thot catalog

I think I can say I feel like an “established adult” but I also feel like I’m kinda figuring a lot of things out along the way… like how does one dispute their property taxes with the city?? There’s no roadmap for your first brush with the bureaucracy

When Do We Become Adults, Really? Scientists define the stages of life in biological, societal, and chronological terms—but none of them quite capture what it’s like to grow up.

Speaking of growing up

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When you’re young and in your first D/s relationship, you have few reference points for what’s healthy and how to communicate. While I made a lot of mistakes, I learned so much. It’s hard not to feel regret for some of the pain that those mistakes caused… it’s made me much more attuned to others

This is so funny

Pillion took me back to my days as a young pup in my twenties navigating the LA and SF leather scenes. I learned a lot about myself then and this movie brought up many emotions surrounding those experiences. Though it showcased fairly unhealthy dynamics, I found it resonant overall. I loved it

I don’t care to know!

all paths lead to posting pole

Awooga

These problems are deep and generational

Me in the mirror, naked with just a little bush poking out

vote for bush

How can Microsoft software be SO bad. Managing access / permissions is a fucking nightmare

big guy?

Thanks, pup!

hair update

🥵

Looks so nice!

Loving the new Jill Scott

Usually two slices: pepperoni and bbq chicken!

I am always craving pizza

I do yearn for the old days of the internet when it was fun. When twitter was unhinged but in an innocent and silly way. Where Facebook stalking just meant checking if your crush’s profile said “Interested In: Men” or even was just blank. Where everyone had custom css snippets on their MySpace.

I too have mine! Miss ya pup

gm loves

Do you have the credit card?

I think Christmas needs to be moved to March or even April. We have all these festive winter songs for only one month and then after Christmas, we’re just supposed to be… cold? I think winter could be more bearable if it was also festive. Ending it with Christmas, giving gifts like girl we did that!

Yowza

mamdani goon face… that IS my mayor

Shirtless mirror selfie

Chat, how do we feel about the longer hair?

Uhhhh

How’s the water here?

The soul-stealing nature of Leg Day