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Dr Annetta Mallon PhD

@gdepau.bsky.social

"The Grief Whisperer of Bluesky"* Writer, grief / trauma recovery psychotherapist, dogs, humour, death literacy, EOL doula, atheist, SocSci research. Ally and safe space. Pallitorre Country lutruwita/Tasmania *Bluesky Roast does not lie!

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Based on weekly video diaries I created in the year following my mother's death, this show takes you into the mind and heart of a grief therapist who confirms that there is no one way to 'do grief right'.

#grief #humour #GriefWhisperer #AdelaideFringe

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A blue background with a QR ticket link code in the lower right corner. Text reads " My mum died - RUDE! What happens when: ...a grief therapist... has three significant deaths... in five monts... Find out in this funny and throughtful one-woman show! Thursday Feg 26th, March 5th The Ballroom 7:30pm Saturday Feb 28th Henry's Bar 8:30pm "

A blue background with a QR ticket link code in the lower right corner. Text reads " My mum died - RUDE! What happens when: ...a grief therapist... has three significant deaths... in five monts... Find out in this funny and throughtful one-woman show! Thursday Feg 26th, March 5th The Ballroom 7:30pm Saturday Feb 28th Henry's Bar 8:30pm "

The @adlfrin.ge festival is about to begin, and my world premiere show My mum died - RUDE! is on next Thursday!

Tickets selling fast, come along and say hi. Bring your friends, I'm fun!

20.02.2026 00:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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A blue background with text for an Adelaide Fringe world premiere show, dates and times, and a QR booking code in the lower right corner

@adlfrin.ge is just around the corner! Theres some great shows on offer!!

Like mine: My mum died - RUDE! explores the year following my mother's death as I uploaded weekly video diaries to social media. Is it possible to ever "do grief right"? Find out in this funny and insightful one-woman show.

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Going to the Adelaide Fringe Festival this year? You can get $5 off in the flash sale today for my show! Thank you to Lumo Energy and @adlfrin.ge

Click the QR code, or follow the link to tickets - see you soon!

adelaidefringe.com.au/fringetix/my...

29.01.2026 03:56 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Happy to do acts of kindness of any size - today and always.

Also happy to continue calling my actions "acts of kindness" because I'm an atheist Australian who isn't interested in propping up religious organisations and their representatives by reproducing language allied to a belief-based cause

22.01.2026 01:17 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1

Happy to do acts of kindness of any size - today and always.

Also happy to continue calling my actions "acts of kindness" because I'm an atheist Australian who isn't interested in propping up religious organisations and their representatives by reproducing language allied to a belief-based cause

22.01.2026 01:17 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1
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#GriefWhisperer #AskAnnetta #GDEPau #grief

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A post with the mid-blue Adelaide Fringe Festival frame enclosing a picture of a woman with white curly hair and text. " My mum died - RUDE! Want to know what happens for a grief therapist in the year after her own mother's death? You'll be surprised at the notes I took! " A ticket link and scannable QR code are at the bottom.

A post with the mid-blue Adelaide Fringe Festival frame enclosing a picture of a woman with white curly hair and text. " My mum died - RUDE! Want to know what happens for a grief therapist in the year after her own mother's death? You'll be surprised at the notes I took! " A ticket link and scannable QR code are at the bottom.

The fabulous and fun Adelaide Fringe Festival is coming up next month - and you can see me there too!

Tickets on sale now: adelaidefringe.com.au/fringetix/my...

Adelaide Fringe #event #AdelaideFringe #GriefWhisperer #AskAnnetta #fun

13.01.2026 02:37 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Join the dots

#onepercentclub
#rulingclass

#billionaires #Hancock #Stokes #Forrest etc
#resources #mining
#war. #adf #Olympics #surflifesaving #uncletobys #nutrigrain #AIS #sponsors
#industry
#ChristianRight #JudaeoChristoFascism

#white

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Why 'unjust' electoral finance laws threaten our democracy Challenging the laws supports Australians’ right to real choice at the ballot box – it's about ensuring elections remain open to competition.

#Auspol should be a lot madder about this.

'Australia’s new electoral laws have all the hallmarks of a cartel move ... This is not reform. It is a rort. It entrenches the major party duopoly at a time when Australians are asking for something different.'

www.thenewdaily.com.au/opinion/2026...

06.01.2026 21:35 β€” πŸ‘ 17    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 2

The monthly grief group at Deloraine House is this Friday at noon.

Please be at the front door by 5 minutes to 12.

#GriefWhisperer #Tasmania #ComCom #GriefLiteracy

07.01.2026 01:49 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#auspol
#priorities

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Happy New!

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The final Calvin and Hobbes, which appeared in papers 30 years ago today.

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Timezones are so weird. Australia is in 2026, Canada is in 2025, and the United States is in 1939.

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Our Annual Year 2025 January February March April May June July August September October November Sports Entertainment January February March April May June July August September October November Sports Entertainment

It has been The Onion's best year since we broke Watergate and subsequently, personally had Richard Nixon removed from office.

