James

Our lot can normally march in step.
(I like to think they're deliberately doing this as malicious compliance)

It's very simple. Long flowing hair, floaty dress and heels = woman. Anything else = man.

2 months off all social media 😇
but all this tariff nonsense has brought me back here at least for a gawp. Meta can still go fuck itself.

Spent the weekend with my godson (7) and his little brother (3) so of course I’m now horribly sick 🤒

Whoever from Capital One worked on the deal to name the Capital One Arena must be happy right now because Capital One is being said right now on every news channel in the world more than ever. Capital One.

That TikTok message is…. wow.
We’re circling the drain.

Tony Slattery: Comedian and actor dies aged 65 He was known for his quick-witted improvisations on shows like Channel 4's Whose Line Is It Anyway.

Oh that's sad ☹️

(He was so hot in the WLIIA days)

Sauna then steam, or steam then sauna??
*new gym*

Super dysregulated today.
But I know *why* now which doesn’t stop it happening, but does help me stop and sit down and let my brain catch up. #ASD

I’m watching it right now, it’s great! Nice to see some positive ASD representation.
And thanks to the terrible clickbait articles I can watch Astrid next, I did wonder about the ‘adapted by’ credit.

In loving memory The Vivienne 1992-2025, with her next to it.

A tribute to The Vivienne shown at the end of US #DragRace

Sigh.

Boyfriend is out tonight. I've had an Honest burger, a bag of lebkuchen left over from Christmas and I'm watching Pretty Woman under a blanket on the sofa hashtag selfcare

I've not been on Twitter since Musk. But I was still putting stuff on Meta platforms. There's lots of people I'm not super close to but I'm 'Facebook-close'. And I was bereaved 5 years ago, I value the Memories it throws up. But then they come out with this new moderation policy and I just...nope.

TWENTY TWENTY THRIVE!!

16. Everything's Here and Nothing’s Lost // Snow Patrol
17. Go Loud // Kingfishr
18. Dancing In the Flames // The Weeknd
19. All My Life // Purple Disco Machine & The Magician
20. Edge of Saturday Night // The Blessed Madonna & Kylie Minogue

11. Disease // Lady Gaga
12. Kissing in the Cold // Florrie
13. I Never Loved You // Halsey
14. Rhetorical Questions // GRACEY
15. Sorry I’m Late, I Didn’t Want To Come // The Wombats

6. I Can Do It With a Broken Heart // Taylor Swift
7. Who’s Afraid of Little Old Me? // Taylor Swift
8. yes, and? // Ariana Grande
9. Love Second Music First // Self Esteem
10. True Colours (feat. Self Esteem) // Becky Hill

2024.

1. 2 hands // Tate McRae
2. Sympathy is a knife featuring ariana grande // Charli xcx
3. Good Luck, Babe! // Chapell Roan
4. last night’s mascara // Griff
5. That’s So True // Gracie Abrams

I love a Steven Moffat Dr Who episode that’s funny and heartbreaking and makes zero sense whatsoever but it doesn’t MATTER 😍

Looking up Intermittent Fasting.
No reason 🐷

Watched We Live In Time.
Sobbed.

My pristine cream jumper made it the whole way through a weekend at Soho Farmhouse only for me to throw a coffee over myself as the car braked to let the gates open 🤣🙈

Got a great massage from a hot Spanish twunk.
No happy finish, it’s not the kind of establishment! But I definitely felt it on my shoulder at one point.

This Gregg Wallace autism defence has triggered me. My dad was diagnosed late in life with Asperger's Syndrome as it was called and used it as an excuse all. the. time.
I am now diagnosed with ASD myself so I know - it's not an excuse for being a colossal dickhead, that's a choice.

Facebook today has reminded me 3 years ago I was in a dark place.
No feeling is final.

Fitting that on International Day of Persons with Disabilities I had a meeting about making reasonable adjustments to help me work more effectively with my #autism - I'm starting my self-advocacy era!

I have my first ever interaction with Occupational Health today and I’m quite anxious #autism

Very dysregulated today and I hate it. I know it’s because of the combo of a silly work thing and my autism but knowing the insignificance of the ‘why’ makes it worse somehow, like why am I like this??!

Smoggie Queens is hilarious and surprisingly poignant I hope they get to make many many more 🌈 🌈🌈