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P. J. Gudka

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She/they #writer #writingcommunity #blogger #freelancer Check out my book: https://www.amazon.com/All-Words-I-Kept-Inside-ebook/dp/B0D42BHQQ8/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2BRVFXDG7G7Z2&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.1vF6JkP_AOzVSzThW1LUqC

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How Do You Feel About WordPress? Today, I want to ask you guys to share your thoughts about WordPress. How do you feel about WordPress as a blogging platform? Be as specific as you like and share as much as you like in the comments below. What do you love about WordPress that keeps you here? What are things you wish they would change on this platform?

How Do You Feel About WordPress?

Today, I want to ask you guys to share your thoughts about WordPress. How do you feel about WordPress as a blogging platform? Be as specific as you like and share as much as you like in the comments below. What do you love about WordPress that keeps you here? What…

25.02.2026 01:01 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Dessert At Hero Restaurant Nairobi I shared my review and experience of having dinner at Slate in this post. Once we were done with dinner, we thought we would head to another restaurant for dessert since my cousins have already been there and loved it. The restaurant is called Hero Restaurant and is superhero themed which is so cool. They also have a very unique sweet, sour and spicy mango sorbet dessert.

Dessert At Hero Restaurant Nairobi

I shared my review and experience of having dinner at Slate in this post. Once we were done with dinner, we thought we would head to another restaurant for dessert since my cousins have already been there and loved it. The restaurant is called Hero Restaurant and…

22.02.2026 01:01 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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What A Wonderful Gift To Receive!

Yesterday, I received something in the mail that I was really excited to share with you guys. What a wonderful gift to receive!

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21.02.2026 01:00 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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An Invitation To Pause And Listen Within Today’s modern world asks us to move faster, decide quicker, and carry more than we realise, there are few spaces that invite us simply to pause. Not to perform. Not to achieve. Just to listen.

An Invitation To Pause And Listen Within

Today’s modern world asks us to move faster, decide quicker, and carry more than we realise, there are few spaces that invite us simply to pause. Not to perform. Not to achieve. Just to listen.

18.02.2026 01:01 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
Art Therapy- The Best Kind Of Therapy? You may have noticed my absence. If you've read a few of my last posts, you know I'm particularly busy at the moment. Although I have been busy, don't worry it's not been all work. I've been having fun indulging in my hobbies too. Recently, I've been doing some art therapy- aka creating some art lol. On Sunday, I got some oil pastels on sale and decided to put them to use.

Art Therapy- The Best Kind Of Therapy?

You may have noticed my absence. If you've read a few of my last posts, you know I'm particularly busy at the moment. Although I have been busy, don't worry it's not been all work. I've been having fun indulging in my hobbies too. Recently, I've been doing…

13.02.2026 01:00 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Brooke Davis Quote Brooke Davis Quote: What's Up With Pooj? Just a heads up, some of the services I offer are not currently available right now. As I mentioned, I'm getting quite busy these days with everything to do with my book. I have a lot less time and I've decided that for the next three months I want to prioritise my book. It's been a dream of mine since I was a teenager and I owe it to myself to give it my all.

Brooke Davis Quote

Brooke Davis Quote: What's Up With Pooj? Just a heads up, some of the services I offer are not currently available right now. As I mentioned, I'm getting quite busy these days with everything to do with my book. I have a lot less time and I've decided that for the next three…

10.02.2026 01:01 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Nothing To Write Nothing to write But still filled with delight A secret to share If any of you care Something special is coming soon It's sending me over the moon! About "Nothing To Write": I have been incredibly busy today but in a good way. And I was wondering what I would share on the blog since I hadn't prepared anything in advance and didn't have any ideas.

Nothing To Write

Nothing to write But still filled with delight A secret to share If any of you care Something special is coming soon It's sending me over the moon! About "Nothing To Write": I have been incredibly busy today but in a good way. And I was wondering what I would share on the blog…

07.02.2026 01:01 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
The One Where I Almost Turned Into Spiderman… That's right y'all. Your girl almost turned into Spiderman (Spiderwoman?) the other day. But let me back up and tell you the story from the start. In December, my cousins and I did some exploring in Nairobi and we had some time before going for lunch. So we stopped by a resort/spa just to check it out. It's a lovely place but what stood out was this random little spider we spotted.

