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That would be wonderful!!!

She…truly is.

I try not to outwardly let her get to me … ever. But, with the last few months already being the hardest I’ve ever had, I’m struggling hard.

(so, hence why I’m venting on my anonymous social medias. 😅)

Thank you for the kind words. I hope you are having a good holiday season! ❤️

Just got a text from my husband.

My MIL really said “I’m coming,” then “Never mind,” then “See you TOMORROW!”

Truly cannot make this bullshit up. 😣

(is it too early for a drink … or 5?🍷)

#CueMyAnxiety #SoDone

OFFICIALLY #SoupWeather in The South.

Light snow, below freezing outside, fireplace crackling, and made my best pot of taco soup to date.

Cozy, homemade meals are my love language — and Mr. V eating three heaping bowls full pretty much says it all. ❄️🥣🥰

VERY nice job! 👏

3 for me today…

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Thank you for such a kind reply. ❤️❤️❤️

This would have been only the 2nd visit in six years. (by her choice, not ours)

There’s been a lot of disappointing (to my husband) “I’ll come visit soons.”

So that’s not the issue, thankfully.

I’m such a people-pleasing pushover who hates any sort of conflict. 😭

Welp, now she’s not coming. Classic
her move. 😂🙄

Our relationship is complicated in ways I can’t even explain — and yep, situations like this are a part of it.

(she disappoints Mr. V often, which is the worst of it all.💔)

My anxiety’s definitely grateful, though…

I know, and agree, bc this advice is truly the most solid and rational. 😌

Unfortunately my anxiety-ridden brain gives her FAR more power than she deserves, and I’ve yet to figure out how to stop it from doing so.

Tempting, but I hate being high 😭😭😭

Perhaps a mixed drink or FIVE? 😁

Ha!!! Luckily she’s not an alcoholic, but maybe there’s other sneaky ways to disappear without being missed…

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LOL … I AM a big fan of The Nose Trick. 😂

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Heh…I won’t hold my breath.

EVERYTHING she does is completely last minute.

But, if it’s 3 weeks AGAIN, I can’t promise I will stay well behaved. 😒

😅

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She and I had this fight about once a year.

Pretty sure she withdrew my Southern Card, anyways. 😂

EXACTLY! Chicken nuggies 🤝 instant mashed potatoes.

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Agreed! If I’m making a big holiday dinner, I obviously will be making The Real Deal, but for low key meals…they’re great!

SUGAR GOES IN CORNBREAD!!!!!!!

(how many times have we had this fight…er, I mean, discussion? 😉😋)

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Mother-In-Law arrives Thursday.

Last time she came (less than 2 mos ago) my anxiety put me in the ER 😅

Round 2 is coming…

Please send calm vibes, a reminder to behave 🤐🤐 & maybe a promise of allllll the ice cream if I make it out alive 🫣

#AlreadyAnxious #GiveMeStrength #SendHelp

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Too relatable. 🎄😭

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Kinky Jason Momoa dreams two nights in a row.

Last night’s was filthy perfection...

UNTIL later, when we then strolled into the same family Thanksgiving get-together and realized we were related. 💀

(also…SO RANDOM, as I’ve never really had thoughts either way about the man…until now 🥵😭)

Jeez! 🙄

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