“Eve”/Promise

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That means so much to hear 🥰 wishing you both the best!

And it is absolutely minimal compared to everything else he does for me. All this to say, please don’t let someone gaslight you into thinking that you deserve poor treatment because they found a singular, minimal act to hold over your head. It is better to be alone in peace than together in turmoil.

…relationship, making myself coffee in the mornings became the most peaceful practice in my life. I raised the standard for how I should be treated, by treating myself that way. Now I’m married to someone who makes me the BEST coffee, everyday, and sits with me and has a peaceful moment with me.

…that was the bare minimum a good partner does for someone they love. I didn’t even tell her I had asked him to please stop making my coffee (he would wake me up, and then yell at me for not being grateful for the coffee I didn’t ask for). It was “kindness” weaponized. When I finally ended that…

A few years ago my therapist (who was trying to help me realize I was in an abusive relationship) asked what my partner did for me that made me feel I “owed” him. I told her that he made me coffee every morning (he pushed the button on the keurig machine). She very kindly said…

Drama, from the Trump admin? Already? Shocking.

I wonder how often men have the thought “does this person actually think I’m competent/cool/kind/clever/talented, etc or do they just want to fuck me?” 🤷🏻‍♀️

I appreciate you looking out for me! Unfortunately it’s all easy to find even with me being careful (unless I were to just not have an online presence) so I’ve accepted it. :)

My husband is from Finland and sometimes we have language barriers - most recently I said something about a “booger” being wiped on me (retelling a story from childhood). He said, “remind me what that is…?”. I tried to explain and he goes “oh yes, a nose slime” 🤣

Imagine being an all-powerful, all-knowing god of the universe and your plans get completely overturned because a girl ate some fruit that you put in a garden you made for her and had the audacity to gain knowledge.

…were worshipping a reality tv star known for his crass remarks about women. I wanted to figure out why and get to know the “real” god/bible. It all fell apart. I’m now an anti-Christian nationalist, atheist, and activist. I love encouraging people towards truth and freedom and away from dogma💖

Hi 👋 My name is Promise. I was an evangelical Christian for 20+ years. My parents were pastors/missionaries most of my life. My dad wrote the book on 7 mountain theology. When I was in my mid 20s, in ministry school, I started questioning everything I thought was true. Pastors I had looked up to…

So do we just treat this thing like Twitter (rip)??