The One Where I Almost Turned Into Spiderman…

That's right y'all. Your girl almost turned into Spiderman (Spiderwoman?) the other day. But let me back up and tell you the story from the start. In December, my cousins and I did some exploring in Nairobi and we had some time before going for lunch.…

06.02.2026 01:01 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
Here’s Why Anxiety Always Finds You At Night Here's Why Anxiety Always Finds You At Night Pexels Image: CC0 License If you’re like the majority of us, then you probably dream about getting back into bed from the moment you wake up. But when the time finally comes, do you tend to toss, turn? And then feel the inevitable dread of nighttime anxiety creeping upon you? If so, then this article is for you.

Here’s Why Anxiety Always Finds You At Night

Here's Why Anxiety Always Finds You At Night Pexels Image: CC0 License If you’re like the majority of us, then you probably dream about getting back into bed from the moment you wake up. But when the time finally comes, do you tend to toss, turn? And…

04.02.2026 16:07 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Slate Review And Experience Slate was one of the most impressive restaurants we went to in December. The food was incredible, the decoration and vibe was on point and the service was really good too. That's why I wanted to share my Slate review and experience with all of you today. If you would like to see a video version of my Slate review and experience, please check out my YouTube video below:

Slate Review And Experience

Slate was one of the most impressive restaurants we went to in December. The food was incredible, the decoration and vibe was on point and the service was really good too. That's why I wanted to share my Slate review and experience with all of you today. If you would…

04.02.2026 01:00 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Norman Cousins Quote Norman Cousins Quote: What's Up With Pooj? This isn't a particularly uplifting quote and maybe that's why it resonated with me so strongly. I love the person I'm becoming, I'm more aware, have proper boundaries and am much more confident. However, I had to go through some of the worst pain and experiences to get here. And those experiences have killed parts of me that I will never get back.

Norman Cousins Quote

Norman Cousins Quote: What's Up With Pooj? This isn't a particularly uplifting quote and maybe that's why it resonated with me so strongly. I love the person I'm becoming, I'm more aware, have proper boundaries and am much more confident. However, I had to go through some of…

03.02.2026 01:00 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 1
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New Month, Same Old Crap It's February already, even though it feels like we ushered in January. Weird how fast the time flies by when we get older. When we're young we can't wait for the month to end. I'm trying to remain optimistic but the last few days of this month haven't been the best. It just makes me feel like new month, same old crap.

New Month, Same Old Crap

It's February already, even though it feels like we ushered in January. Weird how fast the time flies by when we get older. When we're young we can't wait for the month to end. I'm trying to remain optimistic but the last few days of this month haven't been the best. It…

01.02.2026 01:01 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
What I Eat In A Day On A Regular Day I'm back with another "What I Eat In A Day" post because some of you enjoyed my last one and honestly I just love making them. I hope you enjoy it. I've also shared a video version of this post on my YouTube. I would love it if you took a minute to check it out there and interact with the video.

What I Eat In A Day On A Regular Day

I'm back with another "What I Eat In A Day" post because some of you enjoyed my last one and honestly I just love making them. I hope you enjoy it. I've also shared a video version of this post on my YouTube. I would love it if you took a minute to check it out…

31.01.2026 01:00 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
The Silent Patient By Alex Michaelides Review About The Author Alex Michaelides was born and raised in Cyprus. He has an M.A. in English Literature from Trinity College, Cambridge University, and an M.A. in Screenwriting from the American Film Institute in Los Angeles. The Silent Patient was his first novel, debuting at #1 on the New York Times bestseller list, and has sold more than 6.5 million copies worldwide.

The Silent Patient By Alex Michaelides Review

About The Author Alex Michaelides was born and raised in Cyprus. He has an M.A. in English Literature from Trinity College, Cambridge University, and an M.A. in Screenwriting from the American Film Institute in Los Angeles. The Silent Patient was his…

30.01.2026 01:01 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Taking Out The Trash Today I wanted to talk about something that used to cause a lot of anxiety for me but now I think of it as taking out the trash.

Taking Out The Trash

Today I wanted to talk about something that used to cause a lot of anxiety for me but now I think of it as taking out the trash.

