Orion - please don't repost

Screenshot of the top of a Bsky feed, with a red circle around the hamburger menu in the top left.

Wondering why no one likes your posts anymore, even among your friends? It's because @jay.bsky.team and team have decided to hide a huge amount of content from all of our feeds by default.

Here's how to turn it off.

First go to the hamburger menu in the upper left corner

I was reminded of this video the other day, which I've apparently never posted here. Enjoy!

I'm grateful you did

That can be arranged!

I had to sell some of my leatger that didn't fit any more, so I've got myself some 2nd hand short chaps, which I'm very pleased with!

There's been a lot of life that's happened in the last few months, which is why I've rarely been here. Things are going very well with the new man, we've met each other's parents and he's just moved his toothbrush into my bathroom. It feels like like I've known him for years and couldn't be happier!

I need a trip to London soon. I like to visit a couple of times a year, but it's slipped to the back of my mind in recent months.

IT'S DOWNLOADING!

Happy for you! I'm still mashing F5 :-/

Have you been able to get it yet? It looks like it broke Steam's payment system

It's a terrible process, but when you finally end up in the new place and you can say it's truly YOURS, that feels incredible.

You've had a particularly rough ride of it, but you're almost there now. The end's in sight!

Birmingham leather weekend was a lot of fun! Managed a little less than planned due to it falling over a difficult anniversary, but still managed some socialising and sold a bunch of old gear at the second hand market.

It's a fun event and it was really nice seeing people travel for it.

For me?

But outside of the session itself, I really enjoy the ache of the bruising that thuds give. I want to be able to feel it deep in my muscles a few days later

Personally, I find that stings are much harder to get a good session with, as it only takes going slightly too hard too soon for me to want to check out. Lots of thud with the occasional sting is a much safer way to get me into that space.

Does anyone else have issues with the bluesky app logging itself out? Sometimes it'll be couple of weeks, but recently it's as frequent as every other day.

Gay life doesn't make sense sometimes. I can't tell you why holding hands on the sofa while watching a film is more intimate than naked wrestling and getting sloppily bred, but it is.

That's relateable. It's normally a long process of figuring everything out, apart from a handful of guys who just know what buttons to press at the right time.

I'm very much enjoying getting stronger and seeing the changes in my body, but my thighs don't fit into my chaps any more.

With my shoulders also being too big for my shirts and bar vest, I've barely got any leather that's fits me any more. It's a body image boost that my wallet is crying about.

With a mostly smooth head and a grabbable tuft in the middle, I'm enjoying my hair at the moment.

After years of using an electric razor to trim around the mohawk, I tried a wet shave. I might be converted!

Following that, I met up with some friends, sang karaoke, and kissed a cute boy. A massive roast the following day with a friend who'd recently moved rounded off the weekend nicely.

First weekend was in London. I'd been wanting to re-engage with being a dog, which is a side of me that I'd neglected since the husband passed away. A friend who knew my whole history helped me explore it as my handler, which was both fun amd cathartic. A very positive experience all round.

I've had a couple of really good weekends, although it appears I've now picked up a bug that's hit me pretty hard. While I'm feeling a little sorry for myself, I'm going to reminisce on the good times of late.

I think I need a closer view

Are you suffering from wine flu?

Hung out with him again, spent about 4 hours just chatting.

Yep, it's definitely a crush. We're going to watch some films together soon.

I now have a gym within walking distance. Until I'm able to get my own setup sorted, I'm going to lean into being a Gym Wanker for a bit.

It's been such a long time, but I've developed a bit of a crush on someone who seems genuinely compatible. I'm not going to put too many expectations on it going anywhere, but it's just nice to feel that there's a possibility

I've been craving a cuddle buddy lately. I just wanna be a little spoon.