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neuroqueer disabled af rabbi in training πŸ• disability & neurodiversity educator + consultant πŸ‘¨β€πŸ¦― mystic of the normal ♾️ davening for more ❀️ to be revealed #AuDHD #POTS #Dyspraxia ♿️ theautisticrabbi.com also @theautisticcoach.bsky.social

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Internalised ableism doesn’t stay internal.

If we don’t examine it, it turns outward.

And very often, it turns outward toward autistic people with greater support needs.

That’s where lateral ableism begins.

Most of us grew up in environments that taught us one thing very clearly:

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07.03.2026 17:19 β€” πŸ‘ 26    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 2

Shabbat shalom holy siblings

06.03.2026 19:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Come learn with me this April!

05.03.2026 19:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

How many members of your community were missing from Purim this year?

Let's make it less year by making your community more inclusive.

04.03.2026 13:50 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The joys of riding the Paris MΓ©tro while looking Jewish.

A man approached me, claiming that Jews have and are continuing to destroy Europe and the Middle East.

He said that Hitler was a great man, a proud European, and a friend of the Middle East.

05.03.2026 11:53 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Unironically told that inclusion means letting autistic kids hand out Siddurs once a month.

04.03.2026 20:30 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Jewish Disability Inclusion Seminars & Trainings β€” The Autistic Rabbi(nical Student) This two-part disability and neurodiversity training for rabbis, cantors, rabbinical students, Jewish professionals, and synagogue board members examines how disability, neurodivergence, and ableism shape synagogue culture. In Session 1, participants receive practical education on disability and neu

Are you a rabbi, cantor, or other Jewish community leader?

Do you want to learn about what inclusion looks like from an actual autistic person in the community?

I'm an autistic rabbinical student and educator and my new seminar is just for you.

Please share.

www.theautisticrabbi.com/seminars

04.03.2026 15:15 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

I’m hosting a free online space for autistic Jews to get together and shmooze about self advocacy

Please share!

www.theautisticcoach.com/autism-discu...

04.03.2026 14:47 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

How many members of your community were missing from Purim this year?

Let's make it less year by making your community more inclusive.

04.03.2026 13:50 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

do you want to support your fellow autistic comrades in a professional capacity?

our next intake begins in May

www.theautisticcoach.com/the-autistic...

03.03.2026 20:22 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’ve lived under fire, nonstop gunfire, bombs, and air raids.

Constant fear.

It left me with my PTSD.

Something impotent needs to be said…

03.03.2026 16:18 β€” πŸ‘ 16    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Independence is treated as the gold standard of autistic adulthood.

But independence is mostly a myth.

Everyone who is β€œindependent” is supported by someone, something, or a structure that makes it possible.

Money.

Health.

Family.

Technology.

Invisible labour.

01.03.2026 15:18 β€” πŸ‘ 57    πŸ” 18    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1

In the Purim story, Esther hides her identity.

Not because she’s ashamed of being who she is - but because being herself isn’t safe yet.

It reminds me a lot of autistic masking.

And it’s exhausting.

27.02.2026 07:51 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Indeed, I couldn’t care less about the wall as a thing - I don’t connect to it. But it’s the point of it within the context of Israel and criminalising liberal Jewish practice

27.02.2026 23:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

JLM a toujours Γ©tΓ© antisΓ©mite ? Je ne m'y attendais pas.

27.02.2026 12:34 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A dream, I suppose.

Meanwhile, me and others, will continue to build our vibrant and loving communities based on TORAH.

Communities where we are, wherever that may be.

27.02.2026 09:44 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

They played the game thinking that somehow we could convince the Israeli Government and the Ultra Orthodox that we are real and valuable.

I have never played that game - it’s always been a farce.

Why did they do this?

27.02.2026 09:44 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This new law isn’t anything new.

It’s just the end of the bs game we’ve been playing.

Progressive leaders are suddenly offended and upset.

But they’ve known this was the case since the beginning.

27.02.2026 09:44 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My home community in Tel Aviv isn’t allowed to observe Kabbalat Shabbat, unless its before Shabbat.

Reform rabbis are never referred to with their titles.

Our synagogues violently attacked and never protected.

27.02.2026 09:44 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Diaspora Jews and Progressive Jews are seen as nothing more than an ATM for the State.

Our money is needed - but o our humanity is never acknowledged, our Torah rejected and despised.

NONE OF THIS IS NEW.

27.02.2026 09:44 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This, however, is nothing new.

The State of Israel has always been hostile towards Progressive Jews.

It’s never been a place where Progressive Jews could practice our religion on equal terms, with full civil rights as Progressve Jews.

27.02.2026 09:44 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The Israeli Government and the majority of its elected officials want to ban Progressive Jews from Judaism’s holiest site.

They seek to imprison Reform, Liberal, Renewal, Masorti, and Reconstructionist Jews for praying at the Western Wall.

27.02.2026 09:44 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

totally

27.02.2026 09:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

In the Purim story, Esther hides her identity.

Not because she’s ashamed of being who she is - but because being herself isn’t safe yet.

It reminds me a lot of autistic masking.

And it’s exhausting.

27.02.2026 07:51 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ’―

25.02.2026 17:32 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks for sharing!

25.02.2026 16:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I know plenty of rabbis who want to help and who theoretically want to build better and more inclusive Jewish spaces.
Here's your chance to practically learn how to make that happen.

25.02.2026 14:41 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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MKs approve preliminary bill cementing Orthodox control over entire Western Wall Haredim praise bill giving Chief Rabbinate authority over prayer at Old City site, calling it victory over Reform Movement; progressives say Israel turning back on non-Orthodox, Diaspora

Israel’s government and most of its elected officials (and much of the population) see all progressive Jews and all diaspora Jews as an ATM - nothing more.

How much longer do we allow this farce?

www.timesofisrael.com/mks-approve-...

25.02.2026 16:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Jewish Disability Inclusion Seminars & Trainings β€” The Autistic Rabbi(nical Student) This two-part disability and neurodiversity training for rabbis, cantors, rabbinical students, Jewish professionals, and synagogue board members examines how disability, neurodivergence, and ableism s...

I'm giving a 2-part seminar on disability inclusion in jewish spaces for rabbis, cantors, students, and lay-leaders.

will you join me?

www.theautisticrabbi.com/seminars

17.02.2026 18:20 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 3

Starting in 2 weeks

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