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@subitosarah.bsky.social

Podcast Audio Editor | Audiobook Narrator | PK-12 Music Teacher | F Horn in the Black Hills Symphony https://subitomedia.com

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I hate to be the one separating her from him but you should see what he texted yesterday… unhinged doesn’t cover it

24.01.2025 02:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

He takes up all my energy. That’s why I had to leave I couldn’t sleep, couldn’t concentrate at work, had to put my purse in a safe at night and close bank accounts. But he’s not taking care of himself and idk if he ever will and I can’t be responsible for him anymore

23.01.2025 13:47 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

(Part 6) even tho he knows he’s not welcome on the property, unalive himself in front of me, and do everything he could to not get arrested… β€œit won’t end well for any of us I’ll tell you that.” So it was time for a protection order. Waiting for the court, and idk how to feel.

23.01.2025 03:17 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

(Part 5) it was close to his end of town, with hot breakfast. He was pissed that I did that instead of sending him money because apparently he’s banned from that hotel and he needed cigarettes. I give zero shits about his nicotine. Today he apologized but followed with threats to show up at my house

23.01.2025 03:14 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

(Part 4) After I block that phone number or email, he makes a new one and starts from there. This has been going on for 6 months. Threats have been vague enough that the cops can’t help but he just won’t stop. This week in the subzero temps he begged again and I broke down and got him a hotel room.

23.01.2025 03:12 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

(Part 3) when he starts piling on the guilt and demanding money, I have to either shut him out or give in to shut him up. I can’t take care of him anymore because he takes advantage of everything and I’m not going there again. When I do help, it’s not enough or I did it wrong, and I end up blocking.

23.01.2025 03:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

(Part 2) I have provided all the phone numbers for assistance. He has all the excuses. He insists on staying in town, even tho there is no help for him here. Given his history of financial abuse and manipulation, it’s extremely hard but necessary that I keep as much distance as I can.

23.01.2025 03:07 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

(Part 1) It’s been almost a year since I filed for divorce. It was finalized in May, my daughter and I moved at the end of June, and my ex found himself homeless. He still is and has made so many enemies that no one will help him much. He keeps pestering me for money or to move back in (lol nope)

23.01.2025 03:05 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 0

Good point. I haven’t decided what to do

19.01.2025 01:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Oh to be this carefree

18.01.2025 19:35 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Is the belly a trap?

16.01.2025 20:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Is the belly a trap today?

13.01.2025 00:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yes ma’am. Not fully because of all the history there but yup

13.01.2025 00:32 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Gustopher Waffle II is being a butt today.

27.11.2024 17:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yup… forget the main quest, how do I level up my battle pets?? lol

17.11.2024 00:25 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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