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writer | therapist* | musician | dad | founder & eic @bwdr.bsky.social | curious about everything | πŸ€ forever *posts β‰  professional advice

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Bon Iver - Day One (feat. Dijon & Flock of Dimes) [Official Video]
YouTube video by BonIverVEVO Bon Iver - Day One (feat. Dijon & Flock of Dimes) [Official Video]

so good

08.10.2025 07:36 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Described in skeet

Described in skeet

Described in skeet

Described in skeet

Fan wearing a "Dump Here" jersey with 61 caught Cal's HR πŸ”₯

Immediately changes into an identical 62 jersey

08.10.2025 01:55 β€” πŸ‘ 1916    πŸ” 327    πŸ’¬ 26    πŸ“Œ 116
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HOW
BOUT
THEM
MARINERSSSSSSSSSSS

06.10.2025 02:53 β€” πŸ‘ 1334    πŸ” 83    πŸ’¬ 30    πŸ“Œ 6

I think my favorite thing about seeing a new PTA movie each time is still thinking about it the day after and having new thoughts and feelings about scenes and feeling the need to see it again very soon.

05.10.2025 17:31 β€” πŸ‘ 26    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

and both movies end with a dance lift

05.10.2025 03:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

of course the mariners first ALDS game in 24 years at home should go into extra innings, we’ve been starved

05.10.2025 03:30 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

whoa! good call joel

05.10.2025 02:44 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

i will find the connection

05.10.2025 02:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

lol well played

05.10.2025 02:18 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

if you’re wondering if i’m the first person to watch One Battle After Another and Dirty Dancing in the same day, yes, I probably am. Sometimes it’s not your week to pick for family movie night

05.10.2025 02:15 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0
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LETS DO THIS

04.10.2025 14:46 β€” πŸ‘ 955    πŸ” 84    πŸ’¬ 48    πŸ“Œ 7

that’s impossible because i remember skipping class after lunch in high school to go buy the double cassette of this at fred meyer, and that was only like a year ago and people still listen to cassette tapes

04.10.2025 15:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

great list! Car has been my number one for three decades, and i have a soft spot for Fling as well (those strings!) but other than that, no notes :)

04.10.2025 15:07 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

every day

04.10.2025 07:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Elliott Smith: "Give Me Love" George Harrison cover live in NYC
YouTube video by Little Punk People Elliott Smith: "Give Me Love" George Harrison cover live in NYC

Elliott Smith covering George Harrison's "Give Me Love (Give Me Peace on Earth)" in NYC at the start of a new millenium

04.10.2025 07:36 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
"Maybe I'm Amazed" by @PaulMcCartneyπŸͺ½
YouTube video by Wendlo "Maybe I'm Amazed" by @PaulMcCartneyπŸͺ½

very happy to have randomly come across this online recently. you can’t ever go wrong with this song, ever, but this one goes especially right

02.10.2025 05:54 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Imagine living in a world where you’ve convinced yourself that NPR, PBS, and Wikipedia are your enemies, viciously conspiring to fool you with their dastardly devotion to truth & fact checking.

01.10.2025 18:44 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I took probably too many words here to grapple with Paul Newman’s supposedly favorite role, Reggie Dunlop; what it means to be a good teacher; what it means to try to succeed in America; and how to subvert the systems that want to keep us down. Give it a read?

30.09.2025 19:04 β€” πŸ‘ 64    πŸ” 12    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0

When Elizabeth pitches SLAP SHOT, you approve that pitch, always πŸ’

Also, everyone deserves a teacher as wonderful as her, as her essay more than demonstrates!

30.09.2025 22:20 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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a man in a fur coat leans on a bench ALT: a man in a fur coat leans on a bench
30.09.2025 22:17 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
String Quartet No. 12 in E-Flat Major, Op. 127: II. Adagio ma non troppo e molto cantabile
YouTube video by Busch Quartet - Topic String Quartet No. 12 in E-Flat Major, Op. 127: II. Adagio ma non troppo e molto cantabile

A wonderful essay from Jonathan Biss, on how immersing ourselves deeply in a piece of music provides an antidote to the"avalanche of stimulus" modern life bombards us with:

"In our splintered, combustible world, this immersion is the path of most resistance, and a gift beyond words."

