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@joymiriam.bsky.social

Psychotherapy, spirituality, neurodiversity, literature, cats, nature, how do we stay present to suffering and beauty?

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Raging at the thought! Manage to wear mascara about twice a year - much prefer not wearing any makeup at all.

14.11.2025 20:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Ooh, is that the little cutie near Launde Abbey?

14.11.2025 19:58 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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New Article: Equality Act and Churches - Naomi Lawson Jacobs New article in the International Journal of Disability & Social Justice - 'I just didn't fit into the way that they did church': Barriers to Access & Participation for Disabled People in UK Churches

New article in the International Journal of Disability & Social Justice - 'I Just Didn't Fit into the Way That They Did Church': Barriers to Access & Participation for Disabled People in Churches naomilawsonjacobs.com/new-article-... #EqualityAct #NewResearch #DisabilityStudies #AcademicSky

12.11.2025 08:46 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Sorry for your loss. Glad you were able to see her.

12.11.2025 19:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you for this

11.11.2025 22:10 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yay, worst of both worlds

10.11.2025 20:18 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Either they know it's shit, but a billionaire gives them a few quid and a pat on the head for promoting it, or they really believe AI is reliable, and I don't know which is worse.

10.11.2025 19:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

An evening Requiem at Trinity college chapel Cambridge. Bit fancy. Also beautiful.

10.11.2025 19:44 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Really appreciated your insights - thank you!

10.11.2025 19:24 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Absolutely. Describing the context so that they have more information is one thing. Making them feel they should be grateful for inadequate care our guilty for needing more than that is never ok. We all deserve better than poor care.

07.11.2025 21:57 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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The 'Avoiding Avoidance' Trap How Britain's Welfare Policy Weaponizes Therapy.

Thank you for this @shrinkatlarge.bsky.social

"the real avoidance isn’t on the part of those struggling to survive. It’s governmental: the avoidance of the real, the avoidance of the structural, andβ€”most cruciallyβ€”the cynical avoidance of justice."

substack.com/inbox/post/1...

07.11.2025 20:16 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This needs shouting from the rooftops "the real avoidance isn’t on the part of those struggling to survive. It’s governmental: the avoidance of the real, the avoidance of the structural, andβ€”most cruciallyβ€”the cynical avoidance of justice."

07.11.2025 20:15 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm glad a professional lead like that exists somewhere!

06.11.2025 20:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Perhaps because they prioritise protecting the institution (and maybe their own position within it) over the care of "the least of these", those with less institutional power and very little voice within its walls.

06.11.2025 20:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Everything he does is deeply disappointing

05.11.2025 22:04 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm so glad you can do this. I've only ever worked four days a week for the NHS - work in private practice on the other day - as I don't think I could cope with 5 days of all that pressure and moral injury and ridiculousness.

05.11.2025 20:06 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

More reasons, amongst so many to steer clear of LLMs

05.11.2025 19:52 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Wondering what you miss about doing it?
For me, I really like that it ensures I think about things at a depth I might not otherwise.

05.11.2025 19:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Agreed. The church I attend only has a 6:30pm Eucharist service on Sundays so I have the whole day free.

Evangelical charismatic days used to mean hours spent at church on Sundays making sure the show happened each week.

Not going at all is also entirely valid and def more restful though.

02.11.2025 20:41 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Last chance to turn it off.

On Monday, November 3rd, Microsoft will start using your LinkedIn data for AI training. And remember, you're opted in by default.

To toggle it off πŸ‘‰ Account - Settings & Privacy > Data privacy > Data for Generative AI Improvement.

31.10.2025 13:37 β€” πŸ‘ 3866    πŸ” 3608    πŸ’¬ 87    πŸ“Œ 214

Truly is!

29.10.2025 21:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

So good!

29.10.2025 21:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Reckon I might be slightly bitey when I'm old too

25.10.2025 21:42 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
LLF Open Letter – Inclusive Church

I've signed this open letter. #CofEpeeps, lay or ordained, if you want the church to become more fully affirming of LGBTQ+ folks, please read this letter from Inclusive Church and consider signing it.
www.inclusive-church.org/llf-open-let...

23.10.2025 17:01 β€” πŸ‘ 46    πŸ” 28    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 6

I suppose I would imagine that your grief over how things might have been, reflects how much those things matter to you... and as such is precious and to be honoured. It's hard not to invalidate our own grief when we have limited capacity though. Solidarity and feeling with you.

22.10.2025 19:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

but then I'm not sure these are things we can let go of, given their ongoing nature.

I think instead I'm finding (or trying to find) ways to grow larger, enough to hold some of the grief and some of the beauty of living all at once.

Does this sound anything like what you're experiencing? 2/2

22.10.2025 19:13 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

More and more, I'm finding i need to make space to acknowledge the grief I feel about, well - gestures to society, genocide, inequality, etc. I'm learning to keep returning to practices of lament as an ongoing practice. I don't know if I would equate that with letting go as such 1/

22.10.2025 19:10 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

That Dean David was a discerning chap from the get go

22.10.2025 18:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I really like a term (I associate with @karenod.bsky.social) which is post traumatic remaking of the self. For me it encompasses growth, change, agency, etc., without suggesting being "fixed".

19.10.2025 19:38 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I hope it includes some muttering about whitewashed sepulchres

18.10.2025 18:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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