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@flopopp.bsky.social

Psychologist. Writer. Systemic coach. Meditator. Mindfulness and Tai-Chi practitioner. Dhamma-follower. ADHD. Depression. Sunyata. Healing. Still flowing. Loving kindness. Compassion. #Psychodhamma. Nothing of this is "real" & your mind's on autopilot.

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I had to make some compromises, but I think it still works. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’›

25.07.2025 11:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Deepl translation:

The compromise 

You ask me to make you smaller
- much smaller than you are -
because your beauty, your glory 
is too unpleasant for you.

But this is, pardon me, the way
I see this world -
not only see: feel, praise!
all the beauty it holds.

And among the most beautiful things here are you -
just as you live and love and are -
and if I once again praise effusively
what is,

Then rest assured that I will only
say what is obvious,
and even if it seems too sweet to you,
love itself is simply right.

However, driven to compromise 
I can also simply love more quietly.

Deepl translation: The compromise You ask me to make you smaller - much smaller than you are - because your beauty, your glory is too unpleasant for you. But this is, pardon me, the way I see this world - not only see: feel, praise! all the beauty it holds. And among the most beautiful things here are you - just as you live and love and are - and if I once again praise effusively what is, Then rest assured that I will only say what is obvious, and even if it seems too sweet to you, love itself is simply right. However, driven to compromise I can also simply love more quietly.

Sometimes, you have to compromise. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜‡

22.07.2025 07:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
Teddy Bear at a bus stop.

Teddy Bear at a bus stop.

I walked by this bus stop scene recently. Should I have taken the bear home, or let him catch his bus as I did? ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿงธ

30.05.2025 15:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Whenever I have to expend an uncomfortable amount of energy in order to regulate or co-regulate, it's an indication that my own regulation ability, my own allowโ€”relaxโ€”release, could possibly still use some improvement. ๐Ÿ™

24.05.2025 15:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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It's been some time since I did my favourite practice โ€ฆ A good opportunity to return, I guess. ๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿ™

#Psychodhamma

24.05.2025 15:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Hell yeah! ๐Ÿ˜Ž

20.05.2025 19:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

"Fender Rhodes chillig sound.* ๐Ÿ˜‚๐ŸŽถ

20.05.2025 19:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thank you for luring me back to the BlueSky, old friend. ๐Ÿ™ Love you! ๐Ÿ˜˜

20.05.2025 19:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Tuesday is Taiji-quan day. โ˜ฏ๏ธ๐Ÿ™

20.05.2025 18:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

A day well spent! ๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ™

20.05.2025 18:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Sunshine, Campari and a Fiat convertible for you, I insist! โ˜€๏ธโ›ฑ๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Ž

This beautiful donna should have it all! ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ™

20.05.2025 18:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

That's so nice to hear! Godspeed, buddhi! ๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿ™

20.05.2025 18:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

100 followers. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ My sincere thanks. ๐Ÿ™ I'll try to spend some more time here. ๐Ÿ˜˜

11.03.2025 20:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Der "GrรถFaZ": der grรถรŸte Friedrich aller Zeiten. ๐Ÿคข

#FriedrichMerz #CDU #BTW2025 #NieWieder

02.02.2025 20:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You are very welcome. I'm glad it is helpful. It's not really "mine", either, but for all of us, at all times. ๐Ÿ™

20.01.2025 10:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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You can bear more than you know or believe. ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ™

20.01.2025 10:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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It's all right here and now, at all times. ๐Ÿง˜ ๐Ÿ™

20.01.2025 10:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thanks, Juliana. ๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿซ‚ May you be well!

19.01.2025 10:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ego is always a child, and more often than not a child that was wronged in some way, neglected in some way, hurt in some way.

That child โ€” it doesn't "need" to be fought, diminished or even "destroyed".
It needs to be loved. Unconditionally.
Sometimes for the first time. ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’›

19.01.2025 09:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Let's go! ๐Ÿ˜…๐ŸŽŠ๐ŸŽ†

31.12.2024 15:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐Ÿ‘‰Exclusive:๐Ÿ‘ˆ
Photographs reveal first glimpse of uncontacted Amazon community! ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

22.12.2024 22:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
a man wearing glasses and a green jacket smiles Alt: a man wearing glasses and a green jacket smiles Jeff Goldblum saves us.

He always does. ๐Ÿ˜…

27.11.2024 17:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The so-called "jhanฤs" are in essence "just" different levels or modes of skillful nervous system self-regulation. ๐Ÿง˜๐Ÿ™

#Psychodhamma

27.11.2024 16:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

That's what we all desperately search for: someone who really cares, genuinely and unconditionally, and who stays present and attuned and loving, no matter what. โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ”ฅ

#Psychodhamma

21.11.2024 09:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And yet, there is no "essence" or "Self" of any kind: it's all just dependently arising, all the time; depending on our (childhood) imprints and conditioning. Kamma.

#Psychodhamma

16.11.2024 09:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Everyone shows us exactly who they are at all times (in their acts, projections and transference) โ€ฆ

#Psychodhamma

16.11.2024 09:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It is all right here, right now, in every moment: the cognitive, the emotional and the somatic; and right in this very moment, it can always be worked with, as long as we are and remain present. ๐Ÿง˜

#Psychodhamma

15.11.2024 12:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

May we all release and let go of the shame instilled in us.
May all beings learn to love themselves unconditionally and abundantly, as is their birthright.
๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ™

#Psychodhamma

15.11.2024 12:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The physical correlates of mind/consciousness are only ever useful for interventions on the physical level, from the outside. To change and correct the experience of mind/consciousness from the inside, you have to examine subjective, immediate experience itself.

#Psychodhamma

15.11.2024 12:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Third-person science: looking from the outside at "some thing". ๐Ÿ”ฌ
First-person science: looking at and examining the own direct experience. ๐Ÿง˜
Second-person science: looking at and feeling into each other, in resonance. ๐Ÿค

#Psychodhamma

15.11.2024 12:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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