29.01.2026 01:01 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
Living With Bipolar Disorder: Social Interactions & The Fear Note: Living With Bipolar Disorder: Social Interactions & The Fear is a guest post written by Stuart Sanderson and first appeared on his site. This is an account of what I have experienced in my social situations. I find interacting with others extremely, extremely difficult if I’m not familiar with the person or people who are there. It is a debilitating situation that is an uttermost infuriating predicament.

Living With Bipolar Disorder: Social Interactions & The Fear

Note: Living With Bipolar Disorder: Social Interactions & The Fear is a guest post written by Stuart Sanderson and first appeared on his site. This is an account of what I have experienced in my social situations. I find interacting with…

28.01.2026 01:01 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Fyodor Dostoevsky Quote Fyodor Dostoevsky Quote: What's Up With Pooj? It's been a particularly stressful time this week but I've realised that I sort of like stress? Like not actual stress but I'm just the kind of person that works well when things are crazy. I know, not the most healthiest way to live life. And something I'm probably going to have to work on in therapy.

Fyodor Dostoevsky Quote

Fyodor Dostoevsky Quote: What's Up With Pooj? It's been a particularly stressful time this week but I've realised that I sort of like stress? Like not actual stress but I'm just the kind of person that works well when things are crazy. I know, not the most healthiest way to…

27.01.2026 01:00 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Coffee & Plant Review And Experience I know some of you really enjoy my review and experience posts and I LOVE making them mostly because I get to go out more lol. So, I thought I would share this one today. It's funny that I'm finally sharing my Coffee & Plant review because I've gone there before AND they had a huge ad outside my bedroom window at the time which I guess worked lol.

Coffee & Plant Review And Experience

I know some of you really enjoy my review and experience posts and I LOVE making them mostly because I get to go out more lol. So, I thought I would share this one today. It's funny that I'm finally sharing my Coffee & Plant review because I've gone there…

25.01.2026 01:00 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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What Would You Do For A Hundred Million? What Would You Do For A Hundred Million?

What Would You Do For A Hundred Million?

What Would You Do For A Hundred Million?

24.01.2026 01:01 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Langtang Valley Trek in Nepal: Where Nature and Tamang Culture Intersect Please Note: Langtang Valley Trek in Nepal: Where Nature and Tamang Culture Intersect is a guest post. When you walk the Langtang valley trek, you are not just hiking. You are stepping into a place where the land and the people have been in conversation for centuries. The mountains here are not silent giants. They are part of a daily story, woven into the lives of the Tamang communities you pass through.

Langtang Valley Trek in Nepal: Where Nature and Tamang Culture Intersect

Please Note: Langtang Valley Trek in Nepal: Where Nature and Tamang Culture Intersect is a guest post. When you walk the Langtang valley trek, you are not just hiking. You are stepping into a place where the land and the…

21.01.2026 01:00 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Martin Luther King Jr Quote Martin Luther King Jr Quote: What's Up With Pooj? It's not been a particularly exciting week and I'm honestly thankful for that. I've noticed that since the last time I got Covid, I get tired faster and feel exhausted when I overexert myself. So, I've been trying to take it easy when I can and get more rest.

Martin Luther King Jr Quote

Martin Luther King Jr Quote: What's Up With Pooj? It's not been a particularly exciting week and I'm honestly thankful for that. I've noticed that since the last time I got Covid, I get tired faster and feel exhausted when I overexert myself. So, I've been trying to…

20.01.2026 01:01 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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My Muse My muse She speaks to me Flirting Her hand on my shoulder Disappearing just as I turn Into the crowd of thoughts That never end But in the final Quietest hours of the night She finds me The games end Hand in hand We become one She is me And I am her. About My Muse: If you're a writer, you may have read this poem and immediately clocked what it's about.

