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Sleepy Shilo

@cactusdancer.bsky.social

I play some instruments and some video games. I crocheted an octopus hat

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My wife made delicious chocolate chip cookies. I ate two.

My brain said another! And my body said nah. I've been here before

I ate that third one. So good. But probably ultimately not worth it. I will learn one day

01.12.2025 00:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Hey, what are you gonna get for the office secret Santa?
For your mother in law who loves her bird feeder?
For your niece who loves whales?
For your dad who literally has no hobbies and you’re like β€œshit wtf do I get this guy”?

Get a love notes from nature calendar!
squidfacts.net

29.11.2025 14:23 β€” πŸ‘ 101    πŸ” 36    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 3

My wife used a slicer this year and was fine ...but I was nervous.

We are a clutzy family

We are getting a glove!

28.11.2025 12:38 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Sewing is the bane!

I had pieces of agimuri lying around for weeks before I sewed them together.

Cute soda cup!

27.11.2025 23:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Great time off!

Watching One Piece Anime (dislike the representation of women)

Played board games - Fairy Tale Fluxx, Forbidden Island, and Anatomy Fluxx (which is great for kiddo since they are learning about the body in school)

27.11.2025 23:21 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I've seen people say that getting attached to ChatGPT is like "believing the stripper really loves you", but that's not true. It's more like believing that the dryer personally composed that little jingle on a lonely sockless night just to win your affections.

26.11.2025 01:55 β€” πŸ‘ 1752    πŸ” 372    πŸ’¬ 27    πŸ“Œ 11

I'm excited to order a calendar and an advent calendar!

25.11.2025 23:56 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Hey y’all Sydette really needs a boost. Can you help her out right now?

She is one of the smartest, kindest people I know and she has put a lot in with very little reward.

25.11.2025 15:35 β€” πŸ‘ 68    πŸ” 85    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Actually in the spirit of this conversation, what’s a decision you made about a past Thanksgiving holiday that really paid off? I think people often feel trapped by their lives. Sharing our experiences can liberate us from that sense of claustrophobia.

23.11.2025 18:02 β€” πŸ‘ 336    πŸ” 32    πŸ’¬ 148    πŸ“Œ 161

I was not worried about harassment in a text based game.

But they wrote shower together and the game said we did. And I left the room and they followed.

I wish I was less sensitive and tried another, but I was nervous about online social interaction so instead never tried another

24.11.2025 11:41 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I tried a MUD in 2001 at a recommendation to try some MUDs.

The first one was fine but not many people or I wanted to see more options. I truly wish my friend recommended a specific one

The last one I tried someone harassed me the moment I got in and did not stop until I left

24.11.2025 11:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

What a rave.

Read the post for safety

23.11.2025 13:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Picking up my sibling from the airport. They have flown before.

Me - You ready?
Them - I don't know where to go
Me - Outside near a curb
Them - I'll walk to to you
Me - I'm in the cell phone waiting lot so that is no

22.11.2025 21:15 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I read a bit of part 2

Good call not to read it

22.11.2025 11:10 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That robe is fantastic! And goals

21.11.2025 14:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yes. I don't believe in ghosts but I've been in a room where bad shit has happened. I did not have facts but most of us felt it.

I had one roommate I never trusted because she wanted that room.

I chose the room farthest from it. (Rent was cheap)

21.11.2025 03:05 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm going to make this for my kid!
So many wonderful steps with pictures!!

21.11.2025 02:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Text art saying "shine so bright that it burns their fucking eyes" in the trans flag colors.

Text art saying "shine so bright that it burns their fucking eyes" in the trans flag colors.

Trans Day of Remembrance. Pour one out for our trans siblings lost and keep *living* in their honor.

20.11.2025 11:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1251    πŸ” 403    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 9

Hand editing your Windows Registry is not something I would normally recommend, but these instructions are simple and direct. Do exactly as directed and you'll be fine. If you get lost/stuck for some reason, tag me.

19.11.2025 18:48 β€” πŸ‘ 502    πŸ” 234    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 4

Thank you so much to everyone who's shared & donated for your generosity. The fundraiser's at 82% to Archita's goal and support has slowed a lot. She'd be most grateful if people keep sharing & giving so she can reach her goal & get some security in this terrible time.

18.11.2025 14:13 β€” πŸ‘ 32    πŸ” 46    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1
Graphic from nyc public health that says β€œwear a mask this fall” 

It shows two yellow emoji people. One on the left is wearing a white mask and making a peace sign.  The one on the right is wearing a scarf and blowing its nose.

Graphic from nyc public health that says β€œwear a mask this fall” It shows two yellow emoji people. One on the left is wearing a white mask and making a peace sign. The one on the right is wearing a scarf and blowing its nose.

Excellent public health messaging from New York City!!

Be the happy peace sign waving emoji instead of the sick and sniffling emoji.

How can you do that?

Wear a mask! Ideally a respirator like an N95.

It’ll help keep you and your community safe.

19.11.2025 09:14 β€” πŸ‘ 704    πŸ” 240    πŸ’¬ 11    πŸ“Œ 6
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I use it in talks because it's pretty and also because, as an audience member, I am perpetually squinting at people's slides

17.11.2025 04:19 β€” πŸ‘ 652    πŸ” 324    πŸ’¬ 20    πŸ“Œ 20

Luckily you can figure it out after 20.

I chose to be like other people (or I thought I did). My peculiarities were still there.

At 40, I am choosing to make a virtue of them

16.11.2025 00:52 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
solaris' still spooky 0.99 ebook sale, showing covers of BENEATH THE RISING, A BROKEN DARKNESS, THE VOID ASCENDANT, and THESE LIFELESS THINGS by premee mohamed. below, text reads 'titles available vary by country of origin. website exclusive. ends 24/11 23:59 GMT'

solaris' still spooky 0.99 ebook sale, showing covers of BENEATH THE RISING, A BROKEN DARKNESS, THE VOID ASCENDANT, and THESE LIFELESS THINGS by premee mohamed. below, text reads 'titles available vary by country of origin. website exclusive. ends 24/11 23:59 GMT'

Reminder! @solarisbooks.bsky.social has a bunch of horror and horror-adjacent ebooks for sale, including four of mine, for several more days! :D

Remember, horror is in your HEART, not a CALENDAR πŸ’€

geni.us/Solarissale

15.11.2025 22:47 β€” πŸ‘ 63    πŸ” 33    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1

Get yourself a really cool and different advent calendar! Kids love learning about weird critters (eels are very weird, complimentary). Adults concerned about nature or just looking for a break from all the STUFF will appreciate the knowledge & art in this. C'mon. Do it for the eels.

15.11.2025 21:42 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 13    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Now I want to play stray children

15.11.2025 14:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

RIP Alice Wong πŸ–€

15.11.2025 13:54 β€” πŸ‘ 148    πŸ” 34    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Powerful framing - she is only a few younger than my mother

14.11.2025 22:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Baraa has lost two daughters to Israel's ongoing genocide, please help her keep her remaining child Ibrahim alive as the starvation & bombing continues, she also desperately needs healthcare:

11.11.2025 17:20 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1

Amazing! Humpack whales rock.

They protect other species and fight squids

09.11.2025 21:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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