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@bairfanx.bsky.social

poet. writer. educator. queer. Display name and tag are both references to old forgotten jokes.

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The worst part of it all is that I’ve felt myself be a worse friend, a worse boyfriend, and a generally less good person because of the ways in which they broke me.

08.11.2025 04:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Today I reported Chicago Public Schools to the city and the state for failing to even try to fix a hostile work environment.

08.11.2025 04:02 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Fresh officers get paid less, too. So even if they’re replaced, good for the budget.

08.11.2025 03:51 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I feel like it’s not too much to ask for people to make it clear when they’re posting something that 6+ months old.

β€œWe talked with Morrison about All Star!” Oh, cool. Wait. I recognize this name and don’t really like the podcast, this can’t be the same thing as 6 months ago, can it?

It was.

08.11.2025 03:50 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

God, it’s funny, too.

02.11.2025 17:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I am 1.5 issues into Absolute Wonder Woman and it’s clearly the best of these reimaginings so far. Beautiful illustrations, killer layouts, a unique style that leaves Diana looking both kind and fierce.

02.11.2025 17:22 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Absolutely πŸ”₯ essay (in the NY Daily News of all places!) by @rabbiandykahn.com, providing a response to the rabbis-against-Mamdani letter. Kol hakavod! (= πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ™πŸ™Œ)

27.10.2025 15:59 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That’s, um… that’s a cognitive test. The kind they give old people after they substantially change their will to make sure they aren’t being taken advantage of

27.10.2025 17:18 β€” πŸ‘ 117    πŸ” 14    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 0

Nothing like paying what will amount to half a day’s pre-tax pay to get a job substitute teaching in the district I worked in less than 12 months ago.

27.10.2025 15:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Was it actually good? I remember being interested in it but then just forgetting it existed. Occasionally a24 will remind me it exists and I wonder if it’s worth a watch

27.10.2025 14:45 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œA tiger, an elephant, a giraffe…”

27.10.2025 12:35 β€” πŸ‘ 2304    πŸ” 613    πŸ’¬ 100    πŸ“Œ 73

It’s not all hate (though I also still find the art underwhelming)

praise for a few things:

Making Kal working class and having the S shield be a symbol of that was smart.

Making Brainiac into a β€œfuck you, got mine” bootstrap story as a parallel to Kal is smart (though it feels unintended)

27.10.2025 14:34 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

And again, I’m mostly saying this because they’re woefully under/mis-used. Alfred is, too, largely a machine for exposition/justification of the plot.

Jimmy and Lois are interesting, as I don’t think you could just excise them the way you might Alfred, but they’re pretty meh as well.

27.10.2025 14:34 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The Kents and Martha Wayne both reinforce the idea that these characters need a reason to be good (they aren’t the ONLY reason), which sort of undermines the idea that this universe is supposed to be hell and there is something intrinsic to these characters that makes them heroes despite it.

27.10.2025 14:34 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Absolute Update: reading Superman as I wait for my third drug/tb test combo for Chicago Public Schools.

They gave us AN issue with the Kents and I stand by what I said: these series would be better served by emotional anchors’ absence.

27.10.2025 14:34 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I just learned that Morrison is the writer on Batman/Deadpool, how did the internet fail to alert me to this?

27.10.2025 11:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Transphobic Politics Prove Unpopular in the UK and Ireland β€” Assigned Leading Off: A landslide victory for Ireland’s leftist presidential candidate, the Greens’ dramatic gains in the U.K., and pushback to Starmer’s repressive policies put the lie to big media myths that...

We all know that the UK as the homeland of extreme transphobic bigotry, but a few rays of light seem to be piercing the stygian darkness of TERF island lately.

The estimable @valorievandieman.bsky.social is Leading Off our week talking UK and Ireland.

27.10.2025 11:28 β€” πŸ‘ 303    πŸ” 76    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 5

β€œAgain and again we were told the only way to beat the Republican Party was to become the Republican Party […] and the choice that we made was to stop listening to those experts and to start listening to you”

Mamdani is so good at this

27.10.2025 00:40 β€” πŸ‘ 1114    πŸ” 254    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

Fun fact: the young actress (Daveigh Chase) who played Samara in THE RING also voiced Lilo in LILO & STITCH. In the same year, even!

27.10.2025 00:21 β€” πŸ‘ 108    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 2

I think the worst part is how committed they are to leaving hints at something bigger which they never directly answer, but then decide in the last five minutes that they need a fucking concrete ending

26.10.2025 23:49 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m generally picky about my horror movies, but Shelby Oaks seemed interesting enough.

Friends, I can’t remember the last time I was more disappointed in a movie I saw in the theaters.

I know there has been one since Alvin and the Chipmunks 2: The Squeakquel, but it’s the first to come to mind

26.10.2025 23:41 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Mamdani: β€œif Cuomo somehow wins, I’ll stay here because I fucking love this city.”

Dude doesn’t need to say it, but it’s wild just how easily Cuomo hurts himself in his confusion

26.10.2025 21:29 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Sadako crawling out of your tv, turning motion smoothing off, then crawling back in

26.10.2025 13:13 β€” πŸ‘ 6520    πŸ” 2363    πŸ’¬ 46    πŸ“Œ 29

ITS THREE YEARS AWAY AND TRUMP HAS SECRET POLICE, FUCK BOTH OF THEM AND YOU

26.10.2025 20:43 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Backed by the Heritage Foundation and Big Tech, KOSA will force everyone to upload their ID to access the internet. In an age when Palantir has direct ties to ICE, where technofascists are in power and want to eliminate and censor everything, we CANNOT allow KOSA to pass.

It NEEDS mass pushback.

25.10.2025 19:50 β€” πŸ‘ 3869    πŸ” 4200    πŸ’¬ 16    πŸ“Œ 19

Harris really needs the results of a primary to learn how much nobody fucking wants her

26.10.2025 11:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This but he’s shouting for me to come watch him eat the food.

26.10.2025 11:10 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I don't know how many times this needs to be posted, but clearly it is MANY TIMES.

Sigh.

02.10.2025 06:35 β€” πŸ‘ 1086    πŸ” 375    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 0

Truly terrifying

26.10.2025 10:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’ll vote twice

25.10.2025 17:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

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