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Social Justice Worrier. Cynical Optimist. Will write for money or faint praise. Possessed by Sphynx cats… She/her LGBTQIA+ rights matter

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Picture of the page I’m currently reading with the words “slain by Bevis and buried” highlighted and circled.

Picture of the page I’m currently reading with the words “slain by Bevis and buried” highlighted and circled.

Front cover of the book, which is Mythology of the British Isles by Geoffrey Ashe. Obviously, I couldn’t *not* buy it. There’s a dramatic high contrast drawing in black and white of some standing stones and a distant tree on the front.

Front cover of the book, which is Mythology of the British Isles by Geoffrey Ashe. Obviously, I couldn’t *not* buy it. There’s a dramatic high contrast drawing in black and white of some standing stones and a distant tree on the front.

It’s a sad reflection of my mind that I can’t read “slain by Bevis and…” then any word beginning with “bu—“ without my brain autocompleting butthead. Of course.

So that’s how focused I am this evening.

Added a picture of the book in question, because I know I’d want to know what it is.

12.01.2026 17:45 — 👍 0    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

Maybe it’ll be more poison bottles, or the lid to my egg cooker. Or pictures. There’s a shedload of pictures around here somewhere… Oh god, I have to attach things to walls again. Still, anything that covers this awful wallpaper is a bonus.

So, how’s everyone else doing in 2026? What’s the goss?

12.01.2026 17:30 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

But, I’ve managed to squish everything important in here, and now all I have to do is empty all these boxes.

Yes, they’re mostly books. Obviously. But some are mystery boxes, which is exciting. Every day another dramatic unboxing moment. Will it be books again, or perhaps my missing cutlery…?

12.01.2026 17:30 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Anyway, hello again. I went missing for a bit there, but most of that was unexpectedly moving house. And downsizing. I’m Very Bad at downsizing. It’s like when I edit my writing, and it ends up 20% longer than when I started.

12.01.2026 17:30 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Oh no. Not only does Vinted sell books, but Temu does too! Not just those ‘not really books’ with 30 pages written by AI, but actual books that I want.

I’m starting to think Temu can read my mind. Or extrapolate exactly what I like from my past purchases, which isn’t actually that big a stretch

12.01.2026 17:18 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
Blix is a blue sphynx and Spike is a pink one, and they are both much eviler than they look.

They are on a golden porches coloured seat, looking upwards, Blix is being regal by crushing the cat bed beneath he repose, and Spike is peeping out from the two tier wicker basket. Her eyes are green, her face is black. His eyes are blue and his nose is black on a white muzzle.

Blix is a blue sphynx and Spike is a pink one, and they are both much eviler than they look. They are on a golden porches coloured seat, looking upwards, Blix is being regal by crushing the cat bed beneath he repose, and Spike is peeping out from the two tier wicker basket. Her eyes are green, her face is black. His eyes are blue and his nose is black on a white muzzle.

Ah, many of the dogs biggest fans only got to meet them over the internet. His spirit’s always around, too.

Also, I now have two vaguely cat-shaped demons, if that’s any consolation… ☺️

03.07.2025 16:34 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

It is. I promise you. Technically, aesthetically and emotionally

03.07.2025 16:27 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Oh, that is just beautiful. Absolutely brilliant. Truth and beauty combined, which is why it’s never smart to piss off an artist.

03.07.2025 16:26 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

You do form so well, it’s a delight to see. Even if cuckoos are bastards… The roses are perfect too.

30.06.2025 17:36 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0

Oh that’s lovely! I had a brief foray into bird paintings many years ago, and am promising myself to try again one day soon. Not with anything like that level of sheer joy, tho.

Do please come over and see us, that would be amazing! It’d be an absolute delight to see you in person.

30.06.2025 17:34 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Yes, ma’am. I just needed a hobby, and you know, I was there… I *am* very old now. I can fall apart if I like!

Actually now I’ve found Supernatural, that’s my new hobby.

But how are you? I was thinking about you not long ago too. How are you doing? What have you been up to? ☺️

29.06.2025 20:31 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

That’s always a good recommendation ☺️

29.06.2025 20:27 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I tried it, but it didn’t take. It’s still on my list of things to look at again tho. Do please send more recs too ☺️

28.06.2025 18:32 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I hereby encourage you. Just because I need more people to squee at, who will understand why I have to sometimes resort to tortured guineapig noises.