My Muse

My muse She speaks to me Flirting Her hand on my shoulder Disappearing just as I turn Into the crowd of thoughts That never end But in the final Quietest hours of the night She finds me The games end Hand in hand We become one She is me And I am her. About My Muse: If you're a writer, you…

18.01.2026 01:00 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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What I Ate On The Last Day Of 2025 I feel like I haven't done a What I Eat In A Day post in ages. I wanted to start sharing more food related content this year and did some filming for it last year. Today, I wanted to share what I ate on the last day of 2025. I hope you enjoy it! If you would like to see the video version of this post, you can check it out on my YouTube:

What I Ate On The Last Day Of 2025

I feel like I haven't done a What I Eat In A Day post in ages. I wanted to start sharing more food related content this year and did some filming for it last year. Today, I wanted to share what I ate on the last day of 2025. I hope you enjoy it! If you would like…

17.01.2026 01:01 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Six Word Story #226 Six Word Story: Deep breath in, deep breath out. About This Six Word Story: As most of you know by now, I've been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder since I was a teenager. And as most people that have mental health disorders will tell you, it never fully goes away. Of course, there are ways to reduce the symptoms and live your best life despite them but they do sometimes come back.

Six Word Story #226

Six Word Story: Deep breath in, deep breath out. About This Six Word Story: As most of you know by now, I've been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder since I was a teenager. And as most people that have mental health disorders will tell you, it never fully goes away. Of course,…

16.01.2026 01:01 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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What No One Tells You About Blogging I've been reediting older posts and it inspired me to write this one about what no one tells you about blogging.

What No One Tells You About Blogging

I've been reediting older posts and it inspired me to write this one about what no one tells you about blogging.

15.01.2026 01:01 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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INTI New Years Eve 2025/2026 Experience INTI New Years Eve 2025/2026 Experience My cousin brother was back for a little bit during his break from college. We decided it would be fun to spend NYE together and do something a little more fancy. We ended up going to INTI which was lovely. Here is a recap of our INTI New Years Eve experience. I hope you enjoy it as much as we did!

INTI New Years Eve 2025/2026 Experience

INTI New Years Eve 2025/2026 Experience My cousin brother was back for a little bit during his break from college. We decided it would be fun to spend NYE together and do something a little more fancy. We ended up going to INTI which was lovely. Here is a…

14.01.2026 01:00 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Bernard M. Baruch Quote Bernard M. Baruch Quote: What's Up With Pooj? I've had a good start to the year and I'm really thankful for that. Yesterday, I chatted with my bestie on video call for a couple of hours and that really brightened what would have otherwise been a bit of a dull day. She lives in a different country (Tanzania) and since both of us are often quite busy, we were especially so last year, we aren't able to talk that much.

Bernard M. Baruch Quote

Bernard M. Baruch Quote: What's Up With Pooj? I've had a good start to the year and I'm really thankful for that. Yesterday, I chatted with my bestie on video call for a couple of hours and that really brightened what would have otherwise been a bit of a dull day. She lives…

13.01.2026 01:00 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Sometimes We Miss What’s Right In Front Of Us I didn't plan on sharing this post today but decided to anyway. For the last few hours, I've been thinking about how sometimes we miss what's right in front of us. It all started when my mum told me my sugarcane juice was on the table. I looked for it everywhere in the kitchen and couldn't find it. So, I went back to the table to check again and lo and behold there it was.

Sometimes We Miss What’s Right In Front Of Us

I didn't plan on sharing this post today but decided to anyway. For the last few hours, I've been thinking about how sometimes we miss what's right in front of us. It all started when my mum told me my sugarcane juice was on the table. I looked for it…

11.01.2026 01:01 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Where Did She Disappear To Now? You might be checking up on my blog for the last few days and wondering- where did she disappear to now?

Where Did She Disappear To Now?

You might be checking up on my blog for the last few days and wondering- where did she disappear to now?

10.01.2026 01:01 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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An Insomniacs Paradise The quiet of the night Sends a tingle down my spine So silent and peaceful I'm in a serene state of mind I take it all in Deep breaths My head resting against the pillow Picturing the life I want In my pajamas Enveloped in the warmth of my blanket I experience An insomniacs paradise. About An Insomniacs Paradise: I've been trying to go to bed a little earlier these days and get my life together.

An Insomniacs Paradise

The quiet of the night Sends a tingle down my spine So silent and peaceful I'm in a serene state of mind I take it all in Deep breaths My head resting against the pillow Picturing the life I want In my pajamas Enveloped in the warmth of my blanket I experience An insomniacs…

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