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Becky Robison

@rebb003.bsky.social

Writer, dog mom, karaoke assassin. Ask me about my dead parents: @deadparentswhatnow.com. Body in Kentucky, brain everywhere. she/her https://linktr.ee/rebb003

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Screenshot of four different jobs from the NY Mag feature about what people make in NYC:
"Home Health Aide
$23,000
I've been a home health aide for ten years. My main patient last year was in Brooklyn. I spent most of my time taking care of her. I worked two days a week, and I was being paid for 13 hours of work each day - my agency, Loyal Home Care, budgets eight hours of sleep and three hours for mealtimes into our wages. But I was basically working 24 hours a day. She was active, and I was worried she would fall, so I would watch her all day and night. This is a pretty common experience for health aides. The agency can deny our overtime, but you can't deny a patient. When they say, "Oh, I need a drink of water; I need to use the bathroom," how could you possibly say "no" to them?
Bronx Day-Care Worker
$31,000
$16,600 from day-care profits
$14,400 from trainings and consulting
Last year, I lost a lot of kids. I live in the Bronx, and a bunch of families in my neighborhood lost their child-care vouchers. We're talking about people who make as much as I do; most of the moms I work with are home health aides. They can't afford full-time child care. If I have 16 kids, I can pay myself for 40 hours of work. But last year, I didn't, and obviously I'm still doing the same amount of work. I've been running the day care out of my home for more than seven years. It's a profession I entered out of necessity and have stayed in out of passion. I pay for everything - food, cleaning supplies, toys - and we have to meet the same requirements as a large company in terms of paying for liability insurance, which can feel pointless in this industry. I mean, if something happens to one of my children, I lose my license. End of story."

Screenshot of four different jobs from the NY Mag feature about what people make in NYC: "Home Health Aide $23,000 I've been a home health aide for ten years. My main patient last year was in Brooklyn. I spent most of my time taking care of her. I worked two days a week, and I was being paid for 13 hours of work each day - my agency, Loyal Home Care, budgets eight hours of sleep and three hours for mealtimes into our wages. But I was basically working 24 hours a day. She was active, and I was worried she would fall, so I would watch her all day and night. This is a pretty common experience for health aides. The agency can deny our overtime, but you can't deny a patient. When they say, "Oh, I need a drink of water; I need to use the bathroom," how could you possibly say "no" to them? Bronx Day-Care Worker $31,000 $16,600 from day-care profits $14,400 from trainings and consulting Last year, I lost a lot of kids. I live in the Bronx, and a bunch of families in my neighborhood lost their child-care vouchers. We're talking about people who make as much as I do; most of the moms I work with are home health aides. They can't afford full-time child care. If I have 16 kids, I can pay myself for 40 hours of work. But last year, I didn't, and obviously I'm still doing the same amount of work. I've been running the day care out of my home for more than seven years. It's a profession I entered out of necessity and have stayed in out of passion. I pay for everything - food, cleaning supplies, toys - and we have to meet the same requirements as a large company in terms of paying for liability insurance, which can feel pointless in this industry. I mean, if something happens to one of my children, I lose my license. End of story."

It's all so clear

09.03.2026 16:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1016    πŸ” 269    πŸ’¬ 27    πŸ“Œ 61
At the top of a fuzzy black and gray background is the logo for My Parents Are Dead: What Now? featuring a cartoon skull with heart eyes atop a lime green heptagon. Below, lime green and black text reads: You do not inherit your dead parents' debts!!! Creditors can come for your parents' estate, but they can't come for your personal money.* 
*unless you cosigned on a loan or something, in which case...brutal

At the top of a fuzzy black and gray background is the logo for My Parents Are Dead: What Now? featuring a cartoon skull with heart eyes atop a lime green heptagon. Below, lime green and black text reads: You do not inherit your dead parents' debts!!! Creditors can come for your parents' estate, but they can't come for your personal money.* *unless you cosigned on a loan or something, in which case...brutal

Just a friendly reminder: When your parents die, you don't inherit their debts. If the money left in their estate isn't enough to cover their debts, too bad. It's not your problem.

#deathpositive #estateplanning #estatelaw #debt

06.03.2026 16:55 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Dinner plan 1: foiled by freight train. Dinner plan 2: restaurant was closed.
Dinner plan 3: pizza success πŸ•

06.03.2026 00:19 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

hey guys quick question. does anyone know what’s going on. with anything

03.03.2026 03:27 β€” πŸ‘ 1237    πŸ” 197    πŸ’¬ 38    πŸ“Œ 20

They are so cool!!

02.03.2026 19:39 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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American Library Association employees forming union with AFSCME Joining the wave of union organizing among cultural workers, employees of the primarily Chicago-based American Library Association (ALA) announced they are forming their union with AFSCME Council 31.T...

Shoutout to my friends at the American Library Association who are forming a union! Let’s get some @jortsthecat.bsky.social energy up in here! πŸ“šπŸ‘ πŸ“šπŸ‘ πŸ“šπŸ‘

afscme31.org/news/america...

02.03.2026 18:23 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1

If you’re in Louisville you should come to Awry Brewing tonight at 7 and watch me play a live game of Daggerheart. I have never played a TTRPG in front of an audience. I have only played Daggerheart once. It’s gonna be great! πŸ˜‚πŸ˜­

28.02.2026 20:09 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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28.02.2026 13:28 β€” πŸ‘ 9024    πŸ” 2775    πŸ’¬ 80    πŸ“Œ 75

Yes!! A perfect day!

