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Nilou Davoudi

@kotlet00.bsky.social

PhD Candidate @UBC | @UniofOxford Alumna | Research in Death, Mourning, and Memoria On Social Media | Compulsive Reader, Traveller, Whirler, Teacup Collector

132 Followers  |  155 Following  |  18 Posts  |  Joined: 11.12.2023  |  2.0988

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Omg

11.10.2025 00:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
β€œThey should be grateful. I’d give anything to see my grandfather dance with Peter Griffin again.”

Phil Chamblee, Lunch Fetcher

β€œThey should be grateful. I’d give anything to see my grandfather dance with Peter Griffin again.” Phil Chamblee, Lunch Fetcher

AI Deepfakes Of Dead Celebrities Spark Outrage
https://theonion.com/ai-deepfakes-of-dead-celebrities-spark-outrage/

10.10.2025 21:30 β€” πŸ‘ 413    πŸ” 20    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0
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When β€œno” means β€œyes”: Why AI chatbots can’t process Persian social etiquette New study examines how a helpful AI response could become a cultural disaster in Iran.

New research shows how AI models default to Western-style directness, missing the cultural cues that govern everyday interactions for millions of Persian speakers worldwide β€” with the potential to derail negotiations, damage relationships, and reinforce stereotypes. arstechnica.com/ai/2025/09/w...

02.10.2025 13:31 β€” πŸ‘ 20    πŸ” 10    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 2

Omg this is so good 😍😍

07.09.2025 23:07 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A privilege and a joy to spend these past few days thinking and chatting about death at #ddd17 in Utrecht!! Grateful to the organisers for such a lovely and lively gathering β€” and to Anna for the photo!! πŸ₯Ήβœ¨

29.08.2025 21:20 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Aww thank you so much Anna!!! πŸ₯ΉπŸ₯Ή

29.08.2025 21:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Congrats Bri!!! πŸ₯³πŸ₯³

06.08.2025 21:51 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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In the latest from the @science.org podcast series of books on science and death, we hear about the fate of virtual you after physical death w/ @tamigraph.bsky.social
www.science.org/content/podc...

30.06.2025 14:58 β€” πŸ‘ 16    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

I struggle with framing it as a choice between two states, especially when both have inflicted suffering for so many. Maybe it’s not about choosing a side. I just hope we can all hold space for grief, complexity, and compassion.

18.06.2025 05:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I think you care, otherwise you wouldn’t be engaging at all. I have family and loved ones in Iran. I am worried and scared. All I ask is that we try, even briefly, to put ourselves in each other’s shoes. And if you’re living somewhere safe and peaceful, I hope you get to feel that privilege deeply.❀️

18.06.2025 05:30 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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β€œi asked chatgpt” β€œi asked grok” well i asked the grinning bobcat why he grinned

18.06.2025 04:00 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Supporting secularism and opposing Iran’s theocracy is valid. But calling for β€œIsraeli victory” to topple it ignores the violence. This isn’t the World Cup. One oppressive regime can’t liberate another. Real change comes from the people inside the country not foreign firepower.

18.06.2025 05:18 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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David, famous for his undisclosed nuclear arsenal

13.06.2025 07:54 β€” πŸ‘ 82    πŸ” 11    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1

Our Beautiful Iran πŸ₯Ήβ€οΈ

17.06.2025 20:43 β€” πŸ‘ 313    πŸ” 29    πŸ’¬ 10    πŸ“Œ 0
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Nothing makes the world’s saddest losers madder than a woman with a PhD…or a woman getting a PhD….or a woman

25.05.2025 13:35 β€” πŸ‘ 388    πŸ” 58    πŸ’¬ 16    πŸ“Œ 2

we already have technology to upload/download your personality when you die, we've had it for at least 3000 years, it's called becoming a ghost and haunting or possessing people, fully organic and available in your area from local artisans

23.05.2025 14:01 β€” πŸ‘ 1432    πŸ” 300    πŸ’¬ 25    πŸ“Œ 12

Academics will be like, β€œI’m a genocide scholar and my work is very important” then refuse to comment on any genocide from this century.

30.04.2025 08:02 β€” πŸ‘ 68    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm happy to see so many people embracing therapy.

Some of you need an exorcism as well, but…one step at a time!

11.04.2025 01:41 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

i hope you’re doing well. despite literally everything

07.04.2025 21:41 β€” πŸ‘ 878    πŸ” 572    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 3
TikTok & Grief: Panel Presentations
YouTube video by TikTok Cultures Research Network TikTok & Grief: Panel Presentations

The TikTok & Grief presentations are now on YouTube! πŸ₯³
I had the privilege of presenting our research, "#GriefJourney: Narrating Grief in 60 Seconds on TikTok," alongside my colleague and friend, @himanijoshi.bsky.social.
Check out the presentations here:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Kr6...

27.03.2025 17:40 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Happy #Norouz everyone! It’s the first day of #spring (at long last!). Wishing you all a lovely season of renewal, joy, and fresh beginnings! Oh, and a very happy #InternationalDayofHappiness, too! May your day be as bright as a field of flowers! 🌱🌷πŸͺ»πŸŒΌ

20.03.2025 18:49 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Updated hourly

09.02.2025 18:51 β€” πŸ‘ 114    πŸ” 13    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
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TikTok + Grief: An Online Symposium on TikTok, Loss and Connection Join us for a deep dive into the world of TikTok, grief, and how we can find connection through it all.

πŸ‘€ upcoming TikTok and grief seminar from The Mourning After team

www.eventbrite.com/e/tiktok-gri...

12.02.2025 15:45 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Courage! It all works out in the end! Sending you all the good vibes and fingers crossed for wonderful news soon!✨✨✨

17.01.2025 19:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Sage Journals: Discover world-class research Subscription and open access journals from Sage, the world's leading independent academic publisher.

Hi friends! Our latest paper, β€œCome with me on my β€œgriefjourney”: First-person narratives of grief on TikTok” is now live! We explore how #TikTok users navigate their experience of loss and how the platform contributes to the evolving nature of digitally mediated mourning.

doi.org/10.1177/1054...

17.01.2025 19:04 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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12 years. RIP my darling boy.

11.01.2025 17:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1581    πŸ” 315    πŸ’¬ 23    πŸ“Œ 18

PhDs will be like "I should be done early next year, or nine years, or never"

04.01.2025 17:20 β€” πŸ‘ 44    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Stay tuned for our paper out soon! Also, I am curious about how others see the role of platforms like TikTok in grievingβ€”does it offer support, or does it risk commodifying grief, or something else? If this resonates, let's connect! ☺️

20.12.2024 19:03 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Navigating the #Griefjourney: How TikTok Users Share Their Grief | Digital Death: Transforming History, Rituals and Afterlife | University of Helsinki

Hi Bluesky friends! Just wanted to share my recent blog post with @helsinkiuni.bsky.social Digital Death (DiDe) research consortium. In this piece, I draw from our forthcoming study on how TikTok is emerging as a space for sharing experiences of grief and loss:
www.helsinki.fi/en/researchg...

20.12.2024 19:03 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

What an embarrassing time to be alive

17.12.2024 19:09 β€” πŸ‘ 6780    πŸ” 758    πŸ’¬ 146    πŸ“Œ 30

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