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Hillary Monahan

@hillarymonahan.bsky.social

Spiky author person with a rad jewelry shop. They/She. Queer, AuDHD, and probably watching a horror movie. Black Trans Lives Matter. I swear too much. Official cat herder of the @peculiarityshop.bsky.social.

35,738 Followers  |  1,906 Following  |  30,951 Posts  |  Joined: 09.05.2023
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And the mythos of what is beautiful was developed via 80s pageant culture… that was developed by known pedophiles.

09.03.2026 02:08 β€” πŸ‘ 17    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

And some yahoo would say this is my 40-something self jealous of my 20-something self.

You couldn't pay me enough to go back.

Young women are treated like PokΓ©mon cards.

09.03.2026 02:08 β€” πŸ‘ 22    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Youth obsession = normalization of youth as an owned commodity.

Now add in boners.

This isn't difficult concept.

09.03.2026 02:06 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Like, you don't get to epidemic Epstein levels like this without systematic ageism and misogyny.

09.03.2026 02:05 β€” πŸ‘ 47    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I dont know that people realize that most beauty standards pushing women to look as young as possible for as long as possible is part of the systematic sexualization of younger and younger women.

09.03.2026 02:04 β€” πŸ‘ 140    πŸ” 28    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0

You can get them pretty affordably with a coupon at michaels

09.03.2026 00:07 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

All lit up in the bookshelf!

08.03.2026 23:18 β€” πŸ‘ 122    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 11    πŸ“Œ 0
A bookstore book nook

A bookstore book nook

Side view of the books

Side view of the books

The chair in the den

The chair in the den

I refused to work all day.

So I built a 3D booknook at my mom's house.

08.03.2026 22:21 β€” πŸ‘ 141    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 13    πŸ“Œ 2

He took "don't be a menace to South Central while drinking your juice in the hood" as a personal challenge instead of a movie title.

08.03.2026 14:55 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Relatable content.

08.03.2026 15:21 β€” πŸ‘ 35    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

He wears onesies when he overgrooms, but he's pretty used to them. Walks into the bathroom for spa days. πŸ˜†

08.03.2026 14:17 β€” πŸ‘ 31    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Also, this cat is a menace.

08.03.2026 14:11 β€” πŸ‘ 58    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

Many rings, handle it.

Some of you were honoring Shabbos or busy, so a reskeet. Lots of stuff unclaimed still, and I'll be making buy links later today. Thanks for peeking!

08.03.2026 14:07 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Art makes me weird.

08.03.2026 06:44 β€” πŸ‘ 26    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 0

I had a small crisis about a ring of all things.

😬

08.03.2026 06:43 β€” πŸ‘ 42    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm too old for this shit.

Just block or mute me and move on with your life. I'm cool with that. Plenty of others have for better and worse reasons.

In short, I am not your huckleberry.

08.03.2026 06:36 β€” πŸ‘ 25    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh!

Thank you!

08.03.2026 06:34 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm always open to discussion BECAUSE I have blind spots thanks to neurodivergence.

But if you come barging in here like Rambo without a jockstrap demanding a fight, you'll likely get blocked. Because I don't owe anyone performative rage.

08.03.2026 06:34 β€” πŸ‘ 28    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I do not express most of my thoughts here with any false notion that it will matter to anyone else. I'm mostly offering perspectives that I myself am working through.

You don't have to agree.
Shit, sometimes you shouldn't. I notoriously take a bit longer to process nuance.

08.03.2026 06:31 β€” πŸ‘ 16    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I am?

I thought I was a jerk everywhere.

08.03.2026 06:29 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

08.03.2026 06:29 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

How cool!!!

08.03.2026 06:28 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Scary sun lap

Scary sun lap

Okay so hear me out....

08.03.2026 02:41 β€” πŸ‘ 101    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 10    πŸ“Œ 2

I will never barge into your ats to tell you what I think of your life. I'll block, mute, report when appropriate, but I won't tread shit through your digital house, particularly on personal matters of opinion.

If you choose to do that with mine, I see that as discourteous.

That makes me cranky.

08.03.2026 06:27 β€” πŸ‘ 73    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0

There are a zillion rings in this thread and all you have to do is reply to the post if you want one and I will make you a listing and you are supporting a bunch of queer nerds.

Thanks!

08.03.2026 01:09 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

Bruce Lee. I've seen training video of them grappling.

I was a student of a student of a student of Master Lee for 3 years. Chuck getting to learn directly from him, then making TV with literally the worst fight choreography I've ever seen in W:TR deeply offends me.

07.03.2026 21:17 β€” πŸ‘ 23    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1

I do not unfortunately

08.03.2026 01:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

$200 needed now! πŸ‘‡πŸ½πŸ‘‡πŸ½

07.03.2026 19:56 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 18    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Come watch Queer V C!

07.03.2026 22:29 β€” πŸ‘ 20    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Shortly, I will be listing sterling/copper over on @peculiarityshop.bsky.social. We're selling stuff to send Becky back to class.

Hang out with me maybe.

And if not, enjoy the shit out of your weekends!!! Love!

07.03.2026 15:56 β€” πŸ‘ 37    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0