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tandi

@taandi.bsky.social

screaming into the void • just be kind • 27 • INFJ • mentally ill and narcoleptic • artist, poet, lover, & friend

169 Followers  |  201 Following  |  226 Posts  |  Joined: 18.11.2024  |  2.1647

Latest posts by taandi.bsky.social on Bluesky

I am tired of this shit. the randomly placed hatred in this country is exhausting. I genuinely don't understand.

27.01.2026 22:35 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

oh no i’m so sorry love 😞😞 but im glad it’s helping with something at least.

18.01.2026 16:40 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

it’s almost like we told them it would be a failure… as it was the last time he was in office… ugh 😞

18.01.2026 16:36 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

my fiance was like this when we first met. tell him it makes u feel shamed and guilty. if he doesn’t understand then, my love, u make him an ex boyfriend asap. u don’t deserve to feel that shame and guilt for the rest of your life if he can’t get over it.

18.01.2026 16:34 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

how did that go? drinking is my hardest habit to quit. i love it. it’s awful really.

18.01.2026 16:30 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

thank God lol can’t handle the bad news on repeat 7 days a week lol thanks for your work!

18.01.2026 16:29 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

i love coffee man. i feel high lol the jitters are the best.

17.01.2026 20:41 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

no same lol ugh i hate pcos.

16.01.2026 22:34 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

im not even hispanic but i love hispanic food so much. all my safe foods are hispanic foods 💕 i have a hard time saying no to it tbh

16.01.2026 22:26 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Alright, I’m saying this as a Canadian who is absolutely sick to death of watching the world hold its breath every time this blabbering blubbering blithering blustering baffoon opens his grotesque mouth.

You see folks, as far as I can tell, from the outside, this is what it looks like:
🧵

16.01.2026 16:12 — 👍 102    🔁 52    💬 8    📌 74
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looks like this ⭐️⭐️

16.01.2026 19:45 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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this is the one i like most! i often subscribe to apps on the app store and this one was a great price for all the features.

16.01.2026 19:44 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

omg this looks like pure joy 🥹

16.01.2026 19:43 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

started talking to my chinese friends from rednote more often and honestly it’s a huge source of joy in my day. they are truly so kind and caring.

16.01.2026 19:37 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

the fact that democracy is ending AND i still have to go to work is so trifling. like i wanna help but i need to feed myself and house myself. idk what to do atp.

16.01.2026 19:34 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

🪐life update. / 🚑 new diagnoses ugh endometriosis stage 4, hypermobility spectrum disorder, and gastroparesis. im in physical therapy so im told it gets better. / 💍 i also got engaged to my lover of almost 8 years! im obsessed with my ring and ooooo i just love weddings!

how are yall?

14.01.2026 22:19 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Others have it worse, so if they find nothing... has my anxiety officially driven me insane?

17.11.2025 20:14 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

All my life I have had so many good days where nothing hurts. So when my doctor says its probably this awful disease, I worry that all of the bad days of being painfully bloated, or changing my pad every hour, or struggling to use the bathroom without passing out is just me being dramatic.

17.11.2025 20:14 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Today I scheduled my exploratory laparoscopy for endometriosis.

17.11.2025 20:14 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

got diagnosed with pcos. fml man.

06.11.2025 22:06 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

got my pelvic ultrasound notes back..

"Bilateral ovaries with multiple small peripheral follicles, findings commonly seen in PCOS."

"Simple appearing cystic structure in the cul-de-sac, similar to prior MRI."

great, so now i have to worry about #PCOS.

03.11.2025 21:19 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I have suspected IBS and endometriosis, and just got diagnosed with interstitial cystitis and pelvic floor dysfunction. Anyone else dealing with this? How have you managed? What helps you? Genuinely so tired of being in pain.

#interstitialcystitis #ibs #endometriosis #chronicillness

02.11.2025 19:52 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I want so badly to keep up with social media and make friends but my mood dictates just about everything I do and often I’m drained and checked out. ugh.

02.11.2025 17:21 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

can't bring myself to eat at work. can barely eat dinner. I visited my mom last month and she was worried bc I barely ate. skipping meals for weeks, and now I don't feel hungry anymore. idek why I skipped them. busy at work, woke up late... now the empty feeling is back and it feels so nice. fuck.

03.10.2025 21:22 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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my honest thoughts on #charliekirk as a neurodivergent, disabled, queer, afab, black person. shoutout #dbt therapy.

11.09.2025 00:01 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I've been drinking more water and what do ya know, it really does help. 😪😅🫠

28.08.2025 16:44 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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new tats 😊🌈

28.08.2025 16:43 — 👍 8    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

nope! i got the 16 plus because 16 is my favorite number. and due to that, i’m gonna ride this phone out until it dies lol.

17.08.2025 18:41 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

yesssss cheese balls are so underrated. i love them so much!

17.08.2025 18:40 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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