
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Long before the occupation, we were told a lie about Minneapolis
It's the same lie we've always been told about each other
If you're interested, here are three pieces I wrote about Noem over the years (I read both of her books! and not just the dog shooting parts!)
thewhitepages.net/p/long-befor...
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As for Noem (after this next gig)... I mean, why does Newsmax exist if not for a cushy landing spot for this exact human being. I can guarantee she won't return to South Dakota in any real way. Everybody there (Ds and Rs) agrees that for all her talk, she never loved that state or her neighbors.
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... that's all to say. It IS a very good thing that there's increasing evidence that the U.S. is rejecting the AESTHETICS of fascism. But this next stage of opposition is going to be trickier, I fear. All the same damage, but potentially fewer viral headlines to rally short term emotions.
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...and as folks can tell you in Minneapolis, that does create a challenge for solidarity efforts. When there's a lower volume of big dumb photos and videos of folks like Noem and Bovino preening like cartoon Nazis, public attention does wane, but people still get disappeared, targeted, etc..
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...their current reign of terror, but just with fewer photo ops...
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... as was the case w/ Bovino's departure from MPLS (alongside rhetoric about the surge ending, which it hasn't), I worry that casting Noem to the shadows (importantly- not firing her; she retains a cushy job) is a sign, not that the admin is going to back down, but that they will continue...
05.03.2026 20:39 β
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...so the new stars of the Trump 2.0 have been, until very recently, folks with a particular predilection for the dictatorial photo op (Noem, Bovino, Vance). So what's changed? Our opposition to performative cruelty has been more sustained and effective than they expected! Which is very good! BUT...
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...you know, the classic "manufacture a mandate through the aesthetic presentation of strength/callousness" fascist move. Authoritarianism plus stagecraft. Noem's not a true believer in the former (I say that not as a compliment, she believes in nothing) but she excels at the latter...
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... was such that she was still useful to what this regime THOUGHT its play was going to be this time around. Remember a year ago, all the talk about mandates and vibe shifts... the plan was to clearly do the worst possible things to human beings, loudly, and pose for pictures while doing it...
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Her job, for a decade now, has been to precisely calibrate her rhetoric/politics to what she thought not just the MAGA base but a plurality of Americans want. And while she whiffed that once (she clearly thought the dog story would make her look tough), her function in the MAGA narrative...
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And it worked (mostly)! She recognized correctly that there was an opening in MAGA world for somebody who could craft herself as both beauty queen and super tough cowgirl (never mind that she comes from the flat farm half of SD, not the rugged ranchy part)...
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The thing you need to know about Kristi Noem is that everything that makes her an easy left-liberal lightning rod (the constant photo ops, the aesthetic embodiment of Trumpian womanhood, the Taylor Sheridan-scripted Western revisionist worldview) was both very deliberate and her sole career plan...
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Thoughts on Noem, as somebody who has spent more time than I'd like to admit writing about her self-presentation/ rise from South Dakota. In a lot of ways her firing has no real implications on this regime's actions, but it is symbolically meaningful, in a way that actually makes me nervous...
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βThe gatherings can spend their time [however] feels right (a party, a potluck, an organizing meeting, a neighborhood clean-up, a space for mourning, a dodgeball tournament). β¦participants will talk about what commitments they want to makeβboth to each other + to a whole nation of caring neighbors.β
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04.03.2026 14:10 β
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This is what being a neighbor looks like
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You will never regret opposing a war
Because wars destroy human beings, and we are meant for more than destruction
It was a wildly circulated image in aftermath of the bombing of the girls' school this weekend. I switched it out, though, because it was giving AI vibes. While not confirmed as AI (as far as I can tell), that's my suspicion. Same essay here, new pic:
thewhitepages.net/p/you-will-n...
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Read this and then call your congresspeople.
03.03.2026 16:35 β
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You will never regret opposing a war
Because wars destroy human beings, and we are meant for more than destruction
I don't hate this war because it wasn't "authorized properly," or because I am not a fan of the specific President waging it. I hate this war because it is a war.
thewhitepages.net/p/you-will-n...
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Sup chat this is Slouching Towards Bethlehem with your boy The Rough Beast, and it looks like todayβs stream could be a big one, as some of you mightβve already seen there are rumors going around social media that the hour has come round at last, so weβre gonna get right into it
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Hop in, gatherers. We're doing a relay across the entire country!
And it would be really cool if you and your neighbors could be a part of it
Whose big dumb heart decided it would be a good idea to host (at least) 50 gatherings in 50 different states over the course of the next year? Mine. But maybe your big dumb heart wants to be a part of it
thewhitepages.net/p/hop-in-gat...
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I identify wholeheartedly with this!
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Whoa. Really touched by Alysa Liuβs reaction to my Olympics essay thewhitepages.net/p/you-too-de...
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