29.09.2025 21:52 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Opinion | Too Many Dings and Beeps? Try Beethoven.

"Instrumental music is not β€œabout” anything. It stirs the emotions despiteβ€”or maybe because ofβ€”its inability to reference our lived experience in any literal way. A great performance of a great piece of music...takes us out of our heads & puts us in touch with our deepest, most inaccessible selves."

29.09.2025 21:40 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1

Didn’t know Kaleb Horton at all but long admired him from afar, and read him always. He had that rare combination of things you can’t teach a writerβ€”talent, sure, but also deep curiosity, sensitivity, humor, a sharp eye & a voice that felt like he was sitting there talking to you. So sad he’s gone.

27.09.2025 18:29 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Well it’s not quite empty yet, we’ve still got my son here for another two years! So it’s a trio now instead of a quartet but the tradition continues :)

27.09.2025 17:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

We’ve been doing this the past six years now and let me tell you, it’s one of the best decisions we ever made (ours is saturday nights though) and also one of the things i miss the most now that my daughter is off to college πŸ₯Ή

27.09.2025 16:00 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
I also have advice. Everybody loves reading advice on the computer, so I'll share it: the best thing you can do right now is log off as hard as you can. Go outside, talk to people in real life where it's actually kind of rude to talk about the news, try to actually see the friends you usually just text message. Go for a long drive and turn the phone off while you do it. Get back into your hobbies or pick one and learn it for a while. Watch one of those studio movies that reviews called "wildly miscalculated" and you haven't seen since high school. Play an album you like but find embarrassing. Go to free community events even if they sound stupid. If you take the freeway, try the surface streets. Go to a bad diner and just order some bad coffee because even bad coffee is good coffee.
You can't help anybody when you're exhausted and keep posting one million college-educated rewordings of "I would love to be dead right now" on the computer. Walk away from the thing and try out some of those normal things you hear about and if you get bored that's wonderful because we're not supposed to get bored anymore. It turns out boredom is the Cadillac of feelings.

I also have advice. Everybody loves reading advice on the computer, so I'll share it: the best thing you can do right now is log off as hard as you can. Go outside, talk to people in real life where it's actually kind of rude to talk about the news, try to actually see the friends you usually just text message. Go for a long drive and turn the phone off while you do it. Get back into your hobbies or pick one and learn it for a while. Watch one of those studio movies that reviews called "wildly miscalculated" and you haven't seen since high school. Play an album you like but find embarrassing. Go to free community events even if they sound stupid. If you take the freeway, try the surface streets. Go to a bad diner and just order some bad coffee because even bad coffee is good coffee. You can't help anybody when you're exhausted and keep posting one million college-educated rewordings of "I would love to be dead right now" on the computer. Walk away from the thing and try out some of those normal things you hear about and if you get bored that's wonderful because we're not supposed to get bored anymore. It turns out boredom is the Cadillac of feelings.

RIP Kaleb Horton
kalebhorton.ghost.io/2025-so-far/

27.09.2025 13:01 β€” πŸ‘ 4878    πŸ” 1805    πŸ’¬ 39    πŸ“Œ 110

Kimmel is back in Seattle.

He should never have been pulled from the air in the first place, but glad to see Sinclair reverse course. Thank you to all who spoke out for free speech.

26.09.2025 23:37 β€” πŸ‘ 2467    πŸ” 337    πŸ’¬ 66    πŸ“Œ 11

It absolutely sucks that i have to explain to my kids (18 & 16) that none of this is normal and realizing that, for them, it basically is. This is the America they know.

27.09.2025 03:53 β€” πŸ‘ 19    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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β€œThe Love You Send is Endless”: The History of the Seattle Mariners (2020) The History of the Seattle Mariners is the first cultural object I’ve encountered that painstakingly constructs a specific, relatable history only to use that construct to then gesture towards the fut...

"THE HISTORY OF THE SEATTLE MARINERS gestures to a world wherein the rules & rulings fundamentally don’t matter; to be alive amid them is enough & to make friction amid them divine. All the arbitrary rulings of a given reality fall to stupid joys, idiot glee rubbing up against deeply felt melancholy

25.09.2025 05:51 β€” πŸ‘ 20    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 4

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