@bellasmith0705.bsky.social
Human Behavior/Psychology Enthusiast, Empath, Introvert, INFJ. Loves to write about life, psychology and relationships❤️❤️ let's connect: https://linktr.ee/bellasmith0705
sometimes healing looks like:
not texting back
choosing silence over drama
being boring on purpose
quiet is peace and peace is powerful.❤️❤️
we crave deep connections but settle for surface ones.
we tell half our story just to avoid scaring people off.
but we deserve someone who says, “tell me more.”❤️❤️
you always try to be the strong one.
but who do you turn to when you’re breaking?
it’s hard to be the healer and still be hurting.
you deserve support, too.❤️❤️
for those who know me and my way of writing, you will understand this.
for those who are new and judgmental, it is up to you how you absorb this.
you say “sorry” too much because you were taught your needs were a burden.
but needing space, love, or rest isn’t wrong.
start saying “thank you for understanding” instead.❤️❤️
"Maybe clarity isn’t something we find , but just something that finds us once we commit"
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05.06.2025 01:21 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Yep😁
05.06.2025 01:20 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Happy thursday😁
05.06.2025 01:20 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0Yum❤️❤️
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03.06.2025 10:50 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0"Some people think they’re weak. But there’s a danger to a person who’s swallowed every insult, every betrayal, every fake apology."
03.06.2025 10:44 — 👍 10 🔁 1 💬 2 📌 1You think you're behind because others look so put together.
But everyone’s hiding something.
No one posts the full truth.
Your slow progress still counts❤️❤️.
Choosing pain over guilt doesn’t make you the hero that this world desperately needs. But at least you do not add to the villains that this world is already full of.
01.06.2025 14:04 — 👍 17 🔁 4 💬 0 📌 0"We don’t always get the ending we hope for. And sometimes, that’s the blessing."
31.05.2025 13:10 — 👍 10 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 0Emotional exhaustion feels like:
😪Wanting to cry for no reason
😪Avoiding texts
😪Not even enjoying things you used to love
Rest isn’t selfish.❤️❤️
Rooting for you❤️❤️
30.05.2025 08:36 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0You grew up thinking love meant fixing people.
That if you loved hard enough, they’d stop hurting you.
But love isn’t suffering.
You’re allowed to want calm.
Peace is love, too.
"Man is nothing else but what he makes of himself."
– Jean-Paul Sartre
"When you finally accept that no one is coming to save you, you stop being a victim and start being the one with the pen."
23.05.2025 12:29 — 👍 11 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 0You're not overreacting.
You’re just reacting to years of holding it all in.
Your pain didn’t start today.
It’s been building.
Give it a voice before it turns into silence that eats you alive.
Signs you're growing:
You pause before reacting
You set small boundaries
You start saying “no”
You care less about being liked
That’s healing, even if it feels awkward.