Because............................
21.02.2026 03:31 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0@jaisonatalives.bsky.social
She/her. 35+. Anime. Games (Switch/PS). Janelle Monáe. Food. Memes. ADHD and ✨beyond✨. Very Black. Somewhat crafty (I make stuff). Two degrees, very unserious. A bunch of SpongeBob references in a trench coat. "Every rule you know is made up." -Me
Because............................
21.02.2026 03:31 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0I still haven't got over getting slapped with a label when I posted my *checks notes* animal crossing villager standing by the ocean laughing 😐
21.02.2026 03:31 — 👍 7 🔁 2 💬 1 📌 0These are very real
20.02.2026 20:16 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Yellow/brown snack product box with gingham style pattern. Packaging reads: "Memaw's Country Kitchen Cheese Tiddies (crispy, cheesy treats you'll crave!)" Underneath a picture of round cracker like snacks more text reads "where treats and memories are made"
Maybe they could've called it something different
20.02.2026 20:16 — 👍 15 🔁 5 💬 2 📌 0hell my only apple product was an ipod and they got me too 😭
20.02.2026 14:31 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Text: nathanistic. one piece fans are actively campaigning for adam sandler to play kizaru in the live-action would you actually want to see sandler pull up as kizaru, or do you have someone else in mind? Image: adam sandler edited to be dressed like the anime character admiral kizaru/borsalino in a yellow and orange pinstripe suit with a purplish tie and gold-rimmed sunglasses
no the fuck we not
20.02.2026 14:15 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0😶🌫️
20.02.2026 04:30 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0🌬️💨🌫️🌫️🌫️🌫️🌫️
20.02.2026 04:20 — 👍 4 🔁 0 💬 2 📌 0another stupid ass term made up to keep women insecure about 1000% normal things happening to our bodies 🙄
19.02.2026 20:22 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0All these restaurants toss the word "spicy" around when they don't know what it means... I need a KICK! 🌶️🤌🏿
19.02.2026 20:21 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0This buffalo sauce is saucin 🥵 ain't had a good ACTUALLY spicy sauce make me sweat in a long time 😂 I love it
19.02.2026 20:21 — 👍 3 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0This is not an AI friendly space. I do not care about how you are using AI tools.
19.02.2026 13:31 — 👍 93 🔁 58 💬 0 📌 4When people think of ADHD they usually focus on the hyper part but there's so much more to it like:
🧠 chronic procrastination
🧠 time blindness
🧠 impulsive spending
🧠 difficulty starting tasks
🧠 emotional reactivity
🧠 unfinished projects everywhere
🧠 object impermanence
🧠 constant aggression and
😭 👓 ❓
Like did I get blocked for wearing glasses?!¿? What is going awn???
Anyways… EYE love sweet potato fries. Y’all crazy 🙂↔️
19.02.2026 01:00 — 👍 87 🔁 23 💬 26 📌 26Like I'm still 100% lost 😂 no clue of the subject, who yall talking about, ANYTHING
19.02.2026 14:31 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 1I wasn't even on here and randomly got a block notification last night 💀 I haven't the slightest clue what was even happening
19.02.2026 14:28 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0I just be in my own world for real 😭
19.02.2026 14:09 — 👍 6 🔁 5 💬 0 📌 0I need a vacation
18.02.2026 13:51 — 👍 11 🔁 1 💬 2 📌 0Please! Some of my coworkers just made a video taking immunity shots like they were at a bar because they've been feeling scratchy and snotty... 🥴
18.02.2026 14:22 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0because it did *not* have to sound like that at AWL 😭
18.02.2026 14:07 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0A little over two months' worth actually 🙃
18.02.2026 13:22 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0damn dog woke me up over two hours ago about to shit in my room because he must've got into something he wasn't supposed to have 😭 I'm SO glad he wandered onto the chair mat under my desk because them claws clacking is what alerted me... had to snatch his lil ass up and run outside
18.02.2026 13:22 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Took a 60% cut last year, AMA
18.02.2026 13:11 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0Happy Wednesday
18.02.2026 12:18 — 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0Post reads: People with ADHD have what’s called Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). It’s an extreme emotional response to perceived criticism or rejection. Your brain can’t regulate the emotional pain, so a small comment feels like a devastating attack. A minor correction feels like total failure. Someone’s tone feels like hatred. It’s not oversensitivity. It’s not being dramatic. Your brain literally can’t modulate the intensity of that emotional response. It’s neurological, not a character flaw.
Post reads: If you love someone with ADHD, understand that tone is a weapon you didn't know you were carrying. A short text or a sigh of frustration isn't just a moment of stress to them, it's a signal of impending exile. Your consistency and reassurance aren't coddling; they are the bridge that helps them cross the gap of their own neurological insecurity.
These were really good posts explaining Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria I had to pull over
On a personal level, this is one of my hardest things to deal with. Thankfully its not constant, and I've learned outward reactive regulation, but inside its still this, and sometimes the sad slips out >> 1/2
So ready for winter to be over man.
18.02.2026 12:28 — 👍 1 🔁 1 💬 0 📌 0And when an HBCU band performs this right?? 🫦 tubas thumping, dancers' sequins bouncing and sparkling in the stadium lights??? This is truly cemented as one for the culture
18.02.2026 12:52 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0hee hee sky?! 😭
(iconic treasure of a song that will ALWAYS be a jam but that is sending me)