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Max Marnau

@rabthecat.bsky.social

Autistic counsellor, trainer, author, activist and founder of the international collective Autistic Counsellors and Psychotherapists.

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The killing of one Trump supporter marks a dark day in the history of the US, but multiple school shootings do not?

11.09.2025 22:47 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

As the daughter of refugees from Hitler I found driving through England terrifying today. English flags flying from lamp-posts, cars, houses, everywhere. Talk about inter-generational trauma. I felt properly unsafe and unwelcome. They'd not notice me because I look and sound right, but my parents?

06.09.2025 21:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I discovered this today - an academic told me. I was shocked.

21.08.2025 19:54 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It would be lovely to have the picture somewhere - I did a screenshot but it's not very clear.

19.08.2025 11:03 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I can't say I agree. I much prefer Kelso. And as a place to live, give me Selkirk anytime.

18.08.2025 17:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Home | Autistic Therapist D Find actually autistic counsellors and therapists in the UK and worldwide. The Autistic Therapist Directory connects you with autistic professionals who understand your needs.

I forget if I already posted this, but there is now a website / directory of #actuallyautistic counsellors and psychotherapists. www.autistictherapistdirectory.com

13.08.2025 20:36 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Not much, but I could tell you loads about Hawick in the Borders...

06.08.2025 20:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

When will it be shown in the UK?

28.07.2025 21:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It's no good, you know. Once you've read / seen The Frogs, you can't forget ληκύθιον αΌ€Ο€ΟŽΞ»Ξ΅ΟƒΞ΅Ξ½ even if you are trying to be serious.

27.07.2025 13:47 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Apparently my face is not recognisable as a real face. So says the AI that's supposed to verify that I'm an adult. Well, I have been wearing it for nearly seventy years and I am pretty sure I am real.

25.07.2025 20:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"Madness is an affliction which in war carries with it the advantage of surprise". Churchill said that in 1941 and although the US is not, strictly speaking, at war, I think we can all see the truth of that.

15.07.2025 21:37 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

ooh! I might even be able to go for the first time this year!

18.06.2025 18:53 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I am reminded of an old Jewish joke. Like most Jewish jokes, it is amusing but also tragic.
In the trenches. Suddenly Moshe Cohen stands up and yells: "Are you meshugge to shoot like this? There are PEOPLE here!"

14.06.2025 14:47 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

They are spoilt children. I wonder if they know that people find them ridiculous and embarrassing.

06.06.2025 20:22 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Welcome to the community of absolutely not freaks but normal logical intelligent empathic human beings who don't waste time or energy on stupidities because Society Says So.

03.06.2025 15:37 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Godawful doesn't touch it. Even the questions which aren't directly insulting are stupid. A play or a museum? Which play? Which museum? A library or a party? Which library? Which party? And how tired am I? And....!!!!

03.06.2025 15:35 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

(and in case anyone doesn't already know this and calls me an antisemite, I am a Jew)

28.05.2025 12:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Can someone tell me how it is not genocide to shoot at civilians (whom you starved) trying to get food? Can someone tell me how it is not genocide to bomb hospitals and schools? Can someone tell me how it is not genocide to kill children? It is genocide and Israel is replicating the Holocaust.

28.05.2025 12:52 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Agreed. And that is where the problem begins.

21.05.2025 21:19 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Such a relief to see this posted. I have been saying this ever since the decision and been called all sorts. I will be sharing this to all the people who have called me a terf (etc etc) for saying no, please actually READ the decision and you will find it does not say what you are saying it says.

14.05.2025 20:29 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Can you expand a bit? Films? Telly?

10.05.2025 19:05 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm sorry, but not surprised, at the wait. That is why most adults without "obvious" (ha!) co-occurring conditions don't even try to go the NHS route. We collect our pennies, maybe over years, and go private.

24.04.2025 13:58 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Acknowledging that we need support makes us reflective human beings. We need community, to give and to receive support. As Naoki Higashida says, "this is being human".

24.04.2025 13:56 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That's how I feel too. Thank you for expressing it.

21.04.2025 17:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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No second state visit for Trump Unbelievable. Keir Starmer has handed Donald Trump a letter from King Charles, inviting him for a second state visit to the UK. It’s totally unprecedented, and should not go ahead.  This is the...

Here's another which has clearly had more publicity. Just sign both. you.38degrees.org.uk/petitions/no...

02.03.2025 08:11 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Sign the Petition Keep Trump out of Parliament

I know petitions are pointless, but still - sign this one. actionstorm.org/petitions/du...

02.03.2025 08:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Had you thought of the floor? I was not designed chair-shaped and always choose the floor when I can. Alternatively, a cuddle chair? Not sure whether a chair has a neurotype or a sexuality, though.

16.02.2025 21:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Signed, thank you.

14.02.2025 08:57 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Actually...yes. I wish I could hide in my hair like you.

10.02.2025 17:51 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

John Swinney did call it ethnic cleansing.

05.02.2025 22:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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