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Growth feels slow and painful but seeing how far you can get by taking tiny little steps is a great thing

“Keeping him from his kids”
It makes me sad knowing they know he won’t answer their calls so they don’t even get upset or ask to call anymore

Like why do I feel like I have to constantly be bailing people out and fixing their mistakes?? in a second I make them be responsible for their own decisions I’m a horrible person. That makes no logical sense lol

I don’t understand how I genuinely feel like a bad person for making people be responsible for themselves

I wanna buy a house. I want a trampoline and a pool outside to enjoy w my kiddos and I want a cute little home gym

How is being an alcoholic fine but cussing is not

I’m so ready to buy a house and for everything in my house to be mine and exactly the way I want it

I can’t believe how much my kids have changed since Christmas….

The chick is like hold my grain… 🐥 🥰

The grass really is greener on the other side for me. My home is peaceful other than the stress of being a career driven woman yet extremely present mother. I am randomly thankful I don’t have to spend the next 80 years living a life that 6 years almost ruined me

One step at a time what’s meant to be will be

A kind of tired that nothing can fix I think my body is finally crashing after everything I’ve been through the last 8 years

Maybe I’ll actually get into the flow of things and juggle things easier after all

But anyways, I don’t know what this app is for, so I’m gonna use it to Bitch about everybody and everything lol

You would think if somebody is constantly lying their entire life they would get better at it

I also don’t understand how he can be water locked in a town where it hasn’t had rain in weeks… how can my coworker make it back to my house before you can to see your own kids lol y’all was coming from the same place 😭

I don’t understand how my ex doesn’t have gas money to come see his kids, but he has money to adopt a dog and take care of two dogs lol

I seriously don’t know what this app is for lol

The reason none of the coping mechanisms are working is because the coping mechanisms are for when your nervous system is responding *as though* there is a lion in the room, but there isn't.

The lion is in the room. Your reaction is reasonable.

The book of the unnamed midwife cover

THE BOOK OF THE UNNAMED MIDWIFE by @megelison.bsky.social.

What a wonderful novel. Follows a midwife wandering a post-plague America secretly supplying birth control to outnumbered, enslaved women. Humane & complicated & messy & dire & inspiring. And, wow, TIMELY.

Therapy won’t help someone who refuses to change, avoids accountability, and denies their own truth.

why 100% complete one task when you can 64% complete many tasks

I lowkey want new glasses

Merry Christmas from Ms. Claus

I want a list of banned books and explanations bc why are you hiding words from us

I’m convinced I will never trust another person romantically again and it wouldn’t even be their fault necessarily

“Just leave” doesn’t work because things don’t get easier when you leave they get harder and scarier and more dangerous and unpredictable and after struggling so long all ppl want is the opposite of those things regardless of what it is costing us.

When you’re in abusive relationships the peace you crave so much comes when they’re acting good to you, so you crave doing whatever pleases them so everything is good and there is peace. Leaving doesn’t feel that way. It feels dangerous and scary. That’s why people stay.

So much peace in solitude