I'm going to share some personal favorite stories in this thread.

Please add your own, and visit the Our Annual Year recap below.

theonion.com/our-annual-y...

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I'll be on Afternoons with Amber Cunningham of ABC Radio Perth tomorrow, New Year's Eve!!

I was quoted in a recent ABC print article, then my details were requested, which is a flattering testament to my stance on clear language for end of life and advance planning. 😍

#happiness #AskAnnetta

30.12.2025 04:39 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It was reprehensible when people mocked condom usage at the height of the AIDS pandemic.

It is just as depraved to mock those wearing masks to reduce the spread of airborne viruses today.

Whenever someone takes any kind of step to protect public health, they should be applauded, not mocked.

28.12.2025 20:46 β€” πŸ‘ 6058    πŸ” 1474    πŸ’¬ 118    πŸ“Œ 39
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With every extinction, we lose not just a species but a treasure trove of knowledge Every new extinction ripples out beyond the affected species, from ecosystems to human knowledge across culture, spirituality and science.

With every extinction, we lose not just a species but a treasure trove of knowledge
theconversation.com/with-every-e...

28.12.2025 22:34 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

#auspol
#priorities

28.12.2025 22:37 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

No Day of Reflection for victims of men’s violence I notice. No special envoy on femicide. No armed squad offered to protect us, of course.
Nothing to see here.
#auspol

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#Auspol We should reverse our trade deal to accept US Beef @albomp.bsky.social

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Endangered parrots return to Tasmania in strong numbers It marks the second highest number recorded since monitoring began…

Endangered parrots return to Tasmania in strong numbers - Pulse Tasmania share.google/JPKmmIo351qy...

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Labor finds a way to implement Jillian Segal's madcap report β€” by not implementing it The government's response to the Segal review is to ignore its multiple unlawful recommendations, while taking steps on free speech that previously would have had critics howling with rage.

"The government’s response to the Segal review is to ignore its multiple unlawful recommendations ..." I hope he's right and they stay that way. Let's hope the IHRA definition adoption joins them in no-man's land. #Auspol
(Paywall article)
www.crikey.com.au/2025/12/19/j...

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Compassionate community structure and function: a standardised micro-model for end-of-life doulas and community members supporting those who wish to die at home - Annetta Mallon, 2021 Background: End-of-life doulas are an emerging, non-medical support and advocacy role for the dying and their caregivers. As more and more people are dying at h...

I'm so proud and amazed - happy to be contributing to a better, kinder and more supportive end of life space for all.

journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10....

#AskAnnetta #gdepau #EndOfLife #DeathDoula #ComCom #DeathLiteracy #community #support #happiness #EOLD

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A  variegated blue background with the 3 role Venn diagram of the Mallon Model - Intimate, Gatekeeper and Peripheral - with white text above and below. " My Mallon Model article has been downloaded over 6,000 times!!!! This model helps avoid burnout for end of life, disability and rehabilitation home support carers. (Free to download) #AskAnnetta gdep.com.au "

A variegated blue background with the 3 role Venn diagram of the Mallon Model - Intimate, Gatekeeper and Peripheral - with white text above and below. " My Mallon Model article has been downloaded over 6,000 times!!!! This model helps avoid burnout for end of life, disability and rehabilitation home support carers. (Free to download) #AskAnnetta gdep.com.au "

A few years back I created a micro-model supporting people who want to die at home with an aim to help streamline #EOLD work & eliminate carer burnout. I published a journal article in open-access (free). This model works for rehabilitation and disability - and has been downloaded over 6,000 times!

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#auspol

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#auspol
#priorities

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Were there moments that you missed? Anything that happened that’s on the cutting room floor?
I don’t think there’s anything I missed that I wish I’d gotten. I’ll give you a little anecdote: Stephen Miller was perhaps the most concerned about the portrait session. He asked me, β€œShould I smile or not smile?” and I said, β€œHow would you want to be portrayed?” We agreed that we would do a bit of both. And then when we were finished, he comes up to me to shake my hand and say goodbye. And he says to me, β€œYou know, you have a lot of power in the discretion you use to be kind to people.” And I looked at him and I said, β€œYou know, you do, too.”

Were there moments that you missed? Anything that happened that’s on the cutting room floor? I don’t think there’s anything I missed that I wish I’d gotten. I’ll give you a little anecdote: Stephen Miller was perhaps the most concerned about the portrait session. He asked me, β€œShould I smile or not smile?” and I said, β€œHow would you want to be portrayed?” We agreed that we would do a bit of both. And then when we were finished, he comes up to me to shake my hand and say goodbye. And he says to me, β€œYou know, you have a lot of power in the discretion you use to be kind to people.” And I looked at him and I said, β€œYou know, you do, too.”

The Vanity Fair photographer from the Susie Wiles story.

Holy. Shit.

www.washingtonpost.com/style/power/...

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