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Your favorite Trans PNW Everyday Antifascist Punk Rock Dad. She/Her, Comrade/Anarchist. Mutual Aide in a Mutual Combat state. We keep us safe. FAFO. β€οΈπŸ΄πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈβ†™οΈβ†™οΈβ†™οΈπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆπŸ΄β€οΈ ACAB NSFW & NSFF goldfishgrenades.bigcartel.com CashApp: $RiotDad Venmo: @RiotDad

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love you, friend. ❀️

03.03.2026 05:04 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

the worlds not over
keep taking your meds
keep taking your HRT
keep scheduling surgeries
keep talking to friends
keep eating
keep sleeping
the worlds not over
you're still needed

28.02.2026 15:28 β€” πŸ‘ 3359    πŸ” 1758    πŸ’¬ 23    πŸ“Œ 18

it just feels so fucking wild to be in a house surrounded by family & feeling so goddamned lonely. like, I did alone for fucking ages but the world didn’t seem hellbent on excluding me at that point, now it just seems so hopeless. I know I will get through it. I have to. I deserve better.

β€οΈπŸ–€β€οΈπŸ–€β€οΈπŸ–€β€οΈπŸ–€

03.03.2026 04:51 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

thank you, comrade. β€οΈπŸ–€πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ–€β€οΈ

03.03.2026 02:30 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

but is she wrong?

02.03.2026 21:30 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

RiotKid(8) just said β€œthere's no meaning to life anymore because all the candles smell like candles they've already made”

02.03.2026 21:19 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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325 - SPRING '26 V.1C ✨ 🌱🌱 β€œ L I N E D L I P S & S P I K E D B A T S β€œ 2/25/26 (photo credit: mattielubchansky.com)

Latest draft of my super cool spring playlist.

#spring #2026 #ytm #playlist #musicsky

(Photo credit @mattielubchansky.com)

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25.02.2026 20:12 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m trying so hard to rely on other people at the moment and it feels so good, honestly. It’s taken years to do so but it’s hard to imagine a time when I’ve felt more loved by letting folk do for me instead of the opposite. πŸ–€β€οΈ

02.03.2026 21:18 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

hi hello hey

do the thing.

weekly reminder πŸ’Šβ°

02.03.2026 01:56 β€” πŸ‘ 84    πŸ” 24    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you! I just did that and then took my shot. πŸ–€β€οΈ

Y’all are the bee’s knees

02.03.2026 06:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

honestly, that’s all I want. for us both to remain happy and family/friends without hostility.

02.03.2026 04:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yeah, I mean we have totally had that discussion before and are both super open sexually and not hung up on that as the only form of intimacy we should be able to seek out but like the love just isn’t there. and neither of us feel like fighting for it with who we are now.

02.03.2026 04:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

thank you. πŸ–€β€οΈ

02.03.2026 04:07 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I think that’s the hardest part. like I get that coming out is a whole ass bombshell to a partner but the hardest part is just the apathy and lack of concern for a whole ass community. Especially when it’s a community that I belong to, and being told to detransition as a solution just isn’t ok

02.03.2026 04:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ«‚πŸ«‚

02.03.2026 04:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

thank you, friend. I definitely realize how fortunate I am to have good friends who check in on me. πŸ–€β€οΈ

02.03.2026 04:00 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m sorry, friend. πŸ–€β€οΈ

02.03.2026 03:56 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

someone that I should more than easily be able to approach and be honest with. like, I just feel lost, fam. I need a hug. or a drink. or to fucking hug a drink, I dunno.

anyway, thank you for listening. love you bunches.

Stay safe, stay dangerous.

β€οΈπŸ΄πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈβ†™οΈβ†™οΈβ†™οΈπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ΄β€οΈ

02.03.2026 03:53 β€” πŸ‘ 19    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0

need to fight for all of us and not just ignore what’s happening to our communities across the country/world.

And if that isn’t enough, I have like my first post transition crush and I feel so unlovable, unfuckable and unlikable atm and for the first time in my life am terrified and intimidated by

02.03.2026 03:49 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

transition? like, how do I feel love and acceptance without burdening my comrades who are also struggling rn by just trauma dumping on them?

like, I just want to hold someone close and to be held by someone who wants to be there, someone who wants to fight with me, someone who feels the fucking

02.03.2026 03:45 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

going on in our country rn and she is like so unfazed by it and that just makes things seem even more fucked up and makes me feel even more alone. in my own home, like where I supposed to feel the safest and most secure.

so I guess I’m wondering how many folk have experienced this during their

02.03.2026 03:42 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

as the other. like, there could be roles for us in each others vision of what we want but neither party wants that life for themselves. does that make sense?

I feel so fucking alone rn and I know she does too, but like many of us rn, I’m fucking scared. like, I’m fucking terrified of what is

02.03.2026 03:40 β€” πŸ‘ 18    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

at least we have that going for us. Since transitioning socially, we haven’t really been intimate, we barely sleep in the same room at the same time and we’ve grown into very different people with very different world views and it’s become clear to both of us that we just don’t want the same life

02.03.2026 03:37 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

with the economy what it is, neither can afford the mortgage on our own. so it looks like we will also be cohabitating as we coparent until she finishes school. honestly, it’s probably been over for longer than either of us care to admit. We love each other and both want to remain best friends, so

02.03.2026 03:34 β€” πŸ‘ 18    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Okay, so I’d like some advice, to vent and all that that shit entails. so not like shitpost or call to action post, just Fia asking the community for advice or to listen? I dunno, but here it is anyway;

My partner and I are on the outs. It sucks. 14 years and it’s ending. We will coparent and

02.03.2026 03:31 β€” πŸ‘ 25    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0

quote posting this so i can make it my pinned

this thread is full of incredible advice from incredible trans fems

tysm everyone whose added their thoughts πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ

06.05.2025 02:34 β€” πŸ‘ 84    πŸ” 20    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 3

looks like we scored a dunk tank, so if you’ve ever wanted to get this girl wet(and you know you have), here’s your chance.

01.03.2026 14:45 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

love y’all to pieces

28.02.2026 19:04 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

if the world goes dark, i’m gonna go back to shitposting using crop circles.

28.02.2026 17:55 β€” πŸ‘ 17    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

help @moxiest.art out and get something amazing in return? how the fuck could anyone say no?

28.02.2026 17:50 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0