LittleKiddoIan

There’s something so special about moments like these; the kind that make you smile, unwind, and feel totally little again. 💛

Came home from daycare today to the best surprise ever, my PretendAgain order finally arrived! 🍼✨

I’ve been so excited to try their new diaper, and opening that box after a long day just filled me with pure happiness.

Happy Birthday

Happy Birthday

You're welcome

Happy Birthday

Happy Birthday 🎂🎉

Thank you

We are simply trying our very best to live and work in a world that never considered us or was built for people like me in mind.

One thing I wish people understood more deeply about being an ABDL who is also neurodivergent, and a trauma survivor, is that we are not trying to make people's lives difficult.

24. Is there anything you still wish people understood more deeply about being an ABDL who is also neurodivergent and a trauma survivor?

I would just take a bath and change into fresh little clothing for the night and cuddle with my favorite stuffed animal, and put on my sleeping playlist on YouTube on my TV with a sleep timer.

I would spend the rest of the day having dinner, preparing for the next day (if I have to return to the office the next day), if I have the weekend after my little day, then

Around noon, that is where I get some lunch prepared, eat it, and then take a short nap with some white noise in the background and set a timer for it. After my nap, I would change my diaper and put a fresh one on (if it has been used).

It would include me taking a long bath with my favorite scented bubble soap and some bath toys. After my bath, I would get dressed up in my favorite onesie and pacifier. After getting dressed, I would fix myself a nice breakfast and turn on some cartoons I used to watch when I was little.

23. What would it include if you could build a day just for your little self, no restrictions, full magic?

If I could build a day for just my little self with no restrictions, full magic.

He not only validated my flaws, but he also encouraged me to be more myself and not let my nerves dictate how I should live my life.

22. What was the first moment you truly felt "seen" as an ABDL?

The first moment I truly felt seen as an ABDL was when I met another ABDL who had a much larger social media presence than me.

Then, I put on one of my favorite shows I used to watch when I was little and just relax.

21. What does comfort look like for you on a tough day?

For me, it looks like this: I turn on my candle warmer to heat my lavender scented candle, then I get my favorite onesie, a fresh diaper, baby powder, lavender scented baby lotion, and lastly my lavender colored pacifier.

20. In one sentence, how would you describe what being ABDL means to you?

Being ABDL means reclaiming a childhood that was never truly forgotten, only tucked away; now rediscovered, honored, and held in a space where healing and joy can coexist.

19. What advice would you give to someone just starting to explore ABDL?

Be curious, be kind to yourself, and find community. You’ll be surprised how quickly people can connect with you once you show up as your authentic self. Embrace the weird, the whimsical, and the wonderful.

especially elders who’ve navigated the journey longer, and continue strengthening my confidence and advocacy within this space.

18. Are there any goals you have related to your journey, such as feeling more confident, trying new things, or helping others?

Yes. I want to attend more ABDL events, build meaningful connections with others in the community

It would be cozy, minimal, and nurturing; filled with sensory-friendly items, soft lighting, a changing area, and space to nap or watch nostalgic shows.

17. What are your dreams for a future space or routine that includes your ABDL side?

I dream of having a dedicated nursery in our future home; a quiet, private space designed for regression, reflection, and rest.

16. What brings you the most comfort and peace in your ABDL life?

Being able to fully embrace and express my quirky, creative, and childlike nature without shame brings me immense peace. Littlespace permits me to just “be,” no expectations, no performance, just presence.

“Where are these thoughts coming from? What fear or memory are they tied to?” Doing that helps me differentiate between my truth and the noise of societal judgment.

15. Are there times when you feel conflicted or anxious about being ABDL? How do you navigate those feelings?

Yes, especially during moments of doubt or when internalized stigma creeps in. When that happens, I take a step back and ask myself reflective questions:

Regular underwear can feel restrictive and irritating after long periods, and wearing diapers provides a sensory consistency that’s soothing and predictable, particularly helpful when trying to sleep or decompress.