Being pan just got so much more tasty
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@fatale-distraction.bsky.social
Queer, disabled gamer, crafter, reader, and writer. She/her/they/them. Thereβs no LGB without the T. π³οΈββ§οΈ Ao3 and Tumblr under the same username. π ANTI-AI. Old enough that I donβt get carded anymore.
Being pan just got so much more tasty
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iβm punching anyone straight in the fucken nose if you continue to tell us that weβre being dramatic
26.02.2026 06:53 β π 108 π 20 π¬ 1 π 0Itβs not just NYC that benefits, either. NYPL is based in NYC, but the entire state benefits from its services. Itβs really heartbreaking to hear that @mayor.nyc.gov didnβt keep this promise. I know things are more complicated than they seem, but half a percent seemed like a pretty easy one to keep.
10.03.2026 02:44 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0A campaign poster with large text reading "Mayor Mamdani" and a message urging to fund NYC public libraries at 0.5% of the city budget. Two photos of a man in a suit (Zohran Mamdani are shown, with a website link for more information.
You can let the Mayor know what you think about him breaking his promise. www.nyc.gov/mayors-offic...
10.03.2026 01:40 β π 476 π 187 π¬ 3 π 0Do any of you feel shame anymore, or are you so immune to embarrassment that youβve just gone completely numb to it now?
10.03.2026 01:40 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0If not already mentioned, avoid plastic food and water bowls. They attract more bacteria than ceramic. My cats got such bad feline acne from their plastic bowls, and it cleared up in less than a month without any other intervention when we switched to ceramic and metal bowls.
09.03.2026 21:35 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Itβs not just complete! Itβs very complete! The completest! The most completerest any president has ever comploted! Than you for your attention to this matter!
09.03.2026 21:24 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Bitch didnβt even get a name in the Bible.
09.03.2026 19:08 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0No matter how deserved just hurt her heart? No matter how anyone explained it to me, my response was the same: βthatβs bullshit.β I felt like she had been punished for having empathy and nothing anyone said convinced me otherwise, and to this day I will not be convinced. Justice for Lotβs wife.
09.03.2026 19:08 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0My undiagnosed ADHD sense of justice reared its head in a rage. It was her home! No matter how awful it was, no matter how horrible the people, certainly there was at least ONE person who had a kind word for her that she felt guilty for leaving? Or maybe the idea of anyone suffering so much,
09.03.2026 19:08 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0The one that always sticks out in my mind is the fate of Lotβs wife. Bitch got turned into a pillar of salt because she turned to look back toward the fiery remains of her home? I donβt care what the point of the story was or what lesson was supposed to be learned there,
09.03.2026 19:08 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0*or the countryβs equivalent because so many places are so fucking VIOLENT toward perceived βoutsidersβ
09.03.2026 18:52 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Otherwise honestly please shut the absolute fuck up and MYOB.
09.03.2026 18:51 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Online shopping, healthcare, education, hobbies, food delivery, socialization, etc are the best or only option some of us have, most or all of the time. If the goal is to get more people offline and out of the house, donβt bitch at us, take an active part in making it SAFE and ACCESSIBLE for us.
09.03.2026 18:50 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0
Sidewalk, or someone with an unnecessarily massive lifted truck has the entire sidewalk and ramp blocked.
Getting βoutsideβ is the best way to get offline. But βoutsideβ is actively hostile and dangerous to so many of us, and so online is our best or only option for so many ADLs.
And gets the same treatment because she has short hair and a strong jaw. A blended family tries to go out to dinner and someone calls ICE because dad has an accent. A person tries to get some fresh air by taking a spin around the corner in their wheelchair. Some fucking little robot is blocking theβ
09.03.2026 18:50 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 2 π 0A visibly queer couple goes grocery shopping. They arenβt even holding hands and people start to harass them or otherwise make it clear theyβre not welcome. A trans woman tries to use a public restroom at the library and some nosy fuck calls the cops. A cis woman tries to use the restroom elsewhere-
09.03.2026 18:50 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0A group of teenagers gathers in a public space. They get the police called on them, even if there isnβt a βno loiteringβ policy (which itself can go to hell), because some nosy fuck feels like they MIGHT be up to no good. If one or more of those kids happens to be dark-skinned or GNC, god help them
09.03.2026 18:50 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Every time these conversations come up, I think of how violent our society has become toward disabled people, queer people, people of color, and young people (especially if they fall into any of the above categories). So many third places are not safe, accessible, or existent anymore.
09.03.2026 18:50 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0
Jackson Alone - Jose Ando
Persona - Aoife Josie Clements
The books not already mentioned btw:
An Education in Malice - S. T. Gibson
Hungerstone - Kat Dunn
House of Hunger - Alexis Henderson
The Fox and the Devil - Kiersten White
Lucy Undying - also Kiersten White
The Red Winter - Cameron Sullivan
The Wolf and His King - Finn Longman
Is Every Thing Just Gay Folklore and Weird Novellas - an Essay by Me
09.03.2026 17:14 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0No one else is as excited about this as I am. I donβt care. This is blowing my gay little mind.
09.03.2026 17:13 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I JUST REALIZED one of the werewolf books is The Wolf and His King which is by the same publisher as When the Tides Held the Moon which is about a gay Boricua and a merman which I read last year aND WHICH LINKS BACK TO QAF AGAIN WTFFFFF
09.03.2026 17:13 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0How long can I stretch this weird span of interconnected themes?
09.03.2026 17:13 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I also read two novelettes involving queer people who find porn online that seems to depict them even thought they never did porn, one of which is in translation right after listening to Every Day I Read by Hwang Bo-Reum, which itself is in translation and talks ABOUT books in translation.
09.03.2026 17:13 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0My reading list has been so weirdly connected lately. In the last three months Iβve read three Carmilla adaptations/reimaginings (& ordered two more in spite of never having read the source material), and two different queer werewolf books, listened to Queer as Folklore by @sachacoward.bsky.social
09.03.2026 17:13 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 2 π 0If you use USPS to ship anything with tracking, be sure to check and make sure the tracking has actually been scanned. If you donβt see any activity on it within a reasonable period, call to complain. Got info from work today that USPS scans only a percentage of tracking, even though we pay for it.
09.03.2026 14:57 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0
Why is she blue
like are you kidding me, please tell me that image isnβt real
I was in 6th grade when the towers fell, so my understanding at the time was better only by a slim margin.
But I do remember how bad it got and how quickly, and I am so fearful for how much worse things are going to get now. Not loving the flashbacks.