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Lady with a Fan

@harmonie-s.bsky.social

Lesbian trans woman veteran, deadhead, live production expert, Parisian girl, enraged member of the LGBTQIA2S+ Community. Account active, but I rarely look. I just can't

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@pzraidi.bsky.social hey Pat! Fellow New Englander, and masshole (although born in New Haven) also living in Paris!)

07.04.2025 15:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Reach out to me by D.M. I'll give you my Signal numberโ€ฆ I don't have enough people on there to really set up a group chat there yetโ€ฆ But I'm working on itโ€ฆ

05.03.2025 15:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

@thenbrsocal.bsky.social
5) focus on yourself first, then do what you can for your close ones, then the rest of our trans community, then branch out to the rest of the queers, be careful of so-called "allies" ... actions speak a lot louder than wordsโ€ฆ we've always been hereโ€ฆ We will always be here.

02.03.2025 01:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

@thenbrsocal.bsky.social
4) if you're really gonna be involved in organizing anything? Get on signalโ€ฆ Is the safest most secure communication app out there currently, and is not for profit, and it is run by a progressive boardโ€ฆ do not be specific on any Meta or other unsecured communicationโ€ฆ (tbc)

02.03.2025 01:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

@thenbrsocal.bsky.social
3) I am here preparing hereโ€ฆ I am also a veteran, and I swore to defend the constitution against all enemies foreign and domestic. If you know veterans, help remind them of their oathโ€ฆ If you know people in the darker parts of the government or formerlly so, reach out (tbc)

02.03.2025 01:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

@thenbrsocal.bsky.social
2) there is no safe place to goโ€ฆ There are safer places, and everybody has to do what they can to make themselves as safe as possibleโ€ฆ I am very fortunate that I myself have been able to leave the country for now, and I am in a safe place where I'm a citizen. (TBC)

02.03.2025 01:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

@thenbrsocal.bsky.social
1) I just saw your post and saw your existence and have come to this group.โ€ฆ 200 characters is not enough for me to start talking so I'll probably nest a bunch... but let's start at the beginningโ€ฆ They are coming for us... it's not going to end peacefullyโ€ฆ (tbc)

02.03.2025 01:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

What independent media are you referring to? I'm not aware of much of it anymore

19.01.2025 23:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Not exactlyโ€ฆ Butโ€ฆ Anybody who joined the United States military at any point in the enlisted drinks at least sworn oath to "defend the constitution of the United States against all enemies foreign and DOMESTIC." I hope enough of us remember that... because what else would you call them right nowโ€ฆ

19.01.2025 23:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ‡ซ๐Ÿ‡ท๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฑ

03.12.2024 06:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thank you for posting this. I will be distributing this far and wide

27.11.2024 11:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I love it when the MAGAts out themselves

24.11.2024 13:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

She still doesโ€ฆ But if she starts to break the rules of the house they will toss her out or otherwise prevent her from having an impactโ€ฆ I totally understand and agree with her decision here.

21.11.2024 15:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Because a lot of those people are actively hostile to us and if some of them come in unknown they can find out who we are and do or attack us or come at usโ€ฆ These aren't just peopleโ€ฆ These aren't just opinionsโ€ฆ These are Nazis and hateful humansโ€ฆ

21.11.2024 15:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Thank you for joining usโ€ฆ We need as much rainbow energy as we can getโ€ฆ And maybe that place will with her on the vineโ€ฆ

18.11.2024 21:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I always make sure that my outfits match my boobs ๐Ÿ’•

18.11.2024 21:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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#Parispride
Je suis venu ร  Paris pour la premiรจre fois en tant que moi-mรชme et j'ai dรฉcouvert toutes sortes de super petits endroits pour les femmes les fรฉministes les lesbiennes :) et je suis tellement heureuse

18.11.2024 21:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This! So much this!

18.11.2024 13:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm doing the sameโ€ฆ And I'm even calling out people who put Ally in their profileโ€ฆ that's not a title that people should take for themselvesโ€ฆ And not all of us know that somebody is safe and we haven't negotiated any kind of alignment with them, They shouldn't be calling themselves alliesโ€ฆ

18.11.2024 02:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Posted two groups on my wall, but their groups that you will click on and you will block a whole bunch of conservatives and hatersโ€ฆ Welcome

18.11.2024 01:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Yes......

17.11.2024 21:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So please if you read this and you've been using that on your profile, don't feel shamed don't feel bad, but take the opportunity to learnโ€ฆ
Thank you for coming to my TEDtalk.
Love to all! ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿ’•
(Trust but verify)

17.11.2024 16:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Some of you I know, and I will grant you that titleโ€ฆ But many people don't know you and there are many people out there who I don't knowโ€ฆ We have to be careful right nowโ€ฆ This is a very scary time for usโ€ฆ

17.11.2024 16:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You may say safe person, fighting the patriarchy, racism, transphobia, a warrior for justice, or anything that shows you are ready to stand up. But ally has a very specific meaning, and there are plenty of people who will claim the title and not be there when it countsโ€ฆ

17.11.2024 16:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Please don't use the word ally on your profile.
In my opinion ally is not a tittle to be claimed, but rather one to be given or be agreed to, as an alliance is something to be agreed to, and since you can't negotiate with every LGBTQIA2S+ person you should refrain from using it.

17.11.2024 16:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Princess Leia behind text saying 
"A woman's place is in the resistance"

Princess Leia behind text saying "A woman's place is in the resistance"

Rainbow colored sign saying
"it's a beautiful day to smash the patriarchy"

Rainbow colored sign saying "it's a beautiful day to smash the patriarchy"

A femme person on a white unicorn riding under a rainbow umbrella, a rainbow sky, and over rainbow ground

A femme person on a white unicorn riding under a rainbow umbrella, a rainbow sky, and over rainbow ground

A photograph of Harmonie in a field dressed in purple garb and wielding two LED whips!

A photograph of Harmonie in a field dressed in purple garb and wielding two LED whips!

Hey non-LGBTQIA2S+ folx:
Welcome to my TEDtalkโ€ฆ I'm asking you something that you may find insulting, but please read all the way through. It's important.
Don't use the word ally on your profile.
(Continued in the comments)

17.11.2024 16:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 9    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 4    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Likewise! What an amazing day that was. Thank you again for stepping up!

17.11.2024 16:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Another great list of bad actors... easy way to help curate a safe blue sky experience

17.11.2024 15:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1