Anneke

Slowly but surely decorating my new office ❤️

Holy Clothing is out here giving me a full-on crisis over which dress to buy in which color. I'm about to break out a new spreadsheet over this nonsense.

an orange cat is looking at you from behind some furniture. he has a serious expression

Oh hey. I wasn’t avoiding you, I was just avoiding literally everything else

THE BOY HUNGERS.

A golden retriever and a reeheaded woman in profile facing each other. The golden retriever has its tongue slightly out and is licking the woman's nose.

What is happiness? I talk about it here: allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/09/happ...

What is happiness for YOU? Cause for this good boy, it's head pats and crime.

A selfie of a redheaded woman sitting on a rock in a forest. She is wearing a white chemise and a green overdress and smiling at the camera.

Camping and podcasts and cars, oh my!

I have a sale going on for new clients and a bunch of new podcasts coming out soon, check it out here: www.allforlovecoaching.com/recent-appea...

Home from a fulfilling but exhausting weekend of camping. My first event as an organizer, and nothing blew up. I'm calling that a win.

Relationship Coach Anneke Elmhirst Welcome to a new edition of the Famous Interviews with Joe Dimino series .. On this episode, we talk with Relationship Coach Anneke Elmhirst .. Based out of Pit

I got interviewed on another podcast! Check it out here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/r... I talk about work, family, and my weird-ass brain.

It's pretty gratifying when your first two podcast interviewers both have the same response.

"... Oh, we're going to need you on for multiple episodes, aren't we?"

Getting a client who feels "called" to work with me is such an honor ever time... and also wild amounts of pressure. Imposter syndrome is such a bitch.

Okay not to be a corporate shill but I might be in love with PodMatch already and it's been under 24 hours.

An innocent networking call turned into an MLM pitch, and a new client no-showed for an appointment. Sometimes you just have to admit the day is a wash and take a nap.

A top-down shot of a woman in a purple dress sitting on a couch. There is an orange cat lying by her side and a smaller grey cat curled up on her lap

I wrote about creativity, and the unlikely places it shows up. Read all about it: allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/07/movi...

To answer a question from @hazelnym.bsky.social yes, I do just live under a cat blanket 90% of my life.

A cross-stitch of an orange cat, grey rat, and anthropomorphic rice ball, characters from the anime Fruits Basket

Being a woman in the professional sphere is hard. Being a woman in my particular professional sphere... well, it's not always as fun as it could be. Check out my post for a disappointing story: allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/07/miso...

Pictured: a recent project that doesn't disappoint!

Nothing like the air right before a storm, watching the clouds roll in from the hammock.

A grey cat with green eyes sitting on the top tier of a cat tree by a window

Struggle with boundaries? Yeah, you're not alone. I'm working on a full series about saying/hearing "no," and I just released the first piece at allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/07/the-...

Pictured: a very grumpy and judgmental Esmeralda

The little monsters are always delighted to have new prey.

Three cats are sitting on a cat tree in front of a window. The grey cat on the left is making eye contact with the orange cat on the pedestal, while the orange cat in the middle is looking down.

What is coaching? How is it different from therapy?

I've got a metaphor for you!

allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/07/coac...

Pictured: a rare moment of peace

I wrote a thing. This is kind of a test of Bluesky's censors - can I say the phrase "sex work" without getting kicked to the curb? Only time will tell. allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/06/you-...

Two cats sitting on the edge of a tan couch. The smaller grey cat is sitting on a pillow. The larger orange cat is a foot away. Both are looking at the camera.

Therapists are human too, for better or worse. What happens if yours isn't accepting of your "lifestyle"? I've written an advice piece here: allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/07/kink...
Cat pic for tax and also just to brag about my babies.

Quote of the day from my mother, about lesbians liking Subarus, "Well, I want you to inherit mine, and I know you're bisexual, so you'll have to give that up."

Quote of the day, spoken to my cat: You are not allowed to munch the delicious hallucinogens!

The image is a sunflower with various leaf designs embroidered onto a denim jacket

"I want to help people" is such a common, cliche phrase, but why? What about it leaves such a bad taste in my mouth, despite my own "helping" urges?

Read all about it here: allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/06/the-...

(Current WIP for algorithm tax and funsies)

I did two brave things today - I gifted my first attempt at lifelike embroidery, and I posted a blog on why I'm leaving behavior analysis. Check it out at allforlovecoaching.blogspot.com/2024/06/why-...

All for Love Coaching - Recent appearances Recent appearances: On 4/24/24, I appeared on a panel with d20domme answering audience questions about the intersection of kink and mental health. Check out the recording below! We didn't get through...

After wrestling with every software under the sun, I've managed to get the recordings of my recent podcast and panel appearances to work! I talk about mental health and the intersection of coaching and sexual health. Check it out here: www.allforlovecoaching.com/miscellaneou...

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Screamy boi says "There's a Bound Top to Bottom podcast episode coming out soon featuring meeeeeee!" Check out all episodes at podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/b...

You know you're an adult when you get excited about your insurance adjustor getting creative with how they apply your deductible.

Relatedly uhhhhhh don't go into my basement without scuba gear, k?

A grey cat asleep on the back of a tan couch, with one paw draped over her tail.

Get loved, idiot.

My newest blog post is up at allforlovecoaching.com/miscellaneous/blog where I discuss compromise and pizza.

Stay tuned for some spicier posts to come, including an update to my "coming out to parents" post!

Welp, migraine on Tuesday led to a pinched nerve yesterday and today. Did I just yelp with pain while trying to lift a water bottle? Maybe.

Three client leads in two days, and only ONE of them treated me like a SWer! Honestly that's a win.

(No shade to SWers, y'all do important work with talent)