And I’m up to the tunnel episode, and omg it’s so tense - and I know what happens…

28.06.2025 00:50 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

EXACTLY! Dammit, why don’t more people recognise this!

28.06.2025 00:09 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Do let me know next time, but I hope you had fun!

I absolutely adore Supernatural. If anyone had said that it had this much Angel content, sexual tension, violence, magic, angst & torture, I would have been on it sooner.

No other series has made me shout at the screen, cackle, or weep like this

28.06.2025 00:08 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

You put that beautifully. Tho I balk at ‘dreadful’. Some episodes I’m skipping over, yes, but that’s mostly just because they’re monster of the week and, well, have no Cas content. Or Jack. I’m up to series 13 again now, and skipping markedly fewer episodes.

Anyway, tell me of Down to Agincourt…

28.06.2025 00:04 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Hi, you! ☺️

Honestly, I don’t think any of the small strangled squeaks I make over Cas being asleep on a sofa should be shared with anyone. I have the vestiges of dignity left. Probably…

25.06.2025 22:34 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I also realise the amount of squeaking/shouting/swearing doesn’t get any less, second watch through. I *know* what’s going to happen dammit, but I still have to go “Nooooooooo…!”, “Caaa-aaassss…!”, “FFS DEAN!” and “Ohgod, Sam…” quite a lot.

I can never watch #Supernatural in company I now realise.

23.06.2025 15:41 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Hey, you! I’m very intermittent on the socials, but I go through phases of catching up again. I’ve never really learned the ways of Bluesky. My policy has always been barrel in and post shit, and is even more so now lol. Hope you’re doing well! ☺️

23.06.2025 12:19 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I’m not obsessed, it’s just a new low impact hobby, which is a very healthy and normal thing. Yes.

23.06.2025 09:57 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I was a bit bereft after finishing all of #Supernatural, but I’ve found solace in just going straight back in.
Ok, so I’m mostly watching the #Castiel episodes this time round. I love Sam, Dean and Bobby and even Crowley too, but Cas is just a thing of beauty.
I blame @mishacollins.bsky.social.

23.06.2025 09:54 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I’ve found a new hobby that I’m able to keep up with, without expending too much energy. It’s called Supernatural, and I’ve watched it all now, so I’m watching it again 😬
Well, actually, the Cas episodes mostly. Ah, dear… But it’s making me very happy. Hope all is good with you! ☺️

23.06.2025 09:46 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Things are ok, mostly. Still playing symptom bingo and seeing what diagnoses come up. Still full of gallstones but no flare ups since December, so that’s good. I might get an operation on my elbow and see if that fixes my cubital tunnel. But doing alright all things considered. Cats still demons 👍🏻

23.06.2025 09:43 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0
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Courting Supremacy The Patriarchy are at it again….

I wrote a thing. I may even write another one… #TransRightsAreHumanRights #DefendTransRights

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21.04.2025 15:53 — 👍 5    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

There are loads of butch trans women and camp trans men, and loads of people who express gender in their own individual way.

And to get a GRC, you have to demonstrate that you have lived as your chosen gender for 2 years. Which ridiculously still means conforming to gender stereotypes 🙄

01.03.2025 20:25 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I have also been trying every flavour of Go To Sleep juice, for whilst I have been sleeping a whole lot, I’d like to start doing it at nights, and being awake in the daytime.

Fewer bizarre and disturbing dreams would be welcomed, too.

24.02.2025 23:22 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I’m going to give Bluesky another go, because my social media bar is now set very low, & I need to have an idea what the Sweet Holy FUCK is going on in the world.

Turns out looking at Facebook and doomscrolling Reddit do not provide a balanced overview of world events. But I do have loads of memes!

24.02.2025 23:22 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0

It was fun, and that pretty much covered all of December in the very lovely Whiston Hospital. I managed to total 3 MRIs, 1 CT with contrast, 3 x rays and I’m hoping I now qualify for a rewards card of some sort.

Since then, I have mostly been asleep. I think it’s safer.

24.02.2025 23:22 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Hello Mx Bluesky, how are you all doing?

Yeesh. Ok, well, the best revenge is surviving, right? You’re doing great and I appreciate you.

I managed to go into hospital with gallstones, get diagnosed with acute pancreatitis, then a lung infection, then a collapsed lung, then a ruptured ACL 😬

24.02.2025 23:22 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0