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Ela J. Meadows

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Living on unceded Anishinaabe Algonquin Territory. Canadian writer, artist, adventurer, single mom, and person with disabilities. She/They Writing & Dreaming Blog: https://elameadows.wordpress.com TTRPG World: https://styriapathfinder.wordpress.com

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My child is training for their cross country race and I’m doing what I can to support them by going for runs. I don’t go fast and we don’t necessarily go all that far, but gradationally, we are building up.

29.09.2025 23:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Maybe (probably) I don’t have the spoons for a whole work out, washing all the dishes, writing an entire chapter. And that’s okay. I can do 5 sit ups, or even just one. I can wash the dish I need for the food I’m wanting to eat right now. I can write a sentence or a couple plot points.

29.09.2025 23:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
me after a run, sweaty and sore as i climb the stairs in my knee and ankle braces.

me after a run, sweaty and sore as i climb the stairs in my knee and ankle braces.

me after a run, sweaty and sore as i climb the stairs in my knee and ankle braces.

me after a run, sweaty and sore as i climb the stairs in my knee and ankle braces.

My word of the year is Gradational. It’s exciting to see it play out in my every day choices. For example, I have the motto β€œmore than zero” for getting things done.

#gradational #morethanzero #motivation #running #wordoftheyear #writing #dothething #spoontheory

29.09.2025 23:31 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Genuinely love our community in Ottawa and wanted to share a thank you to her.

25.09.2025 15:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

An elderly lady catches up to me and asks if she can help. I grateful say yes, and she carries the tp packages to where our paths diverge then assists in stacking the packages in a way where they won’t succeed in their quest for freedom.

25.09.2025 15:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It kept moving lower and nearly escaping its trip home and fleeing to the sidewalk. So there I am walking 20 steps, pausing to perform awkward maneuvers to get the packages back under my arm, rinse and repeat.

25.09.2025 15:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
The post author (Ela Meadows) tilts her head up to the sunshine filtering through the branches and leaves of a city tree.

The post author (Ela Meadows) tilts her head up to the sunshine filtering through the branches and leaves of a city tree.

I was out picking up groceries and saw Canadian toilet paper on sale so got two. My plan was that I’d tuck them under my arm.
Turns out the plastic slid against itself very well...

#happystory #ottawa #goodvibes #helpingothers #community #centertown #elbowsup

25.09.2025 15:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Cover of the picture book Yetsa's Sweater by Sylvia Olsen, Illustrated by Joan Larson. An elderly indigenous woman sits on a chair knitting a Cowichan sweater with her granddaughter kneeling beside her and watching.

Cover of the picture book Yetsa's Sweater by Sylvia Olsen, Illustrated by Joan Larson. An elderly indigenous woman sits on a chair knitting a Cowichan sweater with her granddaughter kneeling beside her and watching.

Yetsa's Sweater is a heartwarming story that blends many ways of knowing into an accessible children's picture book.

Written by Sylvia Olsen, a non-indigenous woman who lived in the Tsartlip First Nation for many years.
#orangeshirtday #nationaldayoftruthandreconciliation #booksky #picturebooks

21.09.2025 13:28 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks for sharing! I'll have to wait to check it out though because I've so far avoided spoilers <3

05.09.2025 20:22 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks for sharing I am looking forward to it!

05.09.2025 20:16 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I am still in the first season but the highlights have been (in order)
Rosa
Demons of the Punjab
The Ghost Monument
The Woman Who Fell to Earth

05.09.2025 19:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Jodie Whittaker as The Doctor (A woman with a blonde bob wearing blue pants, a navy top with stripes across it, suspenders, and a grey trench coat) stands on a grassy hill area with the TARDIS behind her.

Jodie Whittaker as The Doctor (A woman with a blonde bob wearing blue pants, a navy top with stripes across it, suspenders, and a grey trench coat) stands on a grassy hill area with the TARDIS behind her.

I finally got the Jodie Whittaker era Doctor Who seasons from the Library.

My gosh they are amazing so far!