26.02.2026 02:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

There’s something very charming about Louisville in the spring. Yes, I realize it’s February. But it feels like spring today.

25.02.2026 21:47 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
Book cover of My Parents Are Dead: What Now? A Panic-Free Guide to the Practicalities of Death by Becky Robison

Book cover of My Parents Are Dead: What Now? A Panic-Free Guide to the Practicalities of Death by Becky Robison

The whole thing is very reminiscent of @rebb003.bsky.social's new book, which you should definitely get!

25.02.2026 19:23 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you for sharing! Also, what a relatable song!

25.02.2026 19:40 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Book 9 of 2026: WOLF IN WHITE VAN by @themountaingoats.bsky.social. I first read it about a decade ago, but something called me to re-read it now. Maybe it’s that the bleak violence of today’s world makes escape in a game seem appealing. But it’s not escape, just another layer of reality.

25.02.2026 15:35 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Absolutely THRILLED that this happened at my book event, love is real πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—

23.02.2026 03:25 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Finally read R.F. Kuang’s novel BABEL this year and really liked it. Also enjoyed Tom Crewe’s THE NEW LIFE and StΓ©phane Larue’s LE PLONGEUR, which I read in French because I’m *fancy* but has been translated into English as THE DISH WASHER.

23.02.2026 03:22 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I dream one day of getting on this website and seeing men everywhere getting upset about info like this and like Epstein because men’s violence and cruelty gives them a bad fucking name and it is THE THING that makes them lonely. Imagine if they tackled the problem they created

21.02.2026 15:54 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Book 8 of 2026: THE NEW LIFE by Tom Crewe. A queer historical fiction in which nearly every character is forced to make impossible choices they’d never be forced to make had they lived a century later. Our existence in the new life (or something closer to it) makes the novel more hopeful.

21.02.2026 03:47 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Oh that’s a good thought! I did think Heated Rivalry had some bangers (pun intended I guess)

21.02.2026 00:01 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you!

21.02.2026 00:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œCat People (Putting Out Fire)” by David Bowie. Do you think they would let me incorporate pyrotechnics into my free skate?

20.02.2026 23:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Having trouble finding new music to get excited about. Any artists you’re enjoying these days? I like most everything except country. (Alt country sometimes acceptable.)

19.02.2026 23:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I don’t really believe in hell, but if it does indeed exist, I hope whoever invented the stock market is burning there.

18.02.2026 20:45 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Pink, white, and yellow text on purple and pink background says: come connect and celebrate games! Table Top Mixer & Daggerheart live show. February 28 @ 7pm. Sponsored by Darrington Press. Awry Brewing 1025 Barret Ave Louisville KY 40204. Free entry! The text is surrounded by various TTRPG iconographyβ€”dice, swords, etc.

Pink, white, and yellow text on purple and pink background says: come connect and celebrate games! Table Top Mixer & Daggerheart live show. February 28 @ 7pm. Sponsored by Darrington Press. Awry Brewing 1025 Barret Ave Louisville KY 40204. Free entry! The text is surrounded by various TTRPG iconographyβ€”dice, swords, etc.

Louisville, I have been roped into playing Daggerheart in front of a live audience. Come have a beer and be part of that audience. 🍻

#louisville #ttrpg

17.02.2026 20:49 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Pink, white, and yellow text on purple and pink background says: come connect and celebrate games! Table Top Mixer & Daggerheart live show. February 28 @ 7pm. Sponsored by Darrington Press. Awry Brewing 1025 Barret Ave Louisville KY 40204. Free entry! The text is surrounded by various TTRPG iconographyβ€”dice, swords, etc.

Pink, white, and yellow text on purple and pink background says: come connect and celebrate games! Table Top Mixer & Daggerheart live show. February 28 @ 7pm. Sponsored by Darrington Press. Awry Brewing 1025 Barret Ave Louisville KY 40204. Free entry! The text is surrounded by various TTRPG iconographyβ€”dice, swords, etc.

Louisville, I have been roped into playing Daggerheart in front of a live audience. Come have a beer and be part of that audience. 🍻

#louisville #ttrpg

17.02.2026 20:49 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My mom was born in 1953, and when she was in high school they had to take music appreciation class. She knew all these classical composers because she had to learn to recognize them in school. By the time I was in high school anything like that was optional if it existed at all. πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

17.02.2026 02:49 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I think sometimes when notaries work for banks or another private institution, they’re bonded by that institution, and the institution in question doesn’t want to take on the liability. But I am not bonded by anyone but myself!

15.02.2026 23:20 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Hey Louisville! I hear you need your medical marijuana card applications notarized? And that some banks are turning people away? I, your friendly neighborhood notary, shall never turn you away. Just buy me a coffee or drink. 😘

15.02.2026 23:16 β€” πŸ‘ 31    πŸ” 11    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

As a matter of fact πŸ˜‚

15.02.2026 03:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Book 7 of 2026: LE PLONGEUR by StΓ©phane Larue. It’s been forever since I read a book in French, but I figured my recent trip to Montreal was a good excuseβ€”especially because this novel is a romp through Montreal’s drug- and booze-fueled restaurant scene from the perspective of a new dishwasher.

15.02.2026 02:32 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1