My post that says: Today I'm officially done... done with listening to the lies and diminishing my experience... our experience... for the sake of appeasing the voices that wish to oppress us...
I've spent the majority of my life being told and shown that I was less than because of the color of my skin, the texture of my hair, the shape of my body, and the thoughts in my head.
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That I don't deserve, that we don't deserve, the same level of achievement and success as our fair toned counterparts... because we're "different" and abnormal...
I don't give one flying phuck about the insecurities of our oppressors anymore... That gaslighting ends here. I care only about the elevation of us... all of us... as equals, living, breathing, creating, and achieving as celebrated humans, like everyone else...
I've spent so much of my time "stuck" feeling like I can only emerge and share my talents if it's significant or total excellence, for fear that anything less would be written off because we're so often written off regardless of our contributions... no more.
Like me, love me, hate me, detest me... you choose... but I choose me over fear, from now on... and I forever choose equality for all of us.
Years ago I wrote this & told myself to never forget
Over time I let fear of making people uncomfortable take over, and I lost the confident part of myself that knew I not only deserve a seat at the table, but l'm building a table for others like me
I won't forget again
We belong
Happy Juneteenth
19.06.2025 19:42 β π 104 π 14 π¬ 2 π 0
A protest sign that reads: βif you donβt use your voice, others will use your silence! Viva La Razaβ
At a protest, with the American flag and California state flag flying, and a sign that says βresistβ
A protest sign that reads: βwhat happened to liberty and justice for all?β
Marching at a protest, a sign that says βstop pretending ur racism is patriotismβ
What happened to justice and liberty for all?
βIf you donβt use your voice, others will use your silenceβ
We will never stop marching for justice, equality and humanity
We built this nation, and we are stronger together than divided
18.06.2025 21:20 β π 91 π 12 π¬ 0 π 1
βWe are a nation of loopholes for the powerful, and cages for the desperateβ
16.06.2025 21:48 β π 44 π 3 π¬ 0 π 0
My community is under attack and politicians are playing billionaire games with human lives
What you see in the media is rooted in lies meant to divide. Iβm in the streets, we are peaceful
Words like βillegalβ are meant to dehumanize so that you feel nothing while they abuse power. Donβt be fooled
16.06.2025 21:43 β π 75 π 18 π¬ 2 π 1
Elon Musk is crashing out on Twitter calling out Trump who is crashing out on truth social
Wake up babe
The real housewives of Mar-a-Lago are fighting
05.06.2025 23:42 β π 110 π 15 π¬ 4 π 2
Over the last 365+ days Iβve learned that you really donβt know much about life until youβve provided care for someone at the end of theirs
Caregiving is a painful, exhausting, humbling process of letting go & letting compassion lead
When they go, part of you goes w them. I hope that part is peace
02.06.2025 17:30 β π 121 π 3 π¬ 3 π 0
At some point the left is going to have to realize:
1. Theyβre not anti-racist by default
2. Infighting causes nothing but division, and strengthens those set to harm all of us
3. We can have varying opinions on random topics, and still have the same goal overall
4. Unity is the only way forward
30.05.2025 21:32 β π 68 π 3 π¬ 1 π 0
Thereβs a rising trend: accusing black people of being conservative, despite our record of being the opposite
Often target black women as a racist/misogynoir tactic to erase us from the conversation. Theyβve lost the plot. Scroll their posts, youβll find more racism
Sisters protect your peace
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30.05.2025 21:27 β π 57 π 5 π¬ 3 π 0
Last month I watched yt people freak out over black folks morning routine, calling it evil, while ignoring society's demand we be perfect to be accepted
This month I watched a yt woman get paid $750K to call a black autistic child the n word
And they made it political
But βracism doesnβt existβ
09.05.2025 20:01 β π 124 π 18 π¬ 5 π 0
Of course! I usually do but missed this one! Canβt find a way to add now, but this is an image of 3 black cats standing next to each other, wearing cute tuxedo collars with black bow ties and red bow ties. They look sweet, and also ready for treats π
24.04.2025 20:27 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0
The Billing Department
Very demure. Very mindful.
