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Nyika

@puzzledbyadream.bsky.social

PhD student studying neurodivergent culture and the neoliberal standard of β€˜normal’ within universities. Neurodivergent, pan, sea enjoyer, lady-in-waiting to Astrid and Fin the cats. Belle and Sebastian fan, 6music Dad. πŸ‡¬πŸ‡§ in πŸ‡³πŸ‡Ώ

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Yeah, I actually prefer the 6 episode series format of uk comedies as they tend to be better quality, but it makes them a very short lived watch!

07.03.2026 22:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

his killer being a man who murdered three people including a pregnant woman who he also raped is a perfect demonstration of how β€˜paedophile hunters’ are just violent men looking for a socially acceptable target for their violence

07.03.2026 10:02 β€” πŸ‘ 450    πŸ” 104    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 2
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I have made three new friends they are called Joanne, Jane and Sandra.

07.03.2026 10:05 β€” πŸ‘ 230    πŸ” 34    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 1

Saw a car with the number plate β€œH4NG10” today, and that could only have been more kiwi if it was a Toyota Hilux.

07.03.2026 10:02 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The gap in my resume? That’s when I worked at the Gap, dumbass

07.03.2026 00:41 β€” πŸ‘ 54    πŸ” 14    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
Scientific paper published in PubMed. 

Heading: Object personification in autism: This paper will be very sad if you don't read it.

Authors: Rebekah C White et all.

Autism, 2018 May.

For those curious, here's the original paper: https://discovery.ucl.ac.uk/id/eprint/10053878/1/Personification%20in%20autism_final%20accepted.pdf

Scientific paper published in PubMed. Heading: Object personification in autism: This paper will be very sad if you don't read it. Authors: Rebekah C White et all. Autism, 2018 May. For those curious, here's the original paper: https://discovery.ucl.ac.uk/id/eprint/10053878/1/Personification%20in%20autism_final%20accepted.pdf

Nobel Prize For Titles. Right away.

07.03.2026 09:36 β€” πŸ‘ 116    πŸ” 31    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 4

As a child I was only allowed eggs cooked all the way through because of β€œsalmonella”. In sixth form I went on a geography residential and tried a runny egg for the first time.

I didn’t like it πŸ’”

07.03.2026 09:49 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Matt Goodwin's new job could be in Christchurch

07.03.2026 09:39 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh episode 4 is a bit sad, isn't it?

07.03.2026 08:39 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I am just constantly reminded of the fact Super Hans' band in Peep Show was briefly "Danny Dyer's Chocolate Homonculi" though.

07.03.2026 08:07 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Absolutely devouring Small Prophets. Just the strangest, strangest premise for a sitcom, but it's really good, isn't it?

07.03.2026 08:06 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

That is interesting! I've no idea, tbh I thought being iron-deficient would just make me tired, it's astonishing to me that my skin just decided to heal really, really slowly.

07.03.2026 08:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

(One of the best dance classes I went to was Blues dancing, which in Bristol was completely gender neutral, you just had a quick chat about who leads and who follows. Didn't keep going though because "close hold" was just a bit too intimate for me)

07.03.2026 06:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

(Although I say this with two extreme left feet and absolutely no talent for dancing, and also quite a big dislike of clubbing. But I do like to dance. I do not dance well, but it's just fun, isn't it? I went to a lindy hop class once and jfc how do you even do that?)

07.03.2026 06:53 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I think it probably is, but you know. Anyway, I think it is sad that going out dancing became whatever clubbing is now (and even clubbing is, I expect, on the way out).

07.03.2026 06:52 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Christ, you can tell I am in deep with critical theory brain at the moment because I was thinking about The Kinks song Come Dancing, and thinking it was sort of sad that people don't "go dancing" any more. Then my brain was like "huh, is the nightclub a symbol of neoliberal hyper-individualism?"

07.03.2026 06:50 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

we must reduce our dependence on carbon. please, switch to spaghetti solarara

07.03.2026 03:49 β€” πŸ‘ 176    πŸ” 38    πŸ’¬ 11    πŸ“Œ 4

Oh man I bought my usual deodorant in a β€œsummer” edition and it smells like cleaning fluid.

07.03.2026 01:35 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

When I came back with super low ferritin (from my immigration medical, which was SO annoying) my GP had me do a FIT test, and that was how I got referred for a colonoscopy. It’s definitely worth asking!

07.03.2026 00:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Anyway if your skin isn’t healing very well, get your ferritin levels checked.

06.03.2026 23:47 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Have had multiple mosquito bites in the last few months and all have healed to completion in about a month. Had one I got in October 2024 in Naples which left a mark until at least May last year. Bodies! Fascinating!

06.03.2026 23:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The skin thing though. So I’d thought I’d just become very prone to scars all of a sudden, as any cuts on my legs in particular would leave a pink mark that just wouldn’t go. Astonishing to find that if my iron reserves get too low my skin just… doesn’t heal properly.

06.03.2026 23:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

So last year it turned out I had basically no iron stores because I had a bowel polyp that had gone undetected. Since getting it removed and my iron has gone back up, I’ve noticed that my skin heals so much better, and my hair is getting even thicker. Also more energy etc.

06.03.2026 23:44 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

You’d think, right!

06.03.2026 11:31 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

So Philip Glass just joined TikTok. He only has like 4 posts and they’re simply him in what I assume is his living room playing the piano. First comment on one I saw was β€œyour piano is too close to the fireplace, you’ll dry it out” and if that’s not the internet in a nutshell I don’t know what is.

06.03.2026 03:10 β€” πŸ‘ 4414    πŸ” 831    πŸ’¬ 55    πŸ“Œ 55

Personally I think she’s just annoyed she’s no longer relevant. I mean I have her book somewhere.

06.03.2026 10:32 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

[being bullied by a group of teenagers on the top deck of a bus] but i have usernames older than you

06.03.2026 08:51 β€” πŸ‘ 37    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Tbf I am probably a bit sensitive to the Frith stuff because the NHS said similar to me. I wasn’t even describing social anxiety to them. Just funny that when women get diagnosed people queue up to discredit them.

06.03.2026 10:14 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If it was just that I am β€œvery anxious in social situations” why have I had lifelong difficulties with the way others perceive me and sensory stuff?

06.03.2026 10:13 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0