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Forty-something trans exile (he/him) and Die Hard anti-fascist. Menace to society (allegedly). Inconveniently British. Woke but very tired

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My chief frustration in politics at all levels has always been the overwhelming apathy of the privileged

The people who sit back & ignore the fray because they know that any & all outcomes will not affect them

The is the state of the US Congress

Their apathy will be their undoing

And yours

28.02.2026 18:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1222    ๐Ÿ” 279    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 58    ๐Ÿ“Œ 10

Iโ€™ll defer to your higher wisdom here, but thank you for sharing. Thatโ€™s another thing for me to lose sleep about nowโ€ฆ

27.02.2026 19:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm one of those bitches that's got 5-6 alarms both cause I'm anxious I'll sleep through them and also cause I gotta go through a stage of grief at each one before I get up

27.02.2026 18:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I didnโ€™t know thatโ€ฆ now Iโ€™m pondering whether cruelty/sadism is an evolutionary development (bug or feature?) but thatโ€™s still quite a disturbing thought either way

27.02.2026 17:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I get your point, but this is sort of the distinction I was trying to make. Nature can be brutal, absolutely, but animals are still acting on instinct and as a means for survival. Much of the human cruelty we are witnessing seems instead to be rooted in the genuine kink of making people suffer

27.02.2026 17:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Same but especially with abandoned senior cats. Ever since the Cat Distribution Systemโ„ข๏ธŽ intervened a few yrs ago with a scraggly old man cat running up to my car on the verge of death, I have a soft spot for โ€œelderly babiesโ€. He was 20+ and I adored him. He lived another 2yrs in love and comfort

27.02.2026 16:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I sometimes feel like I care more about animals than people. I think it has a lot to do with the seemingly infinite capacity for humans to carry out the most extreme acts of cruelty and depravity, against the most vulnerable (both human and animal). Sadistic cruelty is a uniquely human trait

27.02.2026 16:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Sometimes I think the only thing stopping me from just going โ€œFuck it, weโ€™re witnessing the final act of the human experiment of uncontrolled planetary destruction, and if the machines end up killing us all, weโ€™ll deserve itโ€ is the fact that cats exist.

Without my cats I probably wouldnโ€™t be here.

27.02.2026 16:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Very happy for the Greens in England; fuck Farage's xenophobia, fuck Starmer's genocide complacency, fuck that Tory transphobe who even lost their deposit ๐Ÿฅณ

27.02.2026 07:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 268    ๐Ÿ” 48    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

I lost my soul-cat 2yrs ago today, so my heart breaks for you going through the same pain and loss. My last act of love was cradling him in my arms and comforting him as he passed. The grief softens around the edges, but never truly goes away. May her memory be a blessing for you and your family

27.02.2026 07:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Manosphere bros:

โ€œLoving your wife is gayโ€
โ€œWashing your own asshole is gayโ€
โ€œWashing another manโ€™s asshole, howeverโ€ฆโ€

I canโ€™t wait for the moment of realisation when redpillers finally embrace their man-love for each other. Hating women is the projection of their inability to accept themselves

25.02.2026 18:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A digital airport information board with green and red text on a black background, advising of a flight delay in Chinese, with an accompanying translation in amusingly ambiguous English:

้ฃžๅพ€ ๅŽฆ้—จ็š„่ˆช็ญ MU2970
็”ฑไบŽๆŸไบ›ๅŽŸๅ› ๅปถ่ฏฏ

FLT No. MU2970 To XIAMEN

โ€œDELAYED DUE TO SOME REASONSโ€

A digital airport information board with green and red text on a black background, advising of a flight delay in Chinese, with an accompanying translation in amusingly ambiguous English: ้ฃžๅพ€ ๅŽฆ้—จ็š„่ˆช็ญ MU2970 ็”ฑไบŽๆŸไบ›ๅŽŸๅ› ๅปถ่ฏฏ FLT No. MU2970 To XIAMEN โ€œDELAYED DUE TO SOME REASONSโ€

Reading through this brought me back to this old gem:

25.02.2026 18:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 15    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Theyโ€™re sooooooo close to getting it, Iโ€™m turning blue holding my breath waiting for the penny to finally drop

25.02.2026 17:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I understand that, my point is that while racist assholes have always existed, Trump removed the guardrails of shame that had previously pushed those attitudes to the margins of society.

Thereโ€™s SO much repressed sexuality in RW circles, I wish one of them would just own it so others would follow

25.02.2026 16:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

In the way that Trumpโ€™s brand of โ€œpoliticsโ€ gave RW nutjobs a permission structure for unhinged overt racism and bigotry, we really need to find a permission structure for all these redpill incel manosphere bros to finally JUST BE GAY WITH EACH OTHER ALREADY and leave women/everyone else in peace

25.02.2026 09:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 19    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Pimples are just natureโ€™s bubble wrap

24.02.2026 12:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โ€œYour Partyโ€?

I donโ€™t know her

23.02.2026 21:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

What you idiot commies donโ€™t understand is that if we tax rich people they will JUST LEAVE, depriving our nation of tax cheats, political bribery, and national acts of perversion

23.02.2026 15:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10334    ๐Ÿ” 2032    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 341    ๐Ÿ“Œ 87

I used to use a lesser-known iPhone alarm tone as a means of teaching my cats when dinnertime was (instead of them constantly begging for food at all hours)โ€ฆ it worked surprisingly well!

That is, until they heard the same tone on TV one night, which triggered a 3am riot

23.02.2026 08:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 14    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Sameโ€ฆ same

23.02.2026 06:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ha - love this (and the alt text)

21.02.2026 04:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I hear you, Iโ€™m used to wet weather but my wife/cats are in the Swiss Alps, and Iโ€™ve quickly discovered Iโ€™m NOT the rugged mountain man I wish I was. Shovelling snow for an hour just to be able to leave the houseโ€ฆ

21.02.2026 04:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ah so do your seasons go โ€œWet, Wet, Wet and Winterโ€?

21.02.2026 03:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m in London, 8hrs in the futureโ€ฆ

FYI, tomorrow (today) sucks - I wouldnโ€™t bother. Stay with your cats in yesterday instead.

I was gonna say itโ€™s raining, as it is every damn day, but then youโ€™re from Seattle so you know exactly what Iโ€™m talking about

21.02.2026 03:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m not sure what time it is where you are, but I have all my best thoughts at 3:30am :)

Itโ€™s weird the reactions I get from other men when they see how utterly devoted I am to my cats. Iโ€™ve found it jarring sometimes, but it has opened my eyes to how often men frame things in terms of ownership

21.02.2026 03:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Theyโ€™re independent & strong-willed, and will 100% call you out on your bullshit if you fuck with them. RWers canโ€™t take that. They expect worship for no effort.

My cats are perfect little assholes, and the fact Iโ€™ve had to put in the work to earn their love/trust makes it all the more rewarding

21.02.2026 03:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

Iโ€™ve thought about this both in terms of gender roles and political ideology, only with cats instead of dogs (with similar observations)

Toxic masculinity seems to reject cats for being โ€œfemale-codedโ€, yet I wonder whether itโ€™s more to the fact that their trust and respect actually has to be earned

21.02.2026 03:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

*ba dum tiss*
Iโ€™m here all night

21.02.2026 02:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

Yeah, I figured the โ€œWitch, pleaseโ€ may have been more a request in your case, but it still works!

21.02.2026 02:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Witch, pleaseโ€ฆ

21.02.2026 02:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0