24.04.2025 19:24 β π 242 π 12 π¬ 10 π 0
Love a void!! I really wanted to thank you for talking about the hatred and rampant racism and Islamophobia in your latest a*h tr*vino swoop doc. Especially lately, itβs been disgusting. But I felt your passion in how awful this is and thatβs very meaningful.
29.03.2025 19:59 β π 22 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0
He was bringing so much heat those last hours π₯
02.04.2025 03:25 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0
Cory Bookerβs words cut to the core of how important it is to learn from history, not erase it or sugar coat it.
He referenced John Lewis: βget in good trouble, necessary troubleβ
We have to find a path to justice that doesnβt destroy humanity in the process.
02.04.2025 03:07 β π 87 π 7 π¬ 1 π 0
Iβve been talking about the rise of weaponizing political division to serve a whitewashed agenda. Both sides are doing it. They tokenize minorities for gain or fake allyship, and erase & attack us when it no longer serves them or we dare have an opinion
Donβt fall for it. We are better united
02.04.2025 02:51 β π 113 π 13 π¬ 3 π 0
He legit doesnβt even look like a cat what is happening haha
26.03.2025 23:34 β π 70 π 0 π¬ 4 π 0
An awkward cute black cat looks at the camera with his pink tongue sticking out of his mouth
Automo Bill stuns in new photo
26.03.2025 23:31 β π 246 π 6 π¬ 10 π 0
Awwwww baby kisses!
17.03.2025 23:52 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0
Iβd buy cookies from him π€£
17.03.2025 21:13 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0
Awww what sweet little protectors
17.03.2025 21:12 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0
Those faces!!! π₯°
17.03.2025 21:07 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0
The cuteness always wins! π₯°
17.03.2025 21:01 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0
Even the tails are twinning! π₯°
17.03.2025 20:59 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0
Four cute black kitties, wearing multi color stripe shirts, laying on a bed together, looking up at the camera
Maybe we should start and end the week with kitty palate cleansers since everything is chaos these days lol
Hereβs the Billing Department preparing for tax season.
Show me your fur babies doing fur baby things ππ½
17.03.2025 20:54 β π 271 π 15 π¬ 56 π 2
I canβt speak to every resource out there or everything any single resource might have, so please also always talk to your doctor and do additional reading as always. The discussion of the cliff just helped me a lot on my own understanding, but everyone is different and has different needs π
15.03.2025 01:34 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 0 π 1
Iβm so sorry youβve been strugglingβ¦ I really hope the resources will be helpful, theyβve really helped me as I try to navigate all this. One day at a time, and please be gentle with yourself
15.03.2025 01:25 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0
On my latest video I did a segment about ADHD dopamine chasing/cliffs, the comments are incredible! So thankful, esp in seeing black and poc talking mental health when itβs so stigmatized in our communities and so many feel invisible. Most my life I was told to keep it to myself, but never again! π
15.03.2025 01:21 β π 162 π 3 π¬ 8 π 1
People who demean black women online for voicing our opinions are banking on systemic racism that taught us since birth, that if we defend ourselves, weβll be met with racism and violence. This system is designed to keep black women living in fear and silence, cut off from freedoms given to others
26.02.2025 00:16 β π 182 π 16 π¬ 5 π 1
Every inch of us is picked apart & criticized, from what we say about our lens on the world & how we say it, down to our skin and hair. More than ever weβre attacked for daring to have a point of view, as it spits in the face of racists hiding behind performative allyship while attacking black women
25.02.2025 23:42 β π 68 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0
Spiteful targeting of black women who are outspoken has reached an all time high & is the definition of racist misogynoir. Every time I see a non-black person continuously belittle a black women, while excusing it as individualized, is reinforcing racism & perpetuates the cycle of harm to all of us
25.02.2025 23:33 β π 140 π 7 π¬ 4 π 1