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Desi (Abby S. Trusity)

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She/Her, 35, ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ, Author of Pride, Pain & Petticoats ๐Ÿ”ž Adult content warning ๐Ÿ”ž All glory to the Beehive!

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I hope you're able to get some help with that Vee. Wish I could help you but trying to coordinate internationally is real tough :x

03.03.2026 22:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Even for people without ADHD, if you work 40 hours a week but you don't have someone handling the rest of what you need to do, if you work during the day and can't make calls you need to because you're working, if you just fell behind? This is just what life is now!

I think it's a scalable idea tbh

03.03.2026 22:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Like, there's a LOT of room for this, and it's not strictly limited to people with ADHD, either. There are plenty of men who will never be able to stick women with the demand of "work 40 hours and t hen come home and be my mommy, cook/clean/etc" that like

they are useless! But they got $$$

03.03.2026 22:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Because realistically, calling never does take that much time for most things. If you want to schedule a cleaning service because your ADHD has made it impossible to cook often enough and now you have lots of take out trash that you can't remember to bring to the trash can or can to curb...

03.03.2026 22:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The reason it works is because on our own we'll almost never remember to do it, we NEED to have someone ask us, and then it's FINE.

And we don't get paralyzed by the sheer depth of the tasks, because it's not call this and this and this and this, it's WE CALL YOU.

03.03.2026 22:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I have considered building a local service for people with ADHD or AuDHD that does JUST THIS. Call you once every two weeks like "Do you need anything today, help scheduling or planning?"

Doctor's visits, cleaning services, just one level of abstraction to combat the "step chaining" problem

03.03.2026 21:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

that's the worst! That's why it always behooves princess dragons to have a grand vizier making these decisions, even if her laugh is like a power-crazed cackle sometimes

03.03.2026 21:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

does it make someone a bad person to fantasize about carving transphobes into graven markers and impaling them on spikes as testament

asking for a friend

03.03.2026 20:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

so insulated from the effect that they do not fear the cause

03.03.2026 10:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I want the profane feminine to corrupt the divine feminine in a way I can feel equally parts seen and scared

28.02.2026 00:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Kansas Sends Letters To Trans People Demanding The Immediate Surrender Of Drivers Licenses "The legislature did not include a grace period."

This thread is now dedicated to organizing aid for trans refugees

If you need help or have help to offer, please @ me

Instructions and updates to follow in below ๐Ÿงต

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26.02.2026 06:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1417    ๐Ÿ” 1413    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 21    ๐Ÿ“Œ 61
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gofund.me/30cedb86 please check this out yall

16.11.2024 23:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 494    ๐Ÿ” 608    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 8    ๐Ÿ“Œ 393
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Malevola from Dispatch

24.02.2026 23:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2695    ๐Ÿ” 595    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 25    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

And Cato, and the Heritage Foundation, business and industry leaders, energy oligarchs, from the largest multinationals to the smallest mom and pop.

Every last one of them should be hunted to the ends of the earth. Never know peace.

25.02.2026 06:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 21    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

"We have no compassion and we ask no compassion from you. When our turn comes, we shall not make excuses for the terror."

With any lucky we will erase them, they will never even be so much as whispered about in the dark alleys where they sling their SuperBrainPowerMax colloidal silver supplements

25.02.2026 06:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 12    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

one thing I like about Arkknights and its sequel Endfield is that it isn't just not afraid of ESL, it's baked into its localization. Many if not all of the VAs are native speakers of the languages their characters' national expies speak, and do in fact ALSO voice their characters in native voice too

25.02.2026 01:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I want a chubby lung plushie, I got pulled into arkknights endfield with promises of factorio with pretty women and this thing is adorable

23.02.2026 11:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Every morning, noon, and night! It's just invisible velllus hairs! BUT I CAN FEEL THEM, which means they potentially are VISIBLE and I MUST REMOVE THEM ALL
If anything most of my dysphoria is in body hair! Legs, arms, and face! Saying "I'm valid" for this won't help! I need permanent removal to COPE

21.02.2026 21:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 92    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

remember that the facial hair dysphoria is so bad that most of us huddle in the dark and draw razors against our faces so much that it hurts because even the little vellus hairs EVERYBODY HAS is too much hair, so we have to GET RID OF IT ALL.

The CONSTANT battle DAILY to not let people see it!

21.02.2026 21:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 128    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Useful note on portraying trans women: Shaving is a widely available method by which facial hair can be removed, which in many cultures is not only something people with facial hair can get away with, but actually broadly accepted. For this reason, it's commonly done even by closeted trans women

21.02.2026 21:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1220    ๐Ÿ” 224    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 16    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2

the abyss stares back.

21.02.2026 07:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Truly I don't know what to think. I try my damnedest not to fedpost, I've been avoiding social media little by little to try not to collapse into rage or depression--it changes daily--and just try to help people as I come across them and this... it's a good idea.

Don't listen to it. I can't go back

21.02.2026 07:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I love the retro-style art, there's so much personality to them. I'm gonna check it out.

19.02.2026 17:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

it's all recession indicators, all the way down -.-

19.02.2026 17:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
the watchers: how openai, the US government, and persona built an identity surveillance machine that files reports on you to the feds 53MB of source code leaked from a government endpoint. 269 verification checks. biometric face databases. SAR filings to FinCEN. and the same company that verifies your ChatGPT account.

so it turns out that the identity verification provder persona, with its well documented links to peter thiel from the epstein files and palintir, is keeping all data of targets and linking them to intelligence databases and watch lists, exactly like you suspected

vmfunc.re/blog/persona

18.02.2026 20:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1697    ๐Ÿ” 1143    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 16    ๐Ÿ“Œ 68

This is fucking awesome!

18.02.2026 20:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm pleased at punch that we're at 20% already but I definitely need to keep pushing this to be ready in early April. If you're able to help, consider tossing a bit my way to ensure I'm able to get the surgery I need and recover safely? ko-fi.com/vyriadurav/g...

17.02.2026 13:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 52    ๐Ÿ” 74    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 4

that does make it troubling to see, because in the US it's practically assumed that cars have the right of way vs. pedestrians EXCEPT when the crossing signal is going. It's one of those things that makes walking anywhere suck.

15.02.2026 21:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Literally just crossing the street without right of way.

If you cross an empty street without waiting for the crossing signal, ita jaywalking.

15.02.2026 20:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Both of them are real problems! One effectively makes it harder to stop pedophiles and the other kills innocent people under that guise!

15.02.2026 20:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0