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BigBoyJoe

@bigboyjoe.bsky.social

He/They, enby, powerlifter, gamer, hole. A boy and sometimes a daddy. West Midlands, UK based - HIV+ and undetectable - partnered and open.

1,944 Followers  |  2,441 Following  |  107 Posts  |  Joined: 25.09.2023
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Yes Sir πŸ₯΅

17.02.2026 09:21 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Dawww thank you - I’ll need to come back for a visit after surgery is all sorted 😘

15.02.2026 14:50 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s a hospital policy so there’s isn’t really much I can do short of changing the system. So I’m a tad stuck.

But either way I can make the weight loss happen and almost there already

08.02.2026 00:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Ah always good to find similar people! Thank you.... good luck on your journey too! Always happy to talk and offer advice/lend an ear πŸ₯°

05.02.2026 16:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Very sarcastic.... I even said to the doctor that I'm muscular so that's where the weight it.

She understands but it's sadly hospital policy. I only have a few more kg to go!

05.02.2026 16:35 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Now to get all my supplies and prep work cover and the dreaded loan-speaking of-my gofundme is in my pinned post if anybody would like to donate. I’m starting a second temp job soon to give it a last push to reduce my incoming debt - but any help anybody wants to give would be greatly appreciated πŸ₯°

05.02.2026 09:04 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Annnnnd

I’ve officially got everything signed off for surgery!! πŸŽ‰ I need to contact her secretary in a couple of weeks but we’re looking at an April surgery date!!! It’s happening!!!

05.02.2026 09:03 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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I have been a quiet bean lately as lots going on… but multiple good things I wanted to shout about.

I’m down 4kgs in the last 2 weeks and have only got a a little more weight to lose for surgery (because clearly.. I’m obese πŸ™ƒ #bmisucks)

05.02.2026 09:03 β€” πŸ‘ 41    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

So hot 🀣😘

05.01.2026 08:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I place myself face down in submissive mode and end my turn.

02.12.2025 16:55 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

A) outrageous - you shall be punished.
B) good little bro
C) always - but maybe you’ll be too tied up 😏

02.12.2025 08:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You’re a big, strong good boy … I’ll have a ham and cheese roll please little bro 😏😘

01.12.2025 18:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’ll sort you out tomorrow πŸ₯΅

28.11.2025 07:35 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I misunderstood β€œsub Β£200 laptop” and imagined something different πŸ‘€

26.11.2025 16:52 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Sometimes things can be both sexy AND silly.

Please see exhibit A for the silliness:

24.11.2025 10:56 β€” πŸ‘ 51    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

It was said in the voice of Patrick

23.11.2025 21:12 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I hadn’t planned on someone shouting β€œSpongeBob” into my ass today but here we are 🀣

23.11.2025 20:30 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

I will soon 😈

21.11.2025 15:17 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I have exactly the same and my back too. I’m just trying to learn what works and what doesn’t and then overall just kind of accept we’re humans and not perfect πŸ«‚

18.11.2025 18:21 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m also so thankful to have such lovely people in my life who support me and are also excited both for me, and for the future intimacy we get to have.

It’s odd to feel a bit emotional over a letter but here we are πŸ₯°

18.11.2025 14:26 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I got my psychiatry approval letter (draft) today which needed minimal amendments. Already sent back and so excited that it’s the last thing I needed to progress with surgery.

It felt so easy talking to the doctor about how I felt and I’m so excited that I’m almost there.

18.11.2025 14:26 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

You have people around you that are here to support you. The first step is always the scariest but it will get easier πŸ₯°

11.11.2025 15:03 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh - and this was right after I had my second (and final) psych approval for surgery - so I should now have everything I need to have surgery - we’re almost there!

(Shameless plug for those who want to help gofund.me/68d137fd9)

10.11.2025 23:10 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Feeling very happy after a long weekend away with Daddy at a hypnosis convention. So many awesome memories and seeing lots of familiar faces and new ones too!

And filth… the filth was gooooood 🀀

I have also unleashed my hypnotic Dom side and I am apparently a menace πŸ‘€

10.11.2025 23:08 β€” πŸ‘ 42    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Soon 😏

07.11.2025 08:07 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I am a weird bean

06.11.2025 11:53 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

They’re not as nice as those!! I need more of them 🀀

06.11.2025 11:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m a chocolate fan - but you’re right they’re not good… I still like them from time to time though 🀣

06.11.2025 10:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

What flavour? They’re not good, but not bad either - I kinda like that

06.11.2025 10:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0