I expected to hate them because of the negative press but it feels like a cross with original Old Who and the Tennant era.

#JodieWhittaker #DoctorWho #OldWho #doctorwhofandom #Library

04.09.2025 22:57 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you for sharing πŸ’œ. Without spoilers, establishing reincarnation early on had me terrified whenever anything suspicious was happening because it never felt like everything was just "safe."

30.08.2025 21:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Cover of the audiobook version of "A Dog's Purpose" by W. Bruce Cameron and read by William Dufris featuring a young red golden retriever dog looking straight ahead

Cover of the audiobook version of "A Dog's Purpose" by W. Bruce Cameron and read by William Dufris featuring a young red golden retriever dog looking straight ahead

The Audio book of "A Dog's Purpose" broke me, put me back together, and broke me again over and over and I can't recommend it enough. It felt very much like a dog version of "Black Beauty."

#booksky #bookreccomendation #audiobook #dogs #adogspurpose #blackbeauty #reading #bookrecs #animals

30.08.2025 21:00 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
A small black poodle/yorkie mix dog wearing a bright yellow lifejacket plays in lake water making awkward facial expressions and shaking herself out in strange positions.

A small black poodle/yorkie mix dog wearing a bright yellow lifejacket plays in lake water making awkward facial expressions and shaking herself out in strange positions.

A small black poodle/yorkie mix dog wearing a bright yellow lifejacket plays in lake water making awkward facial expressions and shaking herself out in strange positions.

A small black poodle/yorkie mix dog wearing a bright yellow lifejacket plays in lake water making awkward facial expressions and shaking herself out in strange positions.

A small black poodle/yorkie mix dog wearing a bright yellow lifejacket plays in lake water making awkward facial expressions and shaking herself out in strange positions.

A small black poodle/yorkie mix dog wearing a bright yellow lifejacket plays in lake water making awkward facial expressions and shaking herself out in strange positions.

My service dog Celena demonstrating peak elegance...

#dog #servicedog #water #lake #summer #gfpet #lifejacket #playtime #cottage #summervibes #awkward #doggo #puppy #cute

27.08.2025 14:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Ela J. Meadows - a curvy woman with shoulder length brown hair wearing an ivory corset and white skirt sits on a log over a lake holding her service dog a small black poodle mix

Ela J. Meadows - a curvy woman with shoulder length brown hair wearing an ivory corset and white skirt sits on a log over a lake holding her service dog a small black poodle mix

Profile Photo Update: My sister, cousin and I had a grand time playing with my corset and lace skirt at the family cottage.

It's one of the places I feel most relaxed and at home. This is the first year I've had cell service. There's still no power or potable water. It feels peaceful and restful.

24.08.2025 01:07 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A great blue heron stands on a knobby fallen log.

A great blue heron stands on a knobby fallen log.

A great blue heron flies above the lake's surface with cedar trees crowding the shore in the background.

A great blue heron flies above the lake's surface with cedar trees crowding the shore in the background.

A great blue heron back flaps to land on a rock.

A great blue heron back flaps to land on a rock.

A Great Blue Heron graced me with their presence while I was kayaking at the family cottage.

Pictures were taken with a Cannon EOS Rebel T6 with a 300mm lens.

#photography #cottage #summer #birds #greatblueheron #kayaking #nature #ontario #cottagecountry #canada #Wildlife

24.08.2025 00:54 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I think it would annoy me but I might be able to get used to it similarly to how the Hunger Games First Person Present was hard to get into but then I stopped noticing it.

It could work as a niche style especially for something like a short story where it doesn't go on and on?

17.08.2025 02:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A close up shot of river water splashing up and spinning in the air as it tumbles over rapids.

A close up shot of river water splashing up and spinning in the air as it tumbles over rapids.

Eddying whirlpools
Swirl around in toxic tides
Suck me deep inside

elameadows.wordpress.com/2025/08/15/r...

#poem #poetry #haiku #photography #emotions #feelings #water #writing #water #hogsback

15.08.2025 21:26 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This is the cutest ever! Adding it to my list of books to dream about!

31.07.2025 13:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
A grey haired man wearing a green sweater sits in front of a paper easel drawing a house. The text on the bottom reads "I'm not very good at it. But it doesn't matter."

A grey haired man wearing a green sweater sits in front of a paper easel drawing a house. The text on the bottom reads "I'm not very good at it. But it doesn't matter."

Oooh good point! My painting skills are...lacking...but I enjoy it for relaxing

20.07.2025 01:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
A brown haired woman with a collection of coloured butterfly clips in her hair wearing dark purple sunglasses and a fluffy light purple dress contemplates a bouquet of dried flowers.

A brown haired woman with a collection of coloured butterfly clips in her hair wearing dark purple sunglasses and a fluffy light purple dress contemplates a bouquet of dried flowers.

What inspires you to create?

I love interacting with all my senses: taste, touch, smell, sight, sound, as well as digging into the emotional responses they elicit.

#writing #booksky #author #photography #summer #canada #ontario #ottawa #sunshine #perfectsummerday

19.07.2025 17:38 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
From left to right a white horse and two bays, their women riders wearing sparkling blue tops and white chaps reading "capital cowgirls" and holding a Canadian flag or a "capital cowgirls" flag travel in sync in a dirt arena in front of a large crowd.

From left to right a white horse and two bays, their women riders wearing sparkling blue tops and white chaps reading "capital cowgirls" and holding a Canadian flag or a "capital cowgirls" flag travel in sync in a dirt arena in front of a large crowd.

From left to right a dark brown and white paint horse and two bays, their women riders wearing sparkling blue tops and white chaps reading "capital cowgirls" and holding a Canadian flag or a "capital cowgirls" flag travel in sync in a dirt arena in front of a large crowd.

From left to right a dark brown and white paint horse and two bays, their women riders wearing sparkling blue tops and white chaps reading "capital cowgirls" and holding a Canadian flag or a "capital cowgirls" flag travel in sync in a dirt arena in front of a large crowd.

I've been busy enjoying summer so haven't had many opportunities to post. One outing was to see the Sunset Ride of the RCMP where we also got to watch The Capital Cowgirls!

#musicalride #capitalcowgirls #rcmp #ottawa #canada #horses #riding #summer #riding #ontario #photography

17.07.2025 01:28 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It really does seem to shift depending on your circles. I hate it but I use it for background work or dealing with emails with toxic people sometimes, never for a finished product or anything I'd post.

15.07.2025 23:33 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That's so interesting, I've found those younger then me (I'm mind 30's) and 50+ are the most enamored with it in my sphere.

15.07.2025 18:55 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Redirecting...

And so inspiration struck and I started writing...hours later it is well past my bed time but uh....yeah I am excited about the concept.

#writing #rh #booksky #author #reverseharam #polyamory

10.06.2025 04:16 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It goes on and on,
Lingering.

Flaring up like a perpetual abscess,
A wound that never heals,
Can never heal,
Because there is no tomorrow
For us to share.

08.06.2025 01:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Lingering in the Dark Greif is hard to put into words.There’s no concrete end point.No, moment of saying,I’ve gone through it, and it’s done. It goes on and on,Lingering. Flaring up like a perpetual abscess,A wound that…

Processing big feelings in short poetry lately.

Greif is hard to put into words.
There’s no concrete end point.
No, moment of saying,
I’ve gone through it, and it’s done.

1/2

elameadows.wordpress.com/2025/06/08/l...
#greif #poetry #poem #writing #sad #bereavement #goodbye

08.06.2025 01:23 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Through my characters I get to revisit emotional beats of my life until now, dig into local lore and places in Ontario I've visited or always wanted to. There's a joy and fascination with the world around me I'm able to embrace with stories set in current-day Canada

4/4

05.06.2025 12:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I still love me a fantasy story, the mythical adventures, creatures, environments. Yet, I'm also enjoying writing a story set in a (albeit slightly unrealistic) present.

3/4

05.06.2